consistency in love

[johannsgrave]

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even the most permanent thing in this world has to undergo change....because all things in this world is bounded by time; without it, everything freezes to eternity!

[psyche_08]

another topic revived.

[jumps_zilla]

not so sure how to respond to this topic but personally, if you really love the person, you treat them the same way so they really are assured of your feelings toward them.

* i'm not even sure i make sense to myself...

[twalalyn]

i think the problem during courtship is some people don't show their true self and they are expecting more towards their partner.i think that's why when the tym comes that they are really together the partner will say that its not her or him anymore...people grow and its a matter of adjstment between each other and that's why we have tym to get to know our partners before we marry them....i think one important thing also is to know yourself first.Don't expect too much... i think a lot of women have this tendency bcoz they wanna be treated lyk babies all the tym but i think its wrong bcoz at tyms we also need to realize what our partner wants and not just us all the tym...

[jumps_zilla]

i believe that's true twalalyn. that point you raised being said, i could say that one way of being consistent in a relationship is to be sincere right from the start. meaning, no facades during the courtship period. just be yourself.

[twalalyn]

i sometyms wonder why most girls or women expect too much even with txting.they get mad at their partner bcoz they have not recieved any txt when they wake up or no reply right away...then they'll say that i think he's changed... the reasons at tyms are too shallow... sometyms i call it self pity or selfishness....

[jugs_06]

@twalz based on experience na maam? hehehe


seriously though, IMHO, i think "change" is one factor for the relationship to grow somewhat.. though if you try to weigh things out, "change" in a relationship brings out chances of ruining it instead.. inconsistency is always there.. or if it wasn't, then that's what i call a dead end kind of relationship.. people change.. their personalities change.. but same as thisbe, i believe that people change superficially.. if you dig deeper, part of what he was when you were in the "courtship stage" is still in him/her .. it's for you to explore and bring it out from him/her.. char..

[twalalyn]

@jugz: hahahahaha...mularngggggggg....

you've sight some good points there,jugz, coz w/out that change then the relationship won't grow...

[lover_online]

well, i guess everybody said it all...hahahha.. accept nlng..if di madala, aw...mao bitaw collect and select...para mkahibaw kas kinsa jud imong pwede ug ganahang ma minyuan...hehehe..

[mercy_022]

mao jud pra pag mag menyu kita na and katag unsa nga batasan mao na be at your self always hehehe