Marriage for Convenience

[miss tapya]

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but most of all ask for HIS guidance kay xa man ang nakabalo if it is meant to be. But sometimes we people tend to rely on our own understanding, mao nang sahay motipas gyud.

But both parties are willing to try and work things out nothing is impossible. Naa man ko nadunggan nga mas maayo pa daw nga magkadevelopan lang ang feelings kaysa magka labuan, i mean ma fall in kaysa ma fall out... (kinsa mo agree dha? )

[annerhexian]

its all about choices and see-through ur checklist of reality

and maybe considering it is good

mao sad na ako plano baya..
its not how cold or warm i am
but its a must.

this is a battle of perception, life and the situation we had in hand
and maturity plays a major role in ur life and withstand this decision ...

time cud tell and actions can recreate that thing

[miakka070]

case to case basis jud..kai ibang tao in d long run learned to love their spouses but sko case mg lisod ko kng pugson rjud..it took me a million reasons to love that person but only one reason not to love him.. my mind tells me to do so just bcos im sure bwt my future with that guy but my heart tells me not to coz id wud be lot harder to let go of hm wn he starts to fall for you hardest..unfair rko. but sa krn gd pnahona..prakticalai njud..pa engot2 kah nah m byaan kas byahe..hehe

[MI6]

I think getting married just for the sake of having a family...? is a very poor option, don’t be afraid that the train will going to left soon… rushing wont make you a better parents, you’re only making fools of yourselves. “Trust me my parents done this already”

This thing is not worth trying when time, trust and love are not well secured, and even if it does it could still go wrong. Take this into consideration that you are bringing another life into this world; it’s not like having a pet that if you don’t like the pet anymore you can always buy another.

Please people have sense on you comments.


Continue on living.

[jLuspoc]

depende man cguro na sa tao. what if in the long run, magkasinabot ra.... case to case basis lang noon....

2:10 cguro ang ratio ana nga case lang. kay lisud bya kung ang laki pugson ug pakasal sa baye nga wala jud cla feelings ky baye jud ang mag antus and that is proven. pedi ra cguro ko mo consider kung sa baye nga side ky kaning baye bsta pakitaan lang sa laki ug kabuotan daun pinangga kau... madevelop rman ang baye

[KASAAC]

yeah i guess its possible... depende sa inyong sabot

[iamcreamier]

pretending nga love ninyo ang usag-usa sa inyong mga kids...ug mao na inyong ihatag na example...anah?...hmmmp!..

[Lyle V.]

Its a big decision. Please do away from the premise where its forced marriage. Its about 2 people who agree to settle down and carry a family. Its not for immature ones. For most people, love makes up their world, for a few, love defines life..but for some..Love is destructive and crippling, it hinders productivity. The latter should be where Marriage for convenience is more preferable. Its not about how it works..its about to whom it can work.

[disomniac]

depende ra jud na sa magkasabut and sa personality sa both parties if acceptable ba cal sa usag usa..

anyways time will mapud...

[zeldo]

2:10 cguro ang ratio ana nga case lang. kay lisud bya kung ang laki pugson ug pakasal sa baye nga wala jud cla feelings ky baye jud ang mag antus and that is proven. pedi ra cguro ko mo consider kung sa baye nga side ky kaning baye bsta pakitaan lang sa laki ug kabuotan daun pinangga kau... madevelop rman ang baye

I agree lahi ang feelings sa lalaki ug babae.....

Before gyud unta mo magminyo, kinahanglan gyud unta mag ilhanay mo sa usag usa..
Atleast 1 year mo manag uyab ok nah....

Ang kaminyoon mura nag hatol sa husgado for a life imprisonment nga way parol....mao nang pagatagaan gyud ug panahon ninyo....or else you end up having trouble living including your kids for the rest of your lives....

Hinoon Kining gugma kay magadevelop raman gyud cgoro if both of will work lang gyud...peru gamay ra gyud ang chance ani nga mo work..

Importante gyud ang panag ilhanay ninyo haron kamong doha madevelop sa usag usa..Pag moabot na ang time sa inyong feeling nga dili namo pwede ma buwag, murag you can't leave without him/her, kana mao nana ready namo mag poyo....