BROKEN HEARTED me. Need A little help here!

[isprikitiki]

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mao lagi, my world revolve only around her...now it's time to let go and move on..
well, ingon sya nig uli daw nya dri pinas next year, ako daw iya una pangitaon..dli nko mag expect..
as of this moment, ok nako wla na sya sako life..accept na nko ang fact...ill be better off without her..

well that's the spirit. ana jud bro. hehe..

[yesh1314]

brad just accept the fact nah inana nahitabo sa inyo relationship...i guess for now rah sad ng dili mo work pah..but wala ta sa snud balik nya hmmm mgkasinabot namo blik and one thing brad try tone down imo nega nah batasan..wok on it sad brad...hmmm not really an expert at this but..share lng...

[hunt99]

need a little help here!

i badly need your advice mga bro and mga sis....
I am a loner type of guy.. wla kaayo koy friends whom I can share my sentiments, mao ako nalang ipaagi through istorya.net for me to have an outlet of my feelings..

My girlfriend just recently broke up with me. We've been together for 3 years and 8months and she also happens to be my bestfriend. The thing is, it's hard for me to accept the fact that we're no longer together. She was my first girlfriend and I love her truly and deeply. She left for Dubai last year because she has work there. I just couldn't understand why she has to break up with me. Siguro, na fall out of love siya nako since layu mi sa usa't usa or maybe she fell in love with someone else. Basta what she told me was, better friends nalang daw mi because cge lang daw mi away and dli mi magkasinabot. She even told me na for 3 yrs plus namo, wla daw mi ni grow as a person. She told me na give up na sya nako coz gikapoy na daw cya sa ako bati na batasan.. Yes, I must admit that naa pud ko negative na attitude.. Possessive daw ko and insecure, selfish, then dli ko mu trust dayun sa tanan nya gipangsulti, plus demanding daw ko, and dli daw ko kasabot sa iya situation; but you know, bsan ing.ani ako batasan, I have loved her the best way I could.. Ever since naging kami, I have never cheated on her. Bsan naay mga girls mag una2x make sa move, kanang mag flirt2x nko, I did not give in because Im faithful to my girlfriend. You know I am not the type of guy na kabaw magbinuang ug babae because I came from a broken family and I don't want someday when I'll have a family on my own, dko gusto guba pud. I know for a fact na the usual cause of broken families kay infidelity, adultery and so on; that's why I don't want to give in into temptations and I also don't want to hurt my girlfriend. When she was still here in Cebu, everyday mi nagkuyog bsan Christmas and New Year, we spent it together bsan kami ra duha sa iya apartment mingaw kaayo then ako relatives nag party and nag enjoy sa amo haus; I always find excuses para sugtan ko sa ako mom mulakaw. All I know is that I want to be with her always not to take advantage na tungod kami ra duha mag intimate dayun -NO! ( I really respect her). I want to be with her because it hurts me kung alone sya because I know lonely sya bsta alone sya since larga pud iya parents. Last year, naana sya sa Dubai, halos everyday sya mu call nko sa cellphone. Everyday mi magchat. Pero, sugod sa January this year, ni cold lang sya kalit. When I confronted her why kalit lang sya ka cold nko, she told me na busy daw kaayo sya sa iya work kay sya nalang isa sa iya position kay nanaktakay ug employees ang ila company tungod sa financial crises. So sya ga pas.an sa mga paper works- which is a lot I'm guessing. I even teased her na basin naana sya lain uyab sa Duabi mao dedma nalang ko nya. She told me na daghan daw nagcourt nya didto mga pinoy pud ug mga arabo but she told me na ni refuse daw cya kay committed daw sya nko. Few days ago, nagstart ko observe nya.. wla nko mag send message, wala nko paramdam nya.. I thought magwonder sya ngano wala ko paramdam na nya but instead she told me na magtxt man ko nya or dli, Ok ra nya.. Before, dli cya ing.ana, mangita dayun na cya nko bsta dli lang ko makatxt nya but now everythin's changed.. She told me na better we'll remain as bestfriends kay na manhid na daw sya.. She told me na gihatag ra daw sya ni God nko to guide me daw. Gikapoy na daw sya nko..

Now that we're through, I have never felt so alone. It burns my heart with sadness and longing..
I know nothin' stays the same forever; that change is the only constant in this world.. but it just feels sad to miss someone so badly especially when both of you shared an unforgettable relationship.

thank you for reading my dear brothers and sisters...
godbless..

