HELP: how come i don't feel it?

[idk.101]

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Hi, I need your opinion on my dilemma and I'm not really sure if this is in the right forum. I'm a bit confused. I've had two ex-bfs before and I loved them when we were together. I'm just wondering how come I don't feel what most girls would feel when they are intimate with their partners? If it's performance you're asking, my exes were no doubt good but they haven't made me feel so great afterwards... Is there something wrong with me?

d'you really loved them, ts? or are you just trying to put it in your mind? two different things.
maybe you're looking for something, i dont know...ask yourself what you really want.

nganong gisugot man nimo cla in the first place, ts?

i think intimacy doesnt limit only on *** or lust.

[annerhexian]

walay ni react o. oist....people, tingog

dili ko ka tingog yvonne kay dili sad ko ka relate..
but been reading.. hehehehe

nice info esp to guys who really explained from the simplified form.

But i hope the TS is truly in loved with the people she tangled.
Its not just about s3x, but there should be more physical into that.
and her emotions is still not into it.

basin ga libog naka TS.
sowi.. dili sad ko kaayu ka explain.

maybe in due time, maka ka feel na ka..
pero yaw pogsa if wala pa jud

sakto ba ne?
heehh sabta lang TS.
sowi

[jinkazama92]

It cant be you. try to look back.
its probably what they have done.
if theres something wrong with you, you would know it.

[disomniac]

btaw i agree...

how about ikaw ang mudala TS then try to initiate more..

mura man ni ug lie wit me na movie..likely lang..-=)

[azyle]

normal ra ka sis oi...

girls kay kinahanglan taas ug foreplay to reach the BIG O.
unlike guys nga basta handos handos... payter ra.
we need to be sexually stimulated and in the mood jud.
if the guy doesn't know where to hit... mag lisod pud.

ana sila ang best way to have an O is woman on top
kay it hits the gspot direct...

then para pud nako... communicate sa imu partner whats good for you
and whats not... para kabalo cya asa mu concentrate and ma please
ka for a better sensation.

[wanderingsoul]

hey, I didn't expect my dilemma is getting more responses from you guys. Thanks a lot!

Just an update, I am seeing someone now. She's a butch whom I've met from a party. We haven't gone that far if physical intimacy is concerned. We both want to take things slow first. So far, she makes me happy and that's what matters most.

[butong101]

Hi, I need your opinion on my dilemma and I'm not really sure if this is in the right forum. I'm a bit confused. I've had two ex-bfs before and I loved them when we were together. I'm just wondering how come I don't feel what most girls would feel when they are intimate with their partners? If it's performance you're asking, my exes were no doubt good but they haven't made me feel so great afterwards... Is there something wrong with me?

I certainly don't know how you did it and what were those things you've tried but one thing for sure is 1) you need emotional intimacy to your partner 2) psychological focus & attention during the “thing”. 3)fore play will surely bring you to all heavens 4) the tongues will surely help..


pero sis, ayaw ug 2o sa tanan I sulti sa imong friends oi.. most of those were exxagerated.. believed me..hehe well as for me my last partner were so head over heels with my ways, she would even call & text me in the middle of the night just for her to have it.. she even told me that she can't live without it already.. 3 – 4 times a week mi and lesser than that mangita na siya paagi unya mg una2x na jd nah akong miga nako.. hehe chill..ú

[Fern]

@wanderingsoul Aka "nagsuruy2x nga kalag"

@_@ grabeha nimu oie.... i hope ma kit-an na nimu ang Guy or a girl nga mka hatag sa imung happiness...

deeeem.... your so uberHot..the way you construct your grammar is siksi... not like some other girls dire sa forums nga feeler kaayu.

[butong101]

Usahay, naa lang sd jd laki na insensitive na ilang kalipay ra ilang g-huna2x.. naa koy amigo & amiga sus likramo sako miga kay akong migo na iyang uyab inig ka human mo undang lang sd dayon.. luoy tawn kau ako miga.. pero ang problema sko miga dili siya maka open sa ako migo na in-ana diay na bitin na diay siya.. cge ko suggest sko miga na ilang storyaan. Ambot lang kun na unsa na sila, taod2x naman sd mi wala ng kita.. one thing I learned from my readings & experiences, much better jedd kun inyo storyaan inyong performance – meaning you appreciate each other and to disclose what are your preference in styles & ways. After s3x bed talk would make the “thing”more satisfactory & fullfiling..

[disomniac]

maybe what you need is emotional intimacy... or else

maybe guys does are just not too good for you...