Toughest Decision. Need help!

[lovelots23]

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my idea..i think if someone loves you she will not hurt you.bec. she did, it's a proof that there's no love anymore.let her realized your worth.let her make a choice.

[sushikandi]

Although the friends with benefits is somewhat leaning to your part, the truth is she has another one. Sorry buddy but you are the bahaw that pwede nya balik balikon ug microwave if walay bagong sud-an. Basically you are the meantime boy.

I know its better said than done, but you have to really end it. It's either you or the new. No conditions, No IFs, No buts. I've met you, and you seem to be a really nice guy (I bought one of your HTC Touch). You'll find a girl who wouldn't treat you like this. And bro, make this as really good lesson on treating a lady properly. Next time when you are in a new relationship, ayaw na jud compyansa like with your ex. Coz one day pwede rana cya ma fall out of love.

So I suggest not to be visible with her. The pain will eventually subside and you have your friends to make damay. Hang in there buddy.

[epoaxlan]

bro kaning friends with benefits ninyo kaw ra gihapon masakitan in the end..what if mo decide na gyud sya nga ang iyaha crrent BF na gyud iya e focus nya kaw naanad naka nga naa cya, imbis maka move on unta ka anang panahona nga "friends with benefits" mo. wala man klaro imo uyab bro, gigamit lng mong duha niya (kaw ug current BF). kaw for weekdays iya current BF for weekends..tanan benefits naa niya. palayo nalng niya makakita ra kag girl na tarong for you.

[kenites]

Bro have pride....if she doesn't love you anymore then let her go..ayaw ipugos imo kaugalingon sa iya..pathetic kaayo ka tan-awn..
Bro I have an almost similar situation sa imo before..she broke up with me coz she found a new lover..When she told me that, I asked her just one question lang..Do you still love me..and when she answered no then that's it..I let her go bisan sakit kaayo..
Although we remain good friend after the break-up but wala na jud ko nagpakita motive that I still want her back..that "NO" is enough for me..bisan iya family ganahan kaayo sa ako..
Later on with our life..I found a lady nga nag pa inlove sa ako again..and she? well I guess she's full of regret coz she found out that I'm the better man...how do I know? because she told me..showing some hint that she want me back but no thank you..I found a new girl deserving of my love..

I hope ani imo buhaton bro..THe world has so much to offer..Let her go..
Makakita ra ka girl nga deserving sa imo love..

[kurdapia.nikki]

sorry double post.

[kurdapia.nikki]

Akong maingon ra, ay pagkapaka martyr.
Geeez. Unsang klaseha's babay nga musugot ug ing-ana?
I don't mean to degrade the girl, pero what?
She's taken yet she permits herself hooked up with someone else?
Ka selfish sa babay eyy. Naa na gani xa'y uyab, and nakig friends with benefits pa xa nimo?
That's really ughh. Tongue out.

If you wanted long-term happiness, ayaw pada ana niya.
She's simply taking advantage of you. Kibaw xang ulipon kaayu ka nia.
She's inlove with someone else, but the attention she wanted from her boyfriend isn't given to her.
That's why you who compensates it makes her feel good.

Ing'ana mi mga babay brad. Share lang ko ani aron maka realize ka kung unsa jud mi.
We always want attention. There are times nga daghan KAAYO mi'g suitors.
Magdungan pa gani tanan. Let's say say we have 4 suitors.
Then none of them are our type. But these 4 makes us really happy.
It makes us realize that these people appreciated us for who we really are.
Mao ng bisag wala pami'y type ana nila, we still sustain the communication we're currently having.
Ended up nga maka ingon mo mga lalaki, nga paasa kaayo mi mga babay.
It's as simple as that. We don't have any intentions of extending our relationship.
We just wanted you guys to maintain the attention you're giving us.

