why is it hard to start when you ended so hurt?

[edliZjOhn]

i ended up sooooo hurt, it seems like my heart ends up beating when i lost him... still although i have given my best and my all. i am tired, soo much...i was not given even a bit of chance to win him back. right now at this moment, i've been doing my best to heal the pain and let the air blow it out from my system, badly i can't do it that easily. perhaps, time is so slow and i wanted it to be faster to heal me...i even fear of letting my heart admire someone, for i am so much afraid that might fall into a situation in which i might use that someone to cure me, but then at the end of the day i will then realize that i was still playing the same game...and still can't move on. Mahadlok ko basin makapasakit lang unya ko ug tawo nga walay sala, magamit nako.

Why do you think its that hard to start when you end up crying and hurting? When bitterness ruined your happy life? When you did your best but still he is gone?

[joan624]

because after all that has happened, memories will be there to haunt you and trust will always be an issue from then on. starting again after all the wasted time and effort will always be hard. letting go completely takes time.

but even though it is hard right then and there, someday you will look back and laugh about it.

[Klave]

If you think you've done your best then be proud.
Cry your eyes out
Temporary ra ang sakit, divert your attention on other things.
Focus on your work/studies.
Be a better woman than you are now so that when he will see you he will see how much better off you are without him.

[edliZjOhn]

If you think you've done your best then be proud.
Cry your eyes out
Temporary ra ang sakit, divert your attention on other things.
Focus on your work/studies.
Be a better woman than you are now so that when he will see you he will see how much better off you are without him.

I am always looking forward to be better, but I was the best before...And when he was gone, I am now in the peak of having myself in the most worst part of it. I am feeling so lost, that I don't even know how to be ME again...I don't know how to get back to the strong person I was...I'm totally destroyed please help!

[emailroy2002]

ok ra na sis,

love hurts but sometimes its a good hurt.

[Klave]

I'm pretty sure bata pa ka...how would you know you were the best before?
Being a human being, there is so much room for improvement...
Feeling tingali nimo since depressed au ka you cannot do your best...but in truth you can...
Pila man imo weight ron? ...pwede pa na imo pagamyan... pasexy ka maayo... and you can do that while being depressed... dili ka mugawas sa imo kwarto and just sulk all day...
adto ta sa lisud2x...
Pila man imo IQ? ...pwede sad na imo padakon... Try to learn new things...
There is so much to do in this life...
If you think you have nothing now...then be happy...
There is nothing more for you to lose and everything else to gain...
You can repeat God's miracle of creating something out of nothing...(exag gamay)
Go to your friends, have fun with them.

Lastly...If you don't know how to be YOU... don't think that you are just going to lose yourself...
Whatever you are now, is the YOU being depressed.
You can simply recreate yourself, I am pretty sure you have people you look up to.
Make new goals and try to achieve them...

You don't lose yourself because you recreate yourself...you end up with improved version of yourself.

[edliZjOhn]

I'm pretty sure bata pa ka...how would you know you were the best before?
Being a human being, there is so much room for improvement...
Feeling tingali nimo since depressed au ka you cannot do your best...but in truth you can...
Pila man imo weight ron? ...pwede pa na imo pagamyan... pasexy ka maayo... and you can do that while being depressed... dili ka mugawas sa imo kwarto and just sulk all day...
adto ta sa lisud2x...
Pila man imo IQ? ...pwede sad na imo padakon... Try to learn new things...
There is so much to do in this life...
If you think you have nothing now...then be happy...
There is nothing more for you to lose and everything else to gain...
You can repeat God's miracle of creating something out of nothing...(exag gamay)
Go to your friends, have fun with them.

Lastly...If you don't know how to be YOU... don't think that you are just going to lose yourself...
Whatever you are now, is the YOU being depressed.
You can simply recreate yourself, I am pretty sure you have people you look up to.
Make new goals and try to achieve them...

You don't lose yourself because you recreate yourself...you end up with improved version of yourself.

thanks for the thoughts...and for the concern, i would apply those words and try to practice it everyday...wish i could do this

[disomniac]

at least now you know what you are capabLe of when in love --------------- -=)

[Klave]

Kaya ra na nimo... Ikaw pa... Way challenge... The best nagud ka sa una...

Real strength is not defined of what we can do...

It is defined by what we can overcome...

[joan624]

ok ra na sis,

love hurts but sometimes its a good hurt.

lyrics mani sa kanta hahaha