unsa ni speed wedding? haha
bitaw TS, don't rush. see the big picture. what if you get that "perfect guy" to marry you within the year
but it would spell decades of misery?
just because you married the person you love doesn't guarantee you eternal happiness.
challenges will come.
change of hearts and minds.
be open lang.
but do everything para ma keep ang relationship. char
now i sound like bo. sorry i'm a sucker for self-help books.
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05-26-2010, 04:54 PM #31
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05-26-2010, 04:57 PM #32C.I.A.
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Originally Posted by anjerika
Maayoha nimu mo advice oi..bilib na jud ko nimu..hehehe...
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05-26-2010, 05:02 PM #33
not exactly. someone told me last time na di daw ko dapat muhatag og advice about a thing that i haven't experienced. he was true, agree ko. i wouldn't blame him, though. mao may iya. haha
but that's life. you don't have to experience everything to learn everything and give advice just about everything.
that's why self-help books exist. that's why friends exist. that's why families exist. that's why support forums like istorya exist.
coz you are wise when you learn from your own experience. but you are wiser when you learn from other people's experience.
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05-26-2010, 05:10 PM #34C.I.A.
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Hay naku, that ring on that finger. I don't understand what's the fuss about marriage (bitter bah? hehehe)
Personally, been through marriage and all and it's not a guarantee for you to stay together forever if that's what you're after...
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05-26-2010, 05:14 PM #35
TS, tigbasahan kag romance novels? or maybe do you patronize love stories or movies? did you happen to patronize fairy tales about love? hehe.
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05-26-2010, 05:26 PM #36C.I.A.
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yeah..na realize naman naku karun nga d tinuod ang happily ever after oi..ug d tanan maminyo kay happy na jud forever...faeta.. Originally Posted by anjerika
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05-26-2010, 05:32 PM #37
Originally Posted by lovelygirl
naay uban,
pagpakasal => "once upon a time then they lived happily ever after"
pagminyo, nagkaproblem, nagbuwag => "and they lived happily ever after, once upon a time"
you can never be sure of the future. or even your partner.
what you can be sure of is yourself.
relationships are blossom, but behind that is two people working hard to keep that relationship bloom.
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05-26-2010, 05:34 PM #38
ako sad TS, tig tan-aw kog mga fairy tales or something like the Walt Disney classics but lahi ang akong apas, dili ang mga "kilig" stuff. haha i think Disney has planted a "magical, fairy tale" image about love and relationships. but i believe we have got it wrong.
coz for me, it's the power to believe. and in that strong na pagbelieve, the universe will rearrange itself to get that thing you want. haha and that includes, getting a good partner for yourself and having a happy ending.
coz amidst many divorces and separations, strong and solid relationships still exist. so don't lose hope nga makakita kag maayo para nimo. hehe
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05-26-2010, 05:35 PM #39C.I.A.
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lageh..so normal ra diay ng mawala ug kalit imong feelings sa isa ka tawo?labi na uyab mo for pila ka years? basta ang importante ky buhaton lang jud tanan para magdugay mo? maningkamot lang nga d magkabulag? ky ang feelings usahay man turn on daun usahay ma off..hehehe..mag brown out usahay.. Originally Posted by anjerika
naay uban,
pagpakasal => "once upon a time then they lived happily ever after"
pagminyo, nagkaproblem, nagbuwag => "and they lived happily ever after, once upon a time"
you can never be sure of the future. or even your partner.
what you can be sure of is yourself.
relationships are blossom, but behind that is two people working hard to keep that relationship bloom.
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05-26-2010, 05:39 PM #40
Originally Posted by lovelygirl
normal raman na. one time happy, high, excited then next time, puol, samok, etc. tawo ra bya ta. we get high, we get low. labi na sa relationships. i dont know, i'm not an expert when it comes to this, and i haven't had a super long relationship to relate with para maka advice nimo but what i can tell is it will boil down to the two persons. it takes two to tango. even if you do everything to keep him, but siya di na siya, wa moy padulngan. it's like rowing a boat on one side only, d mo mu irog, magtuyok2 ramo.
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