of cors,luv is the main reason for those hu has a non-virgin parnter bcoz they cant reason out virginity at all. either which of these two: love or respect.
making luv is not all about pu$$y thing, but the whole body thing. f*** that stinky thing, its all about the touches and the tastes when u make luv.
either which is which, there is this thing called MARRIAGE. and all about sacrifices. and marrying sum1 hus not virgin anymore is part of ur sacrifices. the talks, the rumors etc... but who cares, as long as u chose dat sum1 to be ur partner forever,love wil follow...
in my own opinion. virginity is not that important thing if she wont entertain any opposite *** during ur relationship... il jz simply say: "ayaw pag hilas2x dha, di rba akoy nakauna nimo. biyaan tka ron..."
so, for thoz hu hasnt started yet, i wud adviced u to choose untouched person. marry him/her ryt away.... no sweat,stand still and be proud..................