is he INTO me or not?...naglibog ko!huhu

[jack_d_wack]

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ibog na kaayo na nimu! mas klaro pa kaysa sa alimutaw. hehe.

bitaw, you'll just have to give him time to spit it out. he needs an ample time to say all the things that you want to hear maybe because he's confused at this time (naa mn kaha uyab karon?). if wala gyud gihapon, unya maghikap2 gihapon siya sa imong mga kamot, hehe, then it's got to be something. chixboi lang siguro ang amaw, taking advantage of the fact that you're single and he obviously sees that you're into him. confrontation is the best to clear things up.

[Chedot]

All I can say. (My favorite principle)

Never assume and presume
Never expect
Never demand.



If you're happy with him, enjoy the moments.
Don't sugarcoat it much.
Know the person deeply.
The more time you've spent together, the more experiences you'll gained with each other.

..continued

Addendum: Don't Fantasize too much. Be realistic.

[aozora]

I wont go distance coz from what I have learned, its a waste of time IF he is committed.
I will just act norMal and be a keen observer but I wont go to the flow of a "Flirting" act.
If dili kaya sa akong panimoot ug dili uyon sa akong pangutok,
dili kow patuga tuga... no matter how I may liked the person..
its a mind draining and a waste of time to vaLue the "likes" of that species here in earth.

your answer to TS' problem kay GO DISTANT. but kung sa imo mahitabo, you won't go distant. hmmm...

don't get me wrong here. i'm not suggesting TS to flirt back. sakto ka when you said don't waste time. that is why i want her to be objective. kung mag flirt ang guy niya (and she knows the guy is committed), confront him on the spot. dli ba mas dali nimo mahibaw-an ang tinuod?

what do you exactly do kung naay mo flirt nimo nga committed guy? you'll become poste sa Veco nga naay lamp? hahaha... i think most of the time, kung ganahan ang girl sa guy, dli cya ka huna2 nga committed ang guy. she will just go with the flow.


BTW, i should have put a note. it's my (a guy's) perspective. i maybe wrong from your pov but i'd like to point out something.

[beyee]

from the way i see it, the guy is flirting with u TS just to check if ul fall for his charms, mokagat ba jud ka bsag naa na cya gf, ika nga... wala man pod mawala sa iya, ang prob kay ikaw man mismo nahulog na jud... it's easier said than done but just play it cool lang... if you really wanted to flirt back, just remember that it's all about MIND GAMES... ang maigo maau, maoy pildi hehehe...

i think this is how the guy thinks, correct me if i'm wrong... just don't wanna end up sounding as if i hate the men's guts so much hehehe... which isn't true... just stating the obvious hihihi

[honexxx]

sis, basta ayawg sugot dad-onka niya sa sinehan!!! waaaahhh. dinner nuon, ok..

[aozora]

All I can say. (My favorite principle)

Never assume
Never expect
Never demand.



If you're happy with him, enjoy the moments.
Don't sugarcoat it much.
Know the person deeply.
The more time you've spent together, the more experiences you'll gained with each other.

..continued

that constitute cheating for the side of the guy, plus you're just telling TS to drive in the high way while blindfolded.

ok kaayo ko ani nga tambag, THAT IS IF, wla nay uyab ang guy.

[reginakrys]

whether he's into you or not, remember that he's committed to someone else.. i think it's best if you stay away for now and let him reassess the situation.. maybe iyang current relationship is in a muddy patch right now and for some reason he thinks that flirting with another girl is the solution..

maybe he really does like you.. but can and will you do anything about it knowing nga he's involved with someone else?

or maybe that's how he values his relationships lng jud.. if that's the case, then i don't think you wouldn't want to be with him coz maybe someday you'll find yourself in his current gf's shoes, with a bf who freely flirts with other women..

[commonsense]

if he's not making any efforts to know you more then he's not that into you..
bisan man lang ug number wala jud ka pangayo? aw, hinuon pud.. naa sad bya siyay uyab..
just treat him like one of your officemates. then if possible ayaw hatagi ug chance nga kamo rang duha magkuyog.

[granz]

sis, basta ayawg sugot dad-onka niya sa sinehan!!! waaaahhh. dinner nuon, ok..

- positib dhay!.. agree gd ko nimo!

[annerhexian]

your answer to TS' problem kay GO DISTANT. but kung sa imo mahitabo, you won't go distant. hmmm...

don't get me wrong here. i'm not suggesting TS to flirt back. sakto ka when you said don't waste time. that is why i want her to be objective. kung mag flirt ang guy niya (and she knows the guy is committed), confront him on the spot. dli ba mas dali nimo mahibaw-an ang tinuod?

what do you exactly do kung naay mo flirt nimo nga committed guy? you'll become poste sa Veco nga naay lamp? hahaha... i think most of the time, kung ganahan ang girl sa guy, dli cya ka huna2 nga committed ang guy. she will just go with the flow.


BTW, i should have put a note. it's my (a guy's) perspective. i maybe wrong from your pov but i'd like to point out something.

shyt! typo error. sowi brad. har har.
I wont go distance = kwa a ang word na "wont" please.
Mo distansya kow NIYA....

what do you exactly do kung naay mo flirt nimo nga committed guy? you'll become poste sa Veco nga naay lamp? hahaha. - exactLy. hehe been doing that for the past few days and they called me "insensitive" unless someone will raise a "white flag" and I make sure the guy do the raising and not me... committed people shud learn the responsibility they have and stop looking for a side dish.