Ask me any question about relationships

[miakka070]

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Unya------
buotan na ka karon?

LOLS..jowk2 mn au ka soul doc..kw jud..hehe uU wui.. sko mom rman na tn-aw nga maldita koh..hekhek but ok rman iv learned my lessons nwei..hehe

[Soul Doctor]

LOLS..jowk2 mn au ka soul doc..kw jud..hehe uU wui.. sko mom rman na tn-aw nga maldita koh..hekhek but ok rman iv learned my lessons nwei..hehe

ngutana ra gani ko-----

kay para mobalik sad to imong ex.

Basin makita na ka niya nga nabuotan na.
basin ma-inlove siyag balik nimo.

[miakka070]

ngutana ra gani ko-----

kay para mobalik sad to imong ex.

Basin makita na ka niya nga nabuotan na.
basin ma-inlove siyag balik nimo.

funny lge ka soul doc..LOLS saonz! myta lge kng sya nalang ako ghatagn sa cmplete love nko nga ako ghatag rn sa ako present! chat2 mn mi bg o lng pod..civil lng..LOLS.. but k mn kai hapi mn kos present..hehe (hapi bein hurt! LOLS..)

[Soul Doctor]

This season Im going to talk about relationship problems.

One of the oldest and most common relationship problem is ------

Intimacy Problems.

As a child we grew up with my mother who unfortunately has intimacy problems.

She never hugged us and never kissed us.
My younger brother once asked me if he was really a son of my mother.
He could not remember being kissed and hugged by my mother.
He became the black sheep of the family.
He became a drug addict, and consequently a womanizer to support his vice.
He even robbed a taxi driver and got imprisoned.

Feel free to share your stories about intimacy problems.

[krizitoyness]

SD, you're back.. na un.mute najud ka.. karun lng ku kabantay.. xD

[anjerika]

hi, soul doctor. naa nasad koy pangutana.


i don't know, but para sa ako, lainan kos intimacy. you know, physically.
i grew up away from my parents, who worked in another country and when they get home that's the only time maka hug mi. siya pa jud mu hug, dili kami sa akong bro. haha
and that happens only once every year, or only once in two years.
we were left under the care of her sister, who was very caring and lovable to us though intimacy wasn't something uso in the way she brought her family.

you know, dili uso ang hold hands. or even kiss sa cheek. nor hug. any act similar to it is considered scandalous. haha bitaw, it was quite different. kung sa lain pang sulti, tough love. full of discipline, lack of intimacy, but we werent abused man pud.

now, is something wrong with me? coz as nagkadako ko, lainan ko sa feeling na naay mu agbay nako, or mu kiss or mu hug. even with girls. sad to say until now. but it feels ok as long as im in the hands of someone i love and trust.

ang problema, it's not that comfortable. baw lang unsay huna2 sa akong mga friends pud, maski agbay lang lainan na ko.

do i have insecurities? unsaon mani nako para ma comfortable kos mga ing-ana nga sitwasyon? mahadlok ko nga bsin mao pa nuon ni mkadaot sa relationship. huhu

[anjerika]

og naa pay pahabol,


why do i have the feeling nga ang romantic relationships dili para sa akoa? huhuhuhu

is something wrong with me?

[miakka070]

eloo Soul Doc! u'r really back! (",)

[johnC]

ngayo unta ko advice ug how to be the close to gurls and be a gentleman with them..kay medyo naa man gud ko pagka shy and usahay hot headed

[Soul Doctor]

hi, soul doctor. naa nasad koy pangutana.


i don't know, but para sa ako, lainan kos intimacy. you know, physically.
i grew up away from my parents, who worked in another country and when they get home that's the only time maka hug mi. siya pa jud mu hug, dili kami sa akong bro. haha
and that happens only once every year, or only once in two years.
we were left under the care of her sister, who was very caring and lovable to us though intimacy wasn't something uso in the way she brought her family.

you know, dili uso ang hold hands. or even kiss sa cheek. nor hug. any act similar to it is considered scandalous. haha bitaw, it was quite different. kung sa lain pang sulti, tough love. full of discipline, lack of intimacy, but we werent abused man pud.

now, is something wrong with me? coz as nagkadako ko, lainan ko sa feeling na naay mu agbay nako, or mu kiss or mu hug. even with girls. sad to say until now. but it feels ok as long as im in the hands of someone i love and trust.

ang problema, it's not that comfortable. baw lang unsay huna2 sa akong mga friends pud, maski agbay lang lainan na ko.

do i have insecurities? unsaon mani nako para ma comfortable kos mga ing-ana nga sitwasyon? mahadlok ko nga bsin mao pa nuon ni mkadaot sa relationship. huhu

that is one problem when the environment is too strict.
you tend to toughen up.
you become desensitized.

you have to slowly learn to express more.
start with little children. hug your pamankin.
you will then realize how good it is to feel the warmth of a hug.
then you will feel comfortable with it.