Think WIN/WIN!

[alterX]

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I loved the book!
-- Think win/win: Work with the other person and arrive at a solution wherein both of you feels good about your decision. It involves cooperation, not competition.

Exactly!

Another example - this thread is a win/win situation. The TS posted question/started topic. Someone could reply - e 'google' lang na kay naa daghan ana didtu or daghan ka mabasa regarding ana thru google, something like that. So, in all likelihood the thread will just fade away open ended. Readers will just skim through & gained/learned nothing. Proceed to next thread/s. While on this thread, some people are really answering the TS & gave good examples instead of saying 'e-google lang' . So, other readers will actually learn something from this thread. The TS got his answers, the ones who replied with the answers & some ideas did not just answer to the satisfaction of the TS but is also sharing that to those who came to the thread. Those who are just browsing will learn/get to know something w/out even interacting in the thread - it's like 'i learn something today'. WIN/WIN!

all the best!

[ceden_yu143]

@ josephdc and alterX....guyzzz....nice au inyo mga example ai...morag nakasabot najud ko maau wats win/win really all about....sa ino mga example i can really relate myself...


any self experince win/win attitude na imo nabuhat as an individual....kanang di ninyo maka limtan kay nice au i.share sa ako report nga naa ko na frend dri na ako ma share to my co-OJTs....thx and more power ninyo...

[alterX]

actually, if you read & dissect & i quote from josephdc -
"- Think win/win: Work with the other person and arrive at a solution wherein both of you feels good about your decision. It involves cooperation, not competition. "

this basically is happening to many actions/interactions in our daily life that just get unnoticed or highlighted but in essence fulfill the win/win principle.

like the classic example of teaching the impoverish how to fish than giving him fish. that's a win/win.
personal, naay daghan (all of us do actually, well, we the good ones ), one example -
ako sister nawalaan ug trabaho, galisod na siya support iya self esp sa iya rental that she can't concentrate looking for a decent job. so, i supported her w/ the rental for a couple of months then she was able to find good position for herself again. she's happy now & i'm happy coz i know she will doing fine by herself now & i won't be worrying about my little sister, too. win/win!

[ceden_yu143]

thx sa inyong mga posts guyzzz...naka tabang jud mo...

kay hapit na ako report...and i want my report to be the BEST for me and also for them esp to our facilitator.....

[ceden_yu143]

few days to go report na nako...

thx sa inyong mga suggestions...

[alviperz]

@TS: naka attend ko training about ani.. haha.. CITE mn ka bro sah?? murag naay daghan example si Mr. Valencia ani, try to reach him nlng....sa iyaha pud ko nkahibaw aning 7 habits of highly effective people.. limot nlng ko..my bad..soweee..hehe..

[ceden_yu143]

mao lage bro...ako na bitaw g.dool si sir valencia dn di man au sya kahatg nako ug mga examples...

pro nidool nako ni sir hamoy...nihatag jud si sir hamoy nako...

thx bro...

[ceden_yu143]

guyzzzz/MODs....

humana jud tawn akong report about ani....

thx sa mga nitabang nako bahin ani..


to all MODs, pde na ninyo i.cole kani nga thread...thx and more power...

[One_Ted]

hi ts,

i was lucky enough to have joined this seminar.
i can discuss this things to you.
i still have the book that was given during the seminar.
i still have the talking stick
sadly i misplaced the cd.. that could have been easier..
and i still pretty much remember everything that was discussed
i also have the certification for this 7 habits

from what i know.. this is a very expensive seminar..
i was given the chance to attend this certification program for free

example for the win win situation:

sampol.. naay contest sa arm wrestling.
and every time ma pildi nimo ang kontra maka daog ka ug cash.
imbis na magpa kusganay mo.. and mu daog lang ug ka-usa
magpa pildi ka.. daog ang kontra ug cash..
next game magpa pildi ang kontra.. daog ka ug cash..
balik balik.. lang..
point ani is.. we were taught to be competitive.. but we dont need to compete with each other everytime.

that example was on the book 8th habit by stephen covey