Mao na. Nakuwang lang na's tagad sa iyang uyab.
Mao ng ika'y gipatulan ana. HAHA.
Ayaw kalibog. LET GO OF HER. If kamo jud then kamo.
You're too young to make it such a big deal

[jntio]

mao na g tawag na KARMA bro sa imng png buhat nya b4. ako pa nmo u ask 4gvnes nalng sa iya sa tanan2 kasakit imo nahatag sa kamo pa. best thng gyd na mka au sa imoha noh, i let go c ex-gf mo. space lng kulang ninyo 2 bro, ayw cge pangulit ky easy boy na kau kag dating ana. paabota nalng ang oras na ma wla na imo feeling sa iyaha, & mo bali ra gyd na ang situation bro na cya napd mg gukod sa imoha f mka move on kana. tanan png ingun nya sa imoha karn, cgurado ma bato ra nmo ng balik sa iyaha. ayw cge inom2 ky mo boang samut imo utok igka hubog. mypa i duwa nalng na nmo ug games or wtch nalng dvd naa dghan sa colon 3 fr 100 para ma lingw ka.

[Genocide]

Mga bro nagkita mi ganina. ni adto ko sa ila balay kay manimba daw mi. So ako gibuhat 600 naman lang
jud akong money ni Risgo ko maskin gamiton pud to nako ang money. Ni bouquet flowers worth 450
basin pa diay na ma change iya mind. nagpa haircut ko then nag long sleeve polo pajud ko ni adtos
ilaha. nya ako sha gi pukaw ako gi hatag ang flowers. i thought na malipay or ma touch cya. ouch!
mura ra cyag wala. Mao to for the last time ni Ask ko niya na if ok raba niya mag balik mi.
Nasuko pa cya nako na dili daw nako cya pugson or pugngan sa iya gusto kay LOVE daw kono to
niya ang iya bago then wala na cyay feelings nako. ( ouch!
mao to taas2 au amo gipang istoryaan. ana cya dili deserving buwagan niya iya bf kay
grabi daw kono au ug effort. naka ingon ko kay ako diay?? mora na gali kog boang hilak diri hilak
didto.luhod didto luhod diri. nya dili na effort? ahaks,mao to ana cya na dili najud daw pwede.
lahi najud daw sauna kato naa pa cyay feelings nako. mao to ni ana cya na undangon nalang jud
namo na dili nami mag kita or unsa pana diha.
hahays. mao to ni ana cya grabiha sa shock sad ko da sa kadugay natong uyab karon
paka naka hatag nako ani. Nya ni ana lang pud ko na ok rana ui atleast naka hatag or naka
buhat kog butang na wala nako na hatag or buhat nimo sauna. Hope ma lipay naka ana
imo bago.True love naman jud kaha na. mao to nag talk mis mama niya and ana ko na undangon
nani namo. nya mao nato. gi tud pako niyas gate na paulion najud ko ba. hahays.
mao nato. END najud mi. Bahalag sakit pugngan na nako na dili najud ko magpakita niya.
kahibaw ko lisud ni pero mao naman jud ni.

bye bye love.

end. April 25 2008 - June 13 2010.

[jntio]

hahaha!
timan.i bro kana imo g antos rn mo balik lng ghapon na sa iya.
ayw na lge guol2 ky mka gawas rka anang kasakit mo karn.
so nxt tym tambag inamigo, tagai na bili ang imo ma gf.

[luke0917]

sakto man imo gbuhat bro. let her go, let her be happy with her decision. ikaw, be happy na nahitabo na as early as now, kay wat if magkadugay nya ingon ana ra kasayon d i na ilisan ka? dghan na kau ka ma invest, time, effort, money, love, sayang ra kau tnan jud. ako, girl man jud ko nya buntis pa jud ko pagbuwag namo sa ako ex-BF, pag pangutana nko ug asa cya, ari ba cya namo sa iyang baby or adto sa new girl, iya tubag, "mas love nya ang iyang new GF", so, ok. ako gbuwagan dha2 dayon. malimtan rana nmo eventually, time heals all wounds. pray lng pud. lingawa imong self, ayaw pagluksa ug dugay sa namatay nmo na gugma, naa dghan babaye sa kalibutan. learn from your experience and make sure on your next relationship, dli na mahitabo ang mga nahitabo ninyo sa imong ex-GF krn.

goodluck bro!