constantly blaming ur partner :o

[ethelgomez05]

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It's only too easy to take out your frustrations on the nearest thing - but it's damaging to your relationship if you make your partner your scapegoat when you're really angry at the boss. Instead of yelling AT your partner, try talking TO them about what's really bothering you. That's a relationship builder, not breaker.

[KASAAC]

bitaw...laina sad anang sige blame sa pares oi resulta jud ana dili maayong relasyon....

[arvinbenitez]

blaming your partner wont give any good to your relationship..

[dragonbird]

up ko ani.. very true.

[yvonne6]

truth is, when one person in the relationship does something hurtful to the other, u hate what the person did to you but u dont really hate the person. a lot of people does not realize this. maski pa ikaw ang sad an, it hurts when ur partner says something hurtful to you, ilabi na kung insulto ang isulti sa imo. although ikaw pud nga nasakitan, its hard for u to come up with nice words to say about the other or try a possitive approach. dapat, atong timan an nga kung love nato ang taw and they did something wrong, we should try to approach the person in a positive way. its okay to tell them that we were hurt but its not okay to yell and insult them. mura rakag nag bubo ug gasolina sa kalayo

[scorpia]

I thik the best thing to do is to stay away for a while if you really can't stop scapegoating.

[ethelgomez05]

korek..it only makes us feel and sound like a helpless victim..wen we eliminate blaming as a way of being, many new ones will open...Will start putting our attention on our self where it will do the most good :z

[classicrock]

mao2x..

[granz]

It's only too easy to take out your frustrations on the nearest thing - but it's damaging to your relationship if you make your partner your scapegoat when you're really angry at the boss. Instead of yelling AT your partner, try talking TO them about what's really bothering you. That's a relationship builder, not breaker.

- agree gd ko ani.. instead na mag blame may pa mag tabanggay nlng coz relationship is a 2 way bya ug f love gd nimo imong partner, willing ka mo tabang sa iyang mga weakness ma turn into strength.

- wla gd makuha f mag cge nlng ug blame, gubot ang relasyon f in.ana..

[ethelgomez05]

- agree gd ko ani.. instead na mag blame may pa mag tabanggay nlng coz relationship is a 2 way bya ug f love gd nimo imong partner, willing ka mo tabang sa iyang mga weakness ma turn into strength.

- wla gd makuha f mag cge nlng ug blame, gubot ang relasyon f in.ana..

yea right