Do you fear commitment?

[kitine]

ako.. dili... kay I remain a fool when it comes to love.. I jump without testing the waters.. hahaha impulsive ko.. nya d ko mahadlok masakitan.. kay maybe I'll will learn one day..

[WEI?]

Ako yes....

-WEI?

[andch81]

sadly I do

[vladmire]

not me but my partner does

[ceejay_alyssa]

depends.. hadlok man pag possessive na.

[TEDA]

uo. mhadlok ko mu commit

[BlacknGray]

guys or girls who don't settle down at a marrying age like late 20s or early 30s don't necessarily mean the person is polygamous and just enjoying his or her fill with countless numbers of paramours. They are just afraid to get serious with someone brought about their past experiences which they steer clear of another traumatic episode that will bound to happen.

d man jud lalim matagam jud labi na in relationships.. dako man jud ang investment if mosolod ka og sineryoso na butanga so mao likay or lihay sa commitment.

personally, m a hopeless romantic kinda girl but I'm just too scared to commit myself with someone for fear of future mishaps in relationships

You have a point. And maybe wa pa sila nakalet go sa past. Katong friend nako, babaero siya pero naa siyay past. Kato ra daw ang time nga na in love siya. So yeah, that's probably the main reason why di pa siya ready mo settle down.

Ako, single since birth ko! Wala pa koy experience anang relationship. But I got hurt na. One sided love. Like I said in my previous post, willing ko mo commit kun love jud nako. Meaning, kanang naa koy trust.. pero wala eh, therefore wala pa jud diay ko na in love. I'm a cynical person man gud. Plus, mura pud kog natrauma na sa nahitabo. Honestly, di pa jud ko healed. I always say to myself like, "kun kinsay moabot mayta siya na.." Kay di ko gusto nga mahitabo na pud nako katong nahitabo before. Di ko sure kun love ba jud to akong nafeel pero kato ra jud ko naapektuhan ug maayo.

[tenzor73p]

hmmmm dili pa ko 30 and murag dugay2 pa na ma abot akong age ana pero I just THINK that some poeple are afraid of commitments cuz they dont want to end up with the wrong person hehehe my humble opinion.

[browniies]

most of the time, NO.
nganong makuyawan man daw ko buh?
basta kamao lang sa do's and don'ts wala mana'y problema buh :]

[jonz]

if its is a positive commitment.. Il go for it..
reasons? It will help me grow mentally/emotionally mature in making decisions

reason why people afraid of commitment?
1. pass experiences.. mao mo close dayon.. its protecting oneself from harm.. ky nka suway na
hadlok na.. then always na negative ang g huna2x.. "kung ang restaurant A y lami.. it does not
restaurant b c d e... all restaurant walay lami..
2 based from experiences of other people who fails....
this is common.... we fear to try becoz others fails...we sometimes find it sa atong mga friends.. or
relatives.... mao na fail sila huna2x dayon fail sad...dili ng pasabot nga kung ni fail imong amiga or
relative.. mo fail sadka.. bsn sila banga ikaw maau ...
3 No Goals in life...
commitment kuyog dydna ug goals.. unsaon nlang mo commit ka sa tao.. then wky plano i accomplish
murag igo ra commit in words not in action.. dapat naay goals ky ang commitment.. dili ra sa sulti
sa buhat dyd...
4 delaying tactics... common ni cya... pa unya dayon...ingun dayon... unya nko.. kamo sa una..
from 20-40... this will be the words.. I need a good looking man-I need a stable man- I need a
a man.. last stage "Asa na MAN"?
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