Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[Soul Doctor]

unsaun pagforget kung lab nimo? =(

youtube philosopher once said--
Love is Evil.

he has his point.
love creates an in-balance in a person's life.

If you love someone, everyone else becomes less important.
Even important things becomes less important, like friends, family, school or job.
And even your self becomes less important at some point.

So if you want to forget your love.
Just restore the balance in your life.
Give importance to your family, friends, school or job.
and most especially restore importance to your self.

And you will be as good as before.

[unsay_ngalan_nimo]

if you still love him accept that's how you feel still...accept the pain of letting go.. cry.. cry... cry... wag mo pigilan..murag catharsis ba--listen to what will make you cry..

but dont close your doors to your friends... go out and have some fun... try to meet new people...

dont jump into a new relationship.. kase baka love on the rebound lang ang gawas diba?

love your self...

later on you'll realize you wont be crying anymore for the person but for yourself diay.. when you realize that.. you'll learn to move on...

[Soul Doctor]

if you still love him accept that's how you feel still...accept the pain of letting go.. cry.. cry... cry... wag mo pigilan..murag catharsis ba--listen to what will make you cry..

but dont close your doors to your friends... go out and have some fun... try to meet new people...

dont jump into a new relationship.. kase baka love on the rebound lang ang gawas diba?

love your self...

later on you'll realize you wont be crying anymore for the person but for yourself diay.. when you realize that.. you'll learn to move on...

Happiness is a choice.
You can choose to be happy when you are sad.
That is how you conquer grief and depression.

It is all in the mind.
This is because you think you can only be happy if you are with your man.
Choose to be happy.
Live life and appreciate everything in it.

And stop watching telenobelas and stop reading romance novels.

Same with fat ladies,
it the fashion magazines that makes them unhappy with their figure.
throw away those magazines and choose to be happy with or without a boyfriend
and with or without a perfect body.

[unsay_ngalan_nimo]

Happiness is a choice.
You can choose to be happy when you are sad.
That is how you conquer grief and depression.

It is all in the mind.
This is because you think you can only be happy if you are with your man.
Choose to be happy.
Live life and appreciate everything in it.

And stop watching telenobelas and stop reading romance novels.

Same with fat ladies,
it the fashion magazines that makes them unhappy with their figure.
throw away those magazines and choose to be happy with or without a boyfriend
and with or without a perfect body.

i agree with watching telenobelas and fashion magazine..

its so easy for people to say to be happy when your in pain and that happiness is a state of mind... the more you try to be happy the more you'll drown in your pain... kase people will think you're ok when in fact you are not...

parang stages sa cancer diba? denial.. then acceptance... then letting go...

[kenites]

walay formula on how to move on, walay time frame. everyone can only make suggestions or advices but still naa ra sa taw nga involve kung gusto na ba gyud siya mo move on. based on my experience, i can only say nga naka move on nako totally kung inlove nako sa lain nga taw. kung ma meet nako akong ex nga wala nay kulba sa heart ug kanang wala nako mo care kung kinsa iyang kuyog, kana maka ingon na gyud ko nga naka move on nako. studies shows though nga mas dugay maka move on ang mga lalaki. i dont know why. funny kay girls grabe ma inlove but then kung dili na inlove, dali maka move on...ang mga lalaki, lax ra while in the relationship but when mag buwag na gani, dugay maka move on. saon na lang

yah agree ko ani sis..ako gane more than 10 years na but I'm not sure if naka move on na..although the pain is gone but love is still there pero not as intense as before jud ...Let the time heal nalang...as time goes by pain slowly fades away pud...Hinay2x ra na ka wala sis, sa karon lang lisod kaayo kay bag-o pa man gud...

[sushikandi]

eventually ma wala rana ang pain.

[yiennahs]

thanks a lot guys
nakamove on najud tawn ko
the only way to move on is to know y u love him
and wen u realize na wat u love in him is gone or isnt realy real....
mura kag mabu buan ug tubig na bugnaw kaau

please close this thread mods!

salamat sa tanan

[Dee_Dee]

thanks a lot guys
nakamove on najud tawn ko
the only way to move on is to know y u love him
and wen u realize na wat u love in him is gone or isnt realy real....
mura kag mabu buan ug tubig na bugnaw kaau

please close this thread mods!

salamat sa tanan

dalia nimo nka move on sis oi..mura 1 week raman (im basing it on the day your thread started) hehehe
moapil pa unta ko...anyway, best wishes nlang unto your next relationship.

[shagrath_99]

we're happy for you sis..

[waterboy0911]

naa sad na sa amo mga laki nga mag lisod ug move on uy... abi ninyo dali ra.. abi ninyo ug kung naa nami lain g kalimtan namo.. usahay pa gani mao pa gani ang awayan kay permi ang i sulti or storyahan kay ang ex..