NO FEELINGS INVOLVED: Just HORSING AROUND or CHEATING?

[Peenut]

Feelings are raw and undeniable.

They are always present.

[disomniac]

--- either waYs it stiLL is nO goOd and not a valid or enough reason to ventUre in ----

[annerhexian]

Its NOT CHEATING because you don't give a damn about the other
person other than getting laid...

what are u? a JERK?
Laid huh? hehehehe what if ur sister will be laid off with someone.. HAHAHA so no hard feelings..? coz that someone dont give a daMn.. HAHAHAHA
its a matter of chances of bedtime story then?

Which is more hurting, your partner maintaining
another relationship with someone? Or your partner engaging someone else, just to
while away his/her time? -

BOTH ARE HURTING... it just lahi2 ang sitwasyun but either way maka sagasa pa jud kag taw ana..



lemme ask u? are u a person who knows the word "commitment" or u just wanted to validate the doings u know in the long run it is wrong?

[Peenut]

In the bottomline. People who practice this have experienced disloyalty, crushed, bruised by their partners.

Heheh...we shouldn't dwell in this situation. Even if it's horsing around or cheating. This will just gives us a negative view between people.
Lets tend to evade such situations.

[disomniac]

---- mOre or leZ murag "BIGA" lang jud di ang tanan whicheveR side --- ?

[HerStory]

There's a lot to talk about actually... Horsing around is purely sexual infidelity
whereas cheating, generally, constitutes both sexual and romantic/emotional
infidelities. There's a big difference between the two.

Romantic/emotional infidelity occurs when the cheater is, so to speak, while still
in a relationship with his/her original partner plays beautiful music with a new
partner... FEELINGS is involved in this case. You are CHEATING because you
maintain another relationship with another partner.

On the other hand, feelings is inexistent in one-night-stands. Sometimes, when
people horse around they don't even reveal their true identities (names, address
and stuffs)... Its NOT CHEATING because you don't give a damn about the other
person other than getting laid...

As I said, horsing around is occasional and casual whereas cheating is habitual.

But wait... before you react, i know, in both cases, its wrong... but for purposes
of discussion, let's put it this way... Which is more hurting, your partner maintaining
another relationship with someone? Or your partner engaging someone else, just to
while away his/her time?

If i don't really have a choice that's either 1 or the other should/would happen, i would prefer the second. "partner engaging someone else, just to while away his/her time". But if there is anyway that both can be prevented from happenning, I would do it i think. But then again i'm not really sure if i'm in the same boat.

[lalee]

lungguan dapat ug ulo ang mga tao nga nag "cheating" ug nag "horsing around" hehehe JOKE!

[Amicus Curiae]

what are u? a JERK?
Laid huh? hehehehe what if ur sister will be laid off with someone.. HAHAHA so no hard feelings..? coz that someone dont give a daMn.. HAHAHAHA
its a matter of chances of bedtime story then?



BOTH ARE HURTING... it just lahi2 ang sitwasyun but either way maka sagasa pa jud kag taw ana..



lemme ask u? are u a person who knows the word "commitment" or u just wanted to validate the doings u know in the long run it is wrong?

I don't think you got my point... Please read my orig thread...

I said don't take it against me, im only trying to come up with an intellectual discussion (tired of
reading all those nonsense thread)... Because whether you like it or not, its really happening.

As the bible said, "Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone"... don't be one of those
hypocrites in here... don't be all talk... it's easier said than done brother. Peace!...

[butong101]

hala.. ng away sila.. nyeheheh.. chill..ó

[po-po]

no matter how you call it its still not acceptable to both parties. would you accept it if it was done to you by your partner? i think not.