Long Distance Relationships

[ariane]

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no.. its so hard!! ive been there done that not just once but twice and still it never works.. its awfully hard.. trust is so important which the one broken most of the time..

yati ra bro! ikaduha na lugar u na hurt? tsk tsk.. heheh.

[ariane]

i've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years.. pero now, the "status" is over. dle na mi uyab but the way we treat each other is still the same.. walay nausob. it's a complicated situation, but ganahan lang ko nga naa sab siya freedom.. i don't want any blame in case dle na nuon siya mamenyo tungod nako.. kay dle man jud nako ma guarantee ang amo future...tungod sa kadaghan sa babag sa among relasyon..

pero to have lasted 5 years sa usa ka long distance relationship.. i don't think that's a failure... it DOES work.. it depends on how you carry the relationship.. constant communication lang jud... trust.. and love

lagi sis! 3yrs naman nuon mi.. cool man gyapon kay cya man ang ga update sa ako permi. ga tawag everyday or every other day man lang. mdyo duol2 ra man pod, murag labangon ra og barko akong location og iyaha heheh. (layo gyapon basta way kwarta pamiliti)

[anjerika]

di lalim pero di imposible

[blaise]

ing-ani akong situation today but very kapoy to maintain... one month pa gani mi! huhuhu i hate the feeling when you miss the person so baad and the only best thing you can do to ease it is hear his voice unya ig tawag nimo di pa jud maka answer coz his phone is in silent mode! waaa or maybe too busy.

now my thoughts are racing. does he still even have time to think of me? huhuhu i don't want to accuse him of infidelity but when my intuitions are telling me something, all i can offer is the benefit of the doubt. coz i dont want na magbuwag mi for false accusations huhu

[coolnezz]

n.o.p.e













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[jimmy128]

are you willing to entrust your heart to that person?...

i had a LDR before. i didn't want to try it the first time coz i coudn't take not to see the person. you can't even hold his/her hand. it's like you're in two rooms separated by a thick glass. you'll be hungry for a hug/holding hands/kiss/etc. it's awfully hard.. but that person told me that i was too physical. what matters is the "meaning" of a hug/kiss/etc. so i entered such kind of relationship. it was very exciting at first few months. but the longer it goes, the worse it gets. the other party got busy, had personal problems, etc. we lost communication(which is very important in LDRs). till the time come when we broke up...

for me mao ni requirements para mu-last jud:
-constant communication(c2c,call,chat,text)
-TRUST(have faith on the person..)
-UNDERSTANDING(dapat sabton nimo siya and ang situation ninyo duha)
-expression of feelings(be open..love..love and love.. always remind the person nga love nimo siya)

i learned a lot from that relationship. everything happens for a reason by the way we're just friends now.

Goodluck TS!

that is very true.. there are really more risks in LDRs than non LDRs... actually am currently in a Long distance something.. not exactly relationship pero we are waiting.. some of the forumers that know about that arent active anymore.. but yeah.. so far so good.. going 4 years we still communicate we still are waiting

[miakka070]

dli okey sis.. isnt it nicer to be in one world?i mean one paradise to breathe in. Isa lang inyo gilihukan nga place bah.

[rain|spirit]

dili ko ka-comment kay wala pa sad ko kasulay...
if malikayan kay likayan nako kay lisod oi, mingawonon kaayo ko.

[lord-lord-lord]

lisud au ang long distance jd, was in a 3 yr long distance relationship.. ok raman bsta naa mo plans in the future. bt goodbye long distance for me na. hehe

kathy? hehe

LDR: bahala lisud.. kupot lng gyd tamas ginhawa.. hehe

[ariane]

that is very true.. there are really more risks in LDRs than non LDRs... actually am currently in a Long distance something.. not exactly relationship pero we are waiting.. some of the forumers that know about that arent active anymore.. but yeah.. so far so good.. going 4 years we still communicate we still are waiting

wow! mag 4yrs?? mag 3yrs na mi bro!!! mao ra man gyapon, murag wala koi na feel nga lahi or nasumhan. kapoi lang sahay kalas kwarta pa load hehehe...