Originally Posted by
isabela_and_sisters
Original Poster's Question: Panagutan/barugan mos laki nka buntis ninyo? o ganahan mo bsag dli nalng kai basta lang naa ninyo ang baby?
If what you meant is "marriage" .... just because the woman is pregnant, you two have to get married? No way.....
You get married because you want to spend the rest of your lives together. Remember, no divorce in the Philippines and annulment is ridiculously expensive. If he is not the one and you've gotten married, so that means you'll never ever be getting married to anyone.
If what you mean is "financial and emotional support" to the woman while she is pregnant and for the baby and raising the baby together.... hell yeah!
If the man is nothing but a douche bag, this case getting pregnant and having a child with this kind of man is a mistake in the first place... so take the baby away. He won't be a good example for the baby. And the woman's chance of having a second chance hopefully in the future will be dim. Life is too short to allow anyone to take you backwards and in a hole. Samok kaayo!!!!
Original Poster's Question: Sa mga guys pod ganahan mo makaila sa inyong anak? o sugot rpod mu nga dli ipaila sa inahan sa baby ang baby dha ninyo?
Being the big sister of two grown men and the breadwinner for quite sometime now.... of course, if makabuntis akong brothers, I want them to be responsible fathers. I also want to be involved. I won't let them be married if they are not sure. But I will be supportive "financially and emotionally" for both while the woman is pregnant and for raising the child. My brothers are good responsible men kay maldita kaayo ang ate!!!! (yours truly, bow).
I don't see any reason ngano either one of my brothers will find a woman who would deny them of their fatherly obligations and rights. But if ever man gani, sorry to say pero manghilabot jud ko because I would want the right to be an "aunt" also.
Simbako lang for that circumstance kay I want them to have a conventional life, a comfortable life, a good job, get married, have children. I didn't sacrifice a lot just so they have an unpredictable life full of hardship ug kulukot nga life.
Right now, they're in their early 20's. They have a comfortable home, they're single, no kids, have jobs, no bills kay ako gabayad. Ilang salary kay ilaha ra, sige tigum, ambot para asa, sa ila future. They have to enjoy a life pagka-ulitawo. If they choose to take on some responsiblities, ilaha rana.
b2.. ayayai.... kw hap.....
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