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[Soul Doctor]

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hi doc!
i have a question....
my boyfriend told me he lost the spark in us, nawala na gamay ia love, gusto na unta siya ug breakup pero ako ang ni hangyo nga ayaw sah lang. ako pud ge huna2 dili nako kaya. unsaon nako pag balik sa spark nga maganahan siya nako ug balik nga ang iyang pag tan-aw nako before mu balik or even atleast to change his mind of leaving me. please help.... i will accept if you can send me a Pm, thank you kaayo.

wrong notion everyone!.
Bad news!
Sparks don't exist.
its just what they say in the pocketbooks. and telenovelas and movies.
so do not think about it anymore.
do not think of the past too.
think of today and tomorrow.

when you are in a mature relationship
you only need three things to keep your man:

1.) love
but love is also about respect, not being judgmental and being true.
basin sige kag pamakak niya. maturnoff jud ang imong man ana.

2.) s.e.x (for married people only)
if you have children already
*** will turn bland.
so be spontaneous
do it in unexpected places
or in unexpected positions.
be willing to try new things and experiment.
but be conscious also with your own hygiene.
it's a really turn off for us guys if we get v.d. from our wives--
just because they failed to clean themselves properly.

3.) support
it is the most important thing you can give to your husband.
Most millionaires have very supportive wives.
give your wholehearted support to your man in all his plans and projects
as long as it is good for everyone.
As long as it is practical and doable.

my wife's mistake is to think of reason why i should not do the things i planned.
i hate it when she do that.
when i had an idea of buying a water refilling station
she always convince me (and gives me a list of reasons) not to do it.

She would say:
Where will we get the money?
We can not afford it.

And we would argue from the airport to the house after i fetch her from the airport.
I feel very frustrated every time i had to convincie her.
It is like she could not see the things i see.

I said to her, "after all the support I gave to you,
I thought i could use a little support this time."

To make the long story short,
I got my water refilling station now.
Thanks finally to her support.

[Soul Doctor]

@rommel

I think you do not love her that much.
Cause if you do, you will do whatever it takes to woo her.
Church is just a little price to pay to have a good decent wife.

IT IS THEIR TEST TOO,
TO KNOW IF YOU REALLY ARE A GOOD MAN.

if you are an atheist
and she is religious christian,
then there is conflict there at the start.
So why bother.
Find yourself an atheist
daghan na diha sa mga night clubs and bars.

Wala koy simbasimba sad bro, by choice of course.
I just do not believe in religion.
But I believe in God. Not just the one described in the Bible.
Its good that my wife respects my beliefs.

pero if i were in your place
i would start going to church.
Walay mawala nimo kung mosimba ka para niya.

And ifshes busy with her studies,
all you need to do is support her in everyway you can.
Do not distract her by going out often on dates.
Give her the time she needs.
Tell her that you are always there if she needs your help.
Be patient.

[Soul Doctor]

wat f naa kay bf/mu ug na met nimo cya dri then b4 mo nag ka relationship kay naa cyay friend na girl ug after nka balo ang girl na like o kamo na sa lalaki kay murag gani ug nag selos cya... once mag istorya na gani cla about nko kay mo offline dyon ug kalit.. wla gd ko kasabot sa akng buhat. i told the guy na col of sa me ug e fix ang mga butang but mo ana man gd cya na wla gd daw clay relasyon sa babae but dli ko ganahan ug in.ani na set-up coz it really piss*d me off ug mka irita ma dugay... nka bantay sad ko sa girl na f naa ko kay dli gd mo tagad nko, hmmmm.... ngano kha ni noh

unsaon kha ni nko? dli man sad ko ganahan mo ruin ug friendship ug labaw na dli ko gnahan na naay taw na masuko nko coz lain kaayo na sa buot...

help help and a lot of helppppppp

There is something between them. Im sure of that.
Agi na sad na nako.
Only the guy is not into her anymore.

Pero naa na silay history. im sure M.U sad na niya before.
And girls dont let go that easy as boys.
Mao nga samok inyong set-up.

M.U man kaha mo.
Then it means that the guy is a player.
meaning he wants to keep both of you.
Mao wala pa siya manguyab jud nimo.

