AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[targus]

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sad jyud mag break up..especially if di ka ready..ako share ko lang...my boyfriend is not as loving as before...murag nag dry na ba...I still love him so much yet there's nothing I can do. If I keep on asking him about the relationship, I'm afraid he will be annoyed and totally leave me. So, here I am..stlll holding on. bisan sakit kaayo coz hadluk man jyud ko na madula sya totally..so okay na lang bisan di na sya as loving , basta kami pa.

[ieaiaio]

break up namo murag trapik sa mai bridge sa opon. i can't move on.

[beyee]

after the break up, alot of changes happened

i usually slept early na though now balik dugay napud
grabe ang waldas sa kwarta
nisamot ko ug katambok
outlook of life nausab na
but id say karma jud to nako why nahitabo... but have to move on wa naman tay mahimz

... hehehe.. can relate to this one.. since the break-up, I ended up even more "galante" now wid friends, graveh ko makabangka nila to celebrate my freedom morag nakawala sa lungga hehehe... and I started to buy stuffs for myself na unlike before na unsay makit-an nice, pugong lang k magsave for lil stuffs for my ex coz I know it wud make him happy..

sad jyud mag break up..especially if di ka ready..ako share ko lang...my boyfriend is not as loving as before...murag nag dry na ba...I still love him so much yet there's nothing I can do. If I keep on asking him about the relationship, I'm afraid he will be annoyed and totally leave me. So, here I am..stlll holding on. bisan sakit kaayo coz hadluk man jyud ko na madula sya totally..so okay na lang bisan di na sya as loving , basta kami pa.

... here's a question targus, are u allowing urself to settle with that? don't you think you deserve even more? hope u have figured things out already.. better yet talk with your partner.

break up namo murag trapik sa mai bridge sa opon. i can't move on.

... good metaphor there... yeah lisod jud mo-move on at first.. hope ur ok now..

[commonsense]

it was hard at first but you'll get used to it.
bitaw, as what they say, anad-anad ra jud na. sa una naanad ka nga naay uyab karon anada na pud imong self nga wala.

[japferp]

Hays its Painful.. Huhuhu.. Been a week, But the pain is still der... I always end up crying at night. I always pray to God that hoping somehow it will ease the pain.. I hate being alone cause the pain will always comeback.. Right now he want me back. I hope i made the right decision we will meet each other again after 3 months.. Just to heal ourselves and ready to start again.. I never thought that this could be so hard my first heartbreak.. Huhuhu

[abewtifulmind]

bitaw.. anad anad jud... sakit jud oi... akoang 6 years.. lol.. pwerteng sakita ato.. hahahaha... wa paman gani ko huwase karon.. hahaha... hahay.. dire nalang kutob.. kapoi go-ol go-ol

[beyee]

it was hard at first but you'll get used to it.
bitaw, as what they say, anad-anad ra jud na. sa una naanad ka nga naay uyab karon anada na pud imong self nga wala.

... good point sense, but there are times fate does tease us in our comfort zone being single... we would meet someone new or someone from the past and stir up our lives which we have grown accustomed to being alone... then we'll end up feeling so confused whether to give up our freedom to be with that someone... hehehe

Hays its Painful.. Huhuhu.. Been a week, But the pain is still der... I always end up crying at night. I always pray to God that hoping somehow it will ease the pain.. I hate being alone cause the pain will always comeback.. Right now he want me back. I hope i made the right decision we will meet each other again after 3 months.. Just to heal ourselves and ready to start again.. I never thought that this could be so hard my first heartbreak.. Huhuhu

... like they always say, first love and first heartache are bittersweet since all our ideals of a great first relationship are crushed to pieces as we face the trials of a separation.. at the start of our relationship kasi we always envision as something for a lifetime and no one or nothing will separate the two of you but then inavoidable circumstance happens and one thing left for you to do is to say goodbye... and letting go of someone so dear to you would be the death of you... mao na sakit jud..

bitaw.. anad anad jud... sakit jud oi... akoang 6 years.. lol.. pwerteng sakita ato.. hahahaha... wa paman gani ko huwase karon.. hahaha... hahay.. dire nalang kutob.. kapoi go-ol go-ol

... masayangan jud ta as for the length of time uv been together and how much u have shared as a couple but ing ana man jud na ang life, people do come and go -- to live life's experiences for us to learn and grow.. so being happy of ur new change and status in life is the way to go...

[commonsense]

... good point sense, but there are times fate does tease us in our comfort zone being single... we would meet someone new or someone from the past and stir up our lives which we have grown accustomed to being alone... then we'll end up feeling so confused whether to give up our freedom to be with that someone... hehehe.

sakto jud ka bey.. mao jud na ako situation right now.. pero i decided to be alone lang sah.. ako sa papahuwayon akong heart, kay super na ni ka stress. bitaw, i just wanna make sure nga if mo enter ko ug another relationship, wala nakoy issues sa akong kaugalingon and im fully healed na para dili pud unfair sa akong partner. i want to be whole again. it doesn't make me less of a person ug wala koy uyab. maayo na ug mosulod man gali ko ug relationship balik kailangan himutang na tanan kay pang minyoay na ni ako.. joke..

[beyee]

hahaha.. nice idea sense.. we do share the same sentiments about healing ourselves first before plunging to something serious again..

personally, i have reached to a point wherein i wouldn't fret about not finding my partner or even end up as a spinster as long as i'm having the time of my life and i wouldn't need someone's approval that i'm good enough, payts nako ana.. i can't imagine myself to be in a sticky situation with someone, graveh na makadrain jud... so dating would suffice hehehe.. pwede na

one thing i've learned about my relatives and friends who are still single at the prime of their years is that it all takes a shift in priorities in how you want your life to end up and be comfy about it... embrace your freedom and everything will follow.. if this is your mantra in life then there's no reason for you to worry about being single for the rest of your life

[Peenut]

After a break-up?

It's like a feather falling and a bomb exploding.... soft, but you are the only one who's hearing it.