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[Ginalyn]

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OT: I don't have a problem to share, but I just wanted to comment that this is a very nice, informative thread. Excellent advice. Bravo!

Thanks a million for your appreciation.

[Peenut]

OT: I don't have a problem to share, but I just wanted to comment that this is a very nice, informative thread. Excellent advice. Bravo!

I second the motion

[shaggy]

now wat..?.............

[shaggy]

smart ni.......

[Ginalyn]

Why are there guys that are so commitment-phobics?

Is it normal for a guy who's in a live-in situation but is still not willing to commit to his partner?

Its like getting the prize without paying for the registration,
why would he pay for the registration, when he already got the prize?

A live-in situation is a lose-lose situation for the girl.
Sad that women got scammed into this arrangement.

Live-in relationship is like being married without the marriage.
So why would you need to get married?
when you are already married without the papers.
It is much easier for the guy to have a divorce than get married again.
He already got the prize.

Its his job to make excuses not to get married.
he is not afraid of commitment.
He is already into one.
He needs another commitment.
A new one.
Especially if gipul-an na kay he's been in a live-in situation for more than two years.

[rAiNe_]

hello Mam Gi,

ang ako probs bahin sa ako bf ron, nahan nako makigbuwag nya, ang reason kay mahadlok man gud ko mapareha sa ako ex bah nga basin nya ug byaan ra pud ko nya.. I talked to him alst night pero nihilak man xa ui.. di daw nya makaya mag buwag mi, wala daw xa dautan gibuhat, saksi daw c Lord anah.. ingon pa jud xa nako nga sultian daw nako xa unsa angay nya buhaton para lang di maguba amo relationship nya dili pud nako xa byaan.. buhaton daw niya tanan.. though di daw xa makahatag ug mga material things nako pero paningkamotan niya nga mahatag nya unsa ko gusto. dili ma pud ko materialistic bah.. ang ako raman gud kay basin bah ug love au ko nya karon daun mawala ra iya love nako madugayan daun biyaan na nya ko..maau nang makauna ko.. hehehe.. pero ma guilty man pud ko ui.. wa man xa sala..

[Ginalyn]

hello Mam Gi,

ang ako probs bahin sa ako bf ron, nahan nako makigbuwag nya, ang reason kay mahadlok man gud ko mapareha sa ako ex bah nga basin nya ug byaan ra pud ko nya.. I talked to him alst night pero nihilak man xa ui.. di daw nya makaya mag buwag mi, wala daw xa dautan gibuhat, saksi daw c Lord anah.. ingon pa jud xa nako nga sultian daw nako xa unsa angay nya buhaton para lang di maguba amo relationship nya dili pud nako xa byaan.. buhaton daw niya tanan.. though di daw xa makahatag ug mga material things nako pero paningkamotan niya nga mahatag nya unsa ko gusto. dili ma pud ko materialistic bah.. ang ako raman gud kay basin bah ug love au ko nya karon daun mawala ra iya love nako madugayan daun biyaan na nya ko..maau nang makauna ko.. hehehe.. pero ma guilty man pud ko ui.. wa man xa sala..

trust your instincts.
girls have a habit of falling in love with the same type of person.
kung ang bf nimo karon dunay pagkapareha sa unang bf.
iapil na gani na ang lord sa estorya, delicado na na.
bitaw, both of you have your insecurities.
this is what brings out all your relationship problems.

if you want out. just get out.
its your decision.
he has nothing to say but--ok.
no one can force you to stay in a relationship you do not want anymore.
even if you are already married.

best not to see him or text him anymore.
thats the way to do it.
forget closure-- real men dont need that.

and be wary, if he insist on holding on to you,
then you have a future problem.
he will take it against you.
and as soon as he gets your trust,
he will dump you like trash.

If you say no once, just be firm.
there are plenty of girls out there for him.
and please dont get into a relationship after a breakup.

[rAiNe_]

Mam.

Love man pud nako xa, mahadlok lang ko sa bah what if biyaan ra nya ko pareha sa ako EX.. anyway buotan man ni ako bf, ang akoa lang jud bah mahadlok lang jud ko.. close na xa ako family, ang akoa man gud murag wa nako trust sa mga guys..

[Batusi_Kwitis]

Hi to all who istoryans especially to those who support this thread in particular.. those who share their treasure chest of experience, brilliant and heartfelt ideas..

mangayo unta ko ug advice..

I have this GF 5 months nami... malipayon rman mi sa usag usa... siya akung first love.. 1st 2 months grabe kaayu mi ka sweet ug close akung tym halos ghatag naku tanan niya 2 the extent nga halus aku nang gkalimtan akung mga barkada and even my family... YES I really love her gidawat naku cy as a whole ug wla koi nakita nga bati despite nga aku iyang 5th BF ug daghan kaayu nahitabo sa ila nga iya gi share nku... but as time goes by naay koi na discover niya Cge ra ghapon cya ug communicate sa iyang ex and even mag kyug ghpaon cla... aku pa gani nasakpan sa txt and even sa actual gyud... after ato cge nami ug away.. hinoun grabe kaayu ka seloso especially sa iyang mga ex.. One time nasakpan gani naku nga nag angkas2x ug motor kuyug sa iyang ex unya grabe ghapon siya ka mka deny nga wla na gyud cla magkyug..and even until now cge nghapon cla ug kita2x masakpan lang nku sa mga sulod sa iyang bag like recibo nga naay ngalan sa iyang ex, and even my cousin told me nga naay grabe nka agbay2x niya and based on description parehas ug nawng sa iya ex... ug akung timbang2xun mas bughat man amung happy moments compared sa akung mga kasakit...

Unsaon mani naku nga love man ghapon naku cya dli ko mka buwag niya... but masakitan man gyud ko.. unsa akung buhaton...

thanx

[Ginalyn]

Mam.

Love man pud nako xa, mahadlok lang ko sa bah what if biyaan ra nya ko pareha sa ako EX.. anyway buotan man ni ako bf, ang akoa lang jud bah mahadlok lang jud ko.. close na xa ako family, ang akoa man gud murag wa nako trust sa mga guys..

thats the risk everyone has to take.
relationship changes in time.

ako sa una close ko sa family sa akong partner.
pero niabot ang time nga wala na koy kwarta kay nahunong akong business
unya akong partner na nagtrabaho,
nausab ang tinagdan sa iyang pamilya nako.

magpadungog dungog na nga tapulan kuno ko kay dili kakitag trabaho.
in fact gusto nilang magbuwag mi kay maminyo pa kunog kwartahan ilang anak.

we have to fight for love.
and in hindsight i can say that sometimes the price for love is too high to pay.
a little regret there.
so my advice to all, know your future in-laws very well.
it can be hell. if you failed to do so.