My life story (comment on this)

[juleskiboi]

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this is very sad...to think imo mom pa jd ang mukulata nimu nga gikan man ka niya...tsk tsk...

pray always sis for guidance and strength (both physically and mentally), work hard, and leave them if they wont change...

they will eventually realize how important you are to them kung wala nka nila...cut all communication/s with them, if possible sa imo relatives pd nga maoy maka ingon nga masundan ghapon ka sa imo family and they will do this to you over and over again...

wala silay right para kulatahon ka esp wala kay gibuhat na sala...some parents man gani musalipod man gani maskin kriminal ila anak (ex. Jason Ivler's mom), nya ikaw na nuon himuong punching bag? u can even report them to the police na gani coz it's way too much of an abuse...

[miss tapya]

sad ko ga basa sa imong story.
i know it's really hard for you though layo ka pero naa gihapon mata nga layo nman tana ka. sa akong nahimutangan karon sis, i know for sure that naa similar cases pareha sa imoha. Naa sad ko friend nga grabe ka strict gyud ang brother/sister to the point nga maski og kami ang magsanghid, masuko gihapon. It's really hard to be on your shoes. Lisod sad kaayo maka move on ug kung pwede palang molayas and everything pero in the long run, makit an gihapon ka...

Just don't give up on prayers... God sees your suffering and hears your woes...

[elvandesantos]

guys wa nman mo reply ang TS. basin nilayas nani. hopefully okay rani sya ug sakto iya mga next moves.

[madredrive]

paeta aning imong life oi.. ge lang ma kaya ra ana nimo

[plantze]

i thought sa movie ra jud ni siya or sa teleserye nga GRABI ang pagdaugdaug sa usa ka miyembro sa pamilya... sad to say it's real gyud diay unya sama pa gyud sa imo nga babaye.
pait palundungon pero nahitabo na sa imo ning tanan...
good thing kay nakakita ka ug kapahungawan sa imong gibati. na share nimo sa amo ug naa pud intawon nakahatag ug moral support sa imo. i salute you kay despite sa nahitabo sa imo puro positive ang response nimo sa ila instead nga magrebelde ka. it's a good sign that you are surviving bisan giunsa ka ug daugdaug.
i think if you are familiar with the christian bible naay similarity sa imo case ang story ni joseph the dreamer. maybe you can read the story and reflect from the story itself. mao ra gyud na ako matambag nimo. i believe nga moabot ang time that you will be over them, when that time comes ikaw ang mag-igo mobawos baka or forgive them...
be strong always...

[incomplete_me]

sure ka anak jud ka nila does your mom treat your sister or ur bro like that? y man ikaw ra ure working na ryt? maybe just leave them alone nlng... u dont need them na bitaw.

i dont know i think anak gyud ko nila. i think the reason sis ako nalang ang girl sa pamilya nga dili minyo.. niya uban igsuon nako is lalaki! i dont know sis! kapuy nako layo nako nila pero unsa! grabe ra gihapon mu text ug mudala ug storya! kanang bitaw tungod lang gusto naka nila ipa abroad gyud! kay para naay musustento nila! ingnan kag ayaw kabalaka dili mi mangayo nimo ug kwarta kon naa ka sa abroad! pero basin naa sad kay lain padalhan diha sa cebu? kitid gyud ang utok! bisag unsaon pa feek nimo nalain ka sa mga storya! hastang! padayon ra gihapon! mao dili nalang ko mu reply kay basin mabastos pa nako akong inahan! kay as much as possible man gud i want to keep my respect for my mom! ug dili lang ko nahan ang pamilya mag away away! makasapot nga sakit! to the point lami na ingnon nga ka tiguwang nako? (25 years old) hasta karon wala ra gihapom mo ka get over mao ra gihapon ang issue! imbes na daghay problema sa pamilya ang dapat atimanon! kapuy na gyud lagi ko... dili lang sila kabaw gusto nako mu abroad para maka layas na ug makatabang nila! pero saun man! dili pa nako mahimo kay nagka problema sakong TOR! na pay bayranan nga balance nga ako pang gi tiguman! pero dili unta sila mag storya in ana!

[f-clientcare@emeryestates]

wwwaaa kataas sa story pero ill read it if i have enough time.

[lamangzz]

the best thing to do is complain lang gyud. ipa blatter sila if ever ila nasad ka bun-ogon. tan-awon nato unsay gama ana nila :P sa guwas tawon miga even mga bata they know if they are abused all they hve to do is call 911 :P think about it :P

[yokyok]

paita ani nga life ui... be strong lng miss. always pray ever night and day.

[emow]

@ TS: How long have you been treated this way? Was there a time when you were treated humanely?

The best course of action is to temporarily cut off your ties with your family. Why should you suffer any further? It seems like animals are treated way better than you. Leave ASAP. If you stay in such a toxic environement, eventually you'll turn into someone you don't want. Leave while you are still sane. Normally the family is the place where we get our sense of security but in your case, your family is the source of toxicity. Family is family only when you are treated as a human being. Leave, for your sake as well your familys. It seems to me that your family doesn't give a damn about you. God won't solve this problem for you, you have to solve it yourself. Are you afraid of cutting your ties with your family? If so, what good is it to for you to stay any further? Just leave and live. There will be other people who can treat you better than your own family. Don't file any legal complaints, you will just complicate things. As a woman of 25 years, you can live your life the way you want it to be.