kinsa gikan broken family diha share your experiences

[rr_sipat]

graveh pag ka detailed sa mga istorya,

well ako broken na ang pamily nako kay naa naman lain kaplag pamilya ako ex...
naa nako ang akong daughter kay di ko ganahan maliwat or ma poison ang mind sa akong daughter...
at first sakit jud, apektado ang bata sa iyang pag eskwela... pero naka sabot raman kadugayan...

ang importante constant gihapon ang communication sa iya mama ni ni biya namo...
'never jud nako gi brain wash ang bata!
eventhough nag buwag nami sa iyang mama, ingnon jud nako na love gihapon na imo mama ha!

thats it!

[bug311]

gkan pud ko sa broken family, kinulata sa amahan, kana gali pud ihulog ka sa hagdanan, then makakita kag kutsilyo once nga mag away na, 17 yrs na sila bulag, and i spent 12years isa orphanage, withmga street kids, for me bati, naapiktuhan ang ako studies, attitute, labi na ang self worth nimo, you look you self na ubos, di kamao, bisan karon im married labi na naa na coming na baby, hadlok kaayo coz wala ka idea ba how to be a dad for your child. kuyawan kay basin God forbid mabitabo. tungaod pud na sa unsa imo nadak an.

[bug311]

this is good also, knowing ba nga ur not alone.

[yvonne6]

most parents have no idea how a separation would affect a child. tungod lagi sa rason nga modaku ra bitaw na ang bata. suportaan lang nako, duaw duawon, etc. but then, kung ang bata/anak ang inyong pangutan on, walay bata nga gusto mag bulag ang parents. and all the promises nga mo spend time sa bata maski buwag na dili nana mahitabo kay daghan ng rason later on, including work, new relationships, etc. mao ni karon, dili kahibulungan nga ubos na kaau ang moral values sa mga taw because wala na kaau ga value ang mga taw ug family. ang atong mind set karon, ug dili magkasundo, aw buwag. without even thinking how this would greatly devastate our children. kauban sa pagmahal ang pagsakripisyo. ang mga taw ra gyud niadto ang kaya magpaka martyr para sa pamilya, a very good example is lani mercado.

[MsAllSunday23]

daghan na ta..ako pod product sa broken family..dalion lang nako og storya:
akong papa had his kabit since 1980's pa ...nagbuwag sila ni mama pag 2003 pa..kahibaw na si mama daan...sige pangau sorry si papa kay mama..sweet au si papa..kada birthday ni mama, mag paparty na si papa..invite tanang friends...(by the way, pulis akong papa, ehehe)..pero si mama dumot japon ni papa...sige na sila away bati...labayan ni mama si papa og kutsilyo, sundang og uban pa..maong panaguan ni ate tanang kutsilyo pag mag away sila..basta gubot kaau to oi!..elementary pa ko ato..nya pag peace na nila, magpasaring na pod si mama og storya bhin sa kabit ni papa..away na xad..

hangtod pag 2003, wa najud kaantos si papa, nilayas na jud xa...hangtod karon wa na nauli...pero naa gihapon miy contact ni papa...happy nalang pod ko para kay papa kay bootan kau ang iya wifey kunohay...i've meet her..hasta ilang anak...nindot na kau iyang kahimtang karon...

pero ang aftermath, hadlok nako og laki kay basin mapareha kung mama, akong huna2x karon wa nay tarong laki sa earth...paranoid nako...dghan kog flings pero hadlok japon ko...hadlok ko enter og relationship...hadlok ko magminyo...d jd na nako tuyoon...

ing ana sad inyong mafeel ha?..kutob ra ko sa ganahan basta parte og laki...

[MsAllSunday23]

gkan pud ko sa broken family, kinulata sa amahan, kana gali pud ihulog ka sa hagdanan, then makakita kag kutsilyo once nga mag away na, 17 yrs na sila bulag, and i spent 12years isa orphanage, withmga street kids, for me bati, naapiktuhan ang ako studies, attitute, labi na ang self worth nimo, you look you self na ubos, di kamao, bisan karon im married labi na naa na coming na baby, hadlok kaayo coz wala ka idea ba how to be a dad for your child. kuyawan kay basin God forbid mabitabo. tungaod pud na sa unsa imo nadak an.

naapiktuhan ang ako studies, attitute, labi na ang self worth nimo, you look you self na ubos, di kamao,
igo kaayo ko ani...mao pod na akong nafeel..di jud ko kamao..low self-esteem...low tanan...

[Peenut]

It's not easy, and as soon as we grow up. We hardly can't accept the fact. But it only turns out to be a bubble that bursted out of nowhere.

I am also from a broken family.

I didn't have the opportunity to delve deeper on what happened.
Our lifestyle had changed for the past years.
But it goes to show that we are getting stronger and firm.

[Genocide]

@nitesky: Sis sayup raman pud ng imoha na 1 week naka walay kaon2 or unsa ba. ayaw pud pa biya
sa imo kaugalingon sis. mas mo worst ang situation ana. Paningkamot para mapa kita nimo
sa imo ex-husband na maskin wala cya kaya and controlado nimo ang situation diba?Ü
Cheer up!

[beyee]

me here

My mom left when I was 2 and my dad's been a single parent of 4 kids. He never gave up on us and labored for years just to send us to private schools til college. What made me respect my dad even more is that I never heard him talk trash about my mom. Since day one, he never made us feel that we're different from the rest just because of our dysfunctional family -- it never came close to that. Many commended of how my dad brought us up so well that we never rebelled against our situation instead we took it as a blessing coz we have known someone dear to us who loves us unconditionally.

My parents have always been civil with one another and we go to family parties as if nothing happened in our family. Even though my mom wanted to come back right after my dad had a stroke, my siblings, my Dad and I decided that it's best for all of us that there will be no reconciliation.

With what happened to my parents, there's no denying that my views on marriage and motherhood had somehow changed and worst have become twisted. Not even a hopeless romantic like me can ever change that.

[Kenah]

im from a broken family pud mau gusto sad ko mka baw unsa inyo experiences sa nahitabo sa inyo family nya unsa pud inyo plano sa inyo life pud since nahitabo to.....love to hear it from you guys...

me too, but as time goes maka move on ra ka ...pero usahay maka think ka what if....blahhhhh