Because if i love a girl
and she is the only one in my heart,
then i would not waste my time to tell her.

so i could be sure that we will be together as couple.
And everyone should know about it para wala nay mangilog.

[Soul Doctor]

uU..pati sko feelings ng play2 npod kng angai ba duwaan..LOLS bitaw..faets rjud aist..hehe ge lng mda rag smile for now.

Find yourself a really hard working man and a loving partner.
Stay away from lazy guys.

Find yourself a keeper.
Ditch the player.

[miakka070]

Find yourself a really hard working man and a loving partner.
Stay away from lazy guys.

Find yourself a keeper.
Ditch the player.

lazy mn sya mg love other than dt ok ra sya..hehe lazy sya coz he has been broken from his previous gurl. Then ako ngkataon nga im frm a very fine rel.until my partner turned left! LOLS that's y we broke up.

follow-up ques SD: is it true abwt ds theory... if sa present relationship nimo ikaw ang ning gukod sa imo partner..ur doin evrything for that person then sa NEXT rel.nimo u get tired olredi then ang partner nimo npod and mo-effort pg au sa n-u reltnship?

[anej]

hi! SD if u don't mind, just want to ask if ikaw ang papili-on, two type of men, si mr.A na bata, student, fun to b with, cool headed, smiling, friendly, moinum, duolon ug chix or si mr.b na matured, wd unstable job, boring, luoran, muro og nawong, strikto, conservative, wlay bisyo, dli duolon ug chix? Kung kamo ang papilion kinsa si mr.a? o si mr.b? need some views, thank u in advance...

[miakka070]

hi! SD if u don't mind, just want to ask if ikaw ang papili-on, two type of men, si mr.A na bata, student, fun to b with, cool headed, smiling, friendly, moinum, duolon ug chix or si mr.b na matured, wd unstable job, boring, luoran, muro og nawong, strikto, conservative, wlay bisyo, dli duolon ug chix? Kung kamo ang papilion kinsa si mr.a? o si mr.b? need some views, thank u in advance...

mr.B here! knw y? mas preferred nko nga strict ksa cool headed nga jam ras tnan..gusto ko strict pra sa rel.plng daan kai disiplinado kna..ksa pa kewl2 nya m dugai hot pas init sa earth.. bhala wlai bisyo kai bsta tnatong iyaha..louran kai love ka niya bhala OA n sya.. unstable job? dli pman kha pod mu mg minyo?hehe serious ug face? k rna pra dli sya easy2hon sa chix..dli duolonon chix? atlis mski anah proud kah kai dli kman mg libog kng he's nothing, ryt?! think bwt it..

[Soul Doctor]

lazy mn sya mg love other than dt ok ra sya..hehe lazy sya coz he has been broken from his previous gurl. Then ako ngkataon nga im frm a very fine rel.until my partner turned left! LOLS that's y we broke up.

follow-up ques SD: is it true abwt ds theory... if sa present relationship nimo ikaw ang ning gukod sa imo partner..ur doin evrything for that person then sa NEXT rel.nimo u get tired olredi then ang partner nimo npod and mo-effort pg au sa n-u reltnship?

dili oi.
maybe you will learn from that relationship in the next time.
And you will learn to love yourself more.
Maybe you will realize that it does not pay to love the other person above yourself.

[Soul Doctor]

hi! SD if u don't mind, just want to ask if ikaw ang papili-on, two type of men, si mr.A na bata, student, fun to b with, cool headed, smiling, friendly, moinum, duolon ug chix or si mr.b na matured, wd unstable job, boring, luoran, muro og nawong, strikto, conservative, wlay bisyo, dli duolon ug chix? Kung kamo ang papilion kinsa si mr.a? o si mr.b? need some views, thank u in advance...

find mr c.

mr c should have a stable job.
smart and walay bisyo
level headed
conservative and morally upright.
have good values and principled.
ok ra duolon og chicks basta dili lang mutubay.

[balolot]

@ soul doctor: is it ok if i PM lang nko ako queries about love? makabasa nya gud ang hingtungdan, naa bya sad xa account dre.