Help me on this pls..wat would u do?

[butong101]

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i tell u bro,im not the kind of girl who cheats...if naa koy bf,i dont test waters...once kami na,i put all my loyalty and faith to him..i see to it that he gets all my attention...pwera eskwela,family o trabaho..sori but honest to goodness jud ni akoa.. it might be hard to believe but naa pay girls nga pareha nako... i respect my bf too mch that i dont txt or see any guy..if naa man gani ako jud isulti sa bf..much more,dili jud ko magkita2x ug lain..

that's why its really hard on my part,that i was faithful and he wasnt even though it happened a long time ago..

@TS, pardon if somehow I offended your feelings. It was never meant to be like that. Well, what I was trying to drive at is, life is cruel and unfair and it will always be unfair. What I am suggesting is for you not to dwell on the negative aspect of the situation. I can't blame you for feeling that way, the anger and perhaps rage, but when you are calm try to consider the positive part that your boyfriend despite his mistakes & shortcomings in the early stage of your relationship he chose to stay to you and love you. Isn't it cool knowing someone tried to grab your bf from you but he chose to stay? Just a thought..ó

[dragonbird]

i mean,its one big piece of a lie isnt it?

mao jud.. disgusting au paminawn.. as if furious kunuhay.

[Girl4Rent]

ngano ni enter...

thanks sa reply bro...

[Girl4Rent]

@TS, pardon if somehow I offended your feelings. It was never meant to be like that. Well, what I was trying to drive at is, life is cruel and unfair and it will always be unfair. What I am suggesting is for you not to dwell on the negative aspect of the situation. I can't blame you for feeling that way, the anger and perhaps rage, but when you are calm try to consider the positive part that your boyfriend despite his mistakes & shortcomings in the early stage of your relationship he chose to stay to you and love you. Isn't it cool knowing someone tried to grab your bf from you but he chose to stay? Just a thought..ó

Its ok bro..i guess i just need time..i dont know how to open up to my boyfriend about this... He's the type of guy who would deny everything bisan its already clear as crystal..

Yes he chose to stay,but its not a guarantee that im the only one..
If he has done this before,there's a great possibility that he can do this again..

Its really hard to mend the trust once it has be broken and shattered into pieces..U cant help but doubt every move.

[Girl4Rent]

Im sorry bro, but I beg to disagree.. communicating with the ex during the early stage of a new relationship is almost always normal. For me, we can not judge that as breach of trust already. We just cannot deny the fact that once in their lives they were together.. beautifully together..ú



chill..ú

i also beg to disagree..i call it cheating if my present partner would not honestly tell me that he is still seeing and communicating with the ex.

[butong101]

Its ok bro..i guess i just need time..i dont know how to open up to my boyfriend about this... He's the type of guy who would deny everything bisan its already clear as crystal..

Yes he chose to stay,but its not a guarantee that im the only one..
If he has done this before,there's a great possibility that he can do this again..

Its really hard to mend the trust once it has be broken and shattered into pieces..U cant help but doubt every move.

yeah, once trust is breached it will never be easy to believe in him anymore. The most tragic thing in a relationship to happen is when you doubt everything about him.

[Girl4Rent]

mka relate pud ko ani gamay, hahahay...

if ako ang girl, i will really ask my bf why they were still communicating that way when in fact we were already starting the relationship. maybe the strength of our relationship will depend on his answers.

pro if ng plan namo magminyo, maybe think about it all over again lng sa guro, kay lisod na if maminyo na jud mo.

make sure na maresolve sa ni na crisis sa inyo relationship before deciding to get married.

thanks sis..hopefully maresolve na ni nga crisis...

[tenzor73p]

Its really hard to mend the trust once it has be broken and shattered into pieces..U cant help but doubt every move.

Ive learned this lesson the hard way and wa pa jd ko ni cheat ato ahahaha paeta this life hahah

[Shofu]

If it happens to me, Id probably find a good timing...Paagi nlang ug binoang or pakapin sa istorya like
"Boanga naka read diay kos imu email blah blah... unsa manto uy??

[juleskiboi]

pabugnawa lang sa ang situation TS, relax2 lang sa bah..let your anger subside before you start to act, basin man gd ma clouded imo reasoning sa imo anger...

but come to think of it, past is past naman pd gd, and here you are with your bf, 2 years na mo and loving each other...maybe he's over with his ex na finally after that six months, he realized that it's wrong and it's jeopardizing your relationship or simply he grew out of that phase...

let time heal the wounds lang sa, then maybe if you're ready, talk to him...it's the best way to solve problems with couples...

just my two cents..

good luck!