sad noon bro ako ika solti ang importante sa usa ka relationship ky both must love,care,help,honest,trust and respect each other and both must be happy and both must have good attitude, move, and style towards each other and also each other must understand pero sa imong story ky dira nana nag sogod ang problema katong ni reklamo na siya tongod sa imong attitude kung ako pod pa solti-on over ra pod ka sai mong mga attitude,move. og style na di ma ganahan ang tao nimo babae man or laki am ako pa nimo ky love man gyudk aayo nimo siya pinangga kaayo nimo ang mas maayo buhaton ky ikaw na ang mo lihok ky dapat gani mo respetar kag maayo niya ky babae siya pero dapat pod na siya maayo pod siya pero tan-aw nako gud ikawm an ang na-ay deperensya pero para ma clear buhata tanan na makig communicate ka niya kung desperado ka niya am ky if id nimo buhaton onya ni ingon siya na ok ra niya na di naka mo communicate niya pede siya ka huna2x na ikaw di naka ganahan niya or ikaw nana ky lain or pede pod mao ng naka ingong siya ok ra niya ky basin nana siyay nakita-an lain ky wa man ka mo lihok og tarong ky ni ana gud siya nimo gi kapoy na siya nimo so ako pa nimo advice lang ha communicate niya buhata tanan og solti-i siya na love gyud kaayo nimo siya buhaton nimo tanan para kaniya pero wait sa ha kailangan ang iyang family ok ra towards nimo ky if di man gani new problem napod na og ayaw kalimti og pray and also buhata tanan ako bisan laki pod ko ang buhata pod repstari siya ky babae gud siya

[butong101]

TS, koyog ta ngitag uyab.. bwahaha

[Lyle V.]

sakita pud a. Ive been to relationships..long term and dinalian..Ive also experienced being hurt so bad nga halos d na ko ka ginhawa sa ka sakit..until naabot sa point nga murag na manhid na ko..and instead of hear over mind..mind over heart na jud ko..sa kadaghan nga sakit ako naagian..murag gahi na jud ko ron..even if sakit unta dapat ang panghitabo..dali ra kaayo naku ma control and I always see the good reasons why things have to happen..

For me, relationships go through same cycle and always ends not on a happy note..whats good about it is I continue to learn and become better person.. I also think that in one way or another, I have affected the life of my partner and have changed it for the better...

For you Brod Lex, I feel for you really..mura gani kog kahilakon ga huna2 sa imong experience..but who knows? you will still really end up together. I would still suggest that dont close doors on her. Until wa kay proof nga naa siyay lain..once she comes back..welcome her as a friend, kung mao iyang gusto..youll never know..once you meet again.. old sparks lit..old feelings resurrect..if you really love her, fight for her more than enough..dont give up just because she told you so..you dont really know whats going on..forget your relationship as lovers for now to ease you from pain..and when the right time and opportunity comes..fight for it..if wala na jud, you would know..and only then you can say.. shes not meant for you..

Ayo2 sa imong journey Brod. be strong.

[Lex]

brad just accept the fact nah inana nahitabo sa inyo relationship...i guess for now rah sad ng dili mo work pah..but wala ta sa snud balik nya hmmm mgkasinabot namo blik and one thing brad try tone down imo nega nah batasan..wok on it sad brad...hmmm not really an expert at this but..share lng...

yes accept na nko brad... regarding sako negative na batasan- im working on it!
thanks sa imo pagshare sa imo point of view brad...

[Lex]

sakita pud a. Ive been to relationships..long term and dinalian..Ive also experienced being hurt so bad nga halos d na ko ka ginhawa sa ka sakit..until naabot sa point nga murag na manhid na ko..and instead of hear over mind..mind over heart na jud ko..sa kadaghan nga sakit ako naagian..murag gahi na jud ko ron..even if sakit unta dapat ang panghitabo..dali ra kaayo naku ma control and I always see the good reasons why things have to happen..

For me, relationships go through same cycle and always ends not on a happy note..whats good about it is I continue to learn and become better person.. I also think that in one way or another, I have affected the life of my partner and have changed it for the better...

For you Brod Lex, I feel for you really..mura gani kog kahilakon ga huna2 sa imong experience..but who knows? you will still really end up together. I would still suggest that dont close doors on her. Until wa kay proof nga naa siyay lain..once she comes back..welcome her as a friend, kung mao iyang gusto..youll never know..once you meet again.. old sparks lit..old feelings resurrect..if you really love her, fight for her more than enough..dont give up just because she told you so..you dont really know whats going on..forget your relationship as lovers for now to ease you from pain..and when the right time and opportunity comes..fight for it..if wala na jud, you would know..and only then you can say.. shes not meant for you..

Ayo2 sa imong journey Brod. be strong.

actually brod, wla nko ga expect na magbalik pami... dawat namn nko brod..pero friends nami karon.. dugay na nko sya gi fight brod sa una pa nga kami pa, dli ganahan ako family nya tungod sa iya parents, but still i chose her to be my grlfrnd..bsan d ganahan iya parents nko, wa nko sya gi give up..but karon kung nana man kaha syay lain, im cool with it..
thanks a lot brod sa imo opinion...godbless...takecare!

[Lex]

TS, koyog ta ngitag uyab.. bwahaha

hehehhehe...unya nko ngita uyab bai..focus lang sa ko sa ako career....

[bhea]

hehehhehe...unya nko ngita uyab bai..focus lang sa ko sa ako career....

maayo pa focus lang sa ka imo career...love will find its way on you..wen the ryt tym comes..

[Lyle V.]

ako pud..gai ko uyab beh..pwede ba ta kapalit uyab ron?