is he INTO me or not?...naglibog ko!huhu

[MsAllSunday23]

hello..im 23 f
naa koy katrabaho 25 m, naay uyab, ambot kung dugay na ba sila.nacrush nako daan ni "Nico" since nagkatrabaho mi last november 09..before di pa kau siya magkigtalk nako jud...pero pag march magsige na mi og talk every break namo.dungan mi og break with my other girl friend.daghan kau ko og nahibaw an niya...we have a lot in common jud.hasta fave bottled water pareha mi!..nya naa toy time nga kami ra duha nagbreak kay niabsent ako miga, niask xah nako naa na ba daw koy uyab. ana ko wa (which is true). ana xah ana jud. ayaw sa pag uyab2x..nganu ask man xah?y ing ato iyang reply?...

since ato, makigtapad na xa nako every break (sauna di man mi tapad, atbang ra hehe)...nya pag tuesday, niask xa nako naa ba daw kubal ako kamot..ana ko wala..gikuha niya akong kamot..ana xah wa bitaw noh..nindota gunitan sa imong kamot oi..dugay niya gibuhian akong kamot (kilig sad ko)...giinvite ko niya manan aw og sine nya libre daw niya..nikatawa ko at first but ni yes ra sad ko...ana xah nan aw dw mi sine pag naa nay nindot nga movie....(ambot wen pa nah..)....nya gahapon, nag atbang mi sa table pag break namo...nasakpan na nako siya nga nitotok nako...nitan aw ko kalit niya..nilingiw bitaw na xa...duda na jud ko inlove na jud xah nako cguro..but wala mn xa nanguyab nako oi..wa xa niask xa akong number huhuhuhuhu...faet!!!.hanggang duon lang jud..love na jud nako kaau xah...mingawon ko niya pag di ko kakita nya..mabuang ko bayot..nagplano ko nga di nalng ko makigdungan niya og break and d nako mag tingog2 nya para di ko sakitan..naa xay uyab..and the thought of it mura nako madead..ambot unsa akong buhaton..pls..help!!!!is he into me na ba?

[aozora]

hahaha... makahilak man pud ta ug bogbog ani. (unsa diay nang bogbog?? hihihi)

sayon ra kaayo tubagon imong question sis. ang lisod kay unsaon nimo pag proceed. pero, dli gihapon ko sure kung he's into you jud kay naa pa cyay uyab, kung 100% he is in to you, buwagan niya iyang uyab to be with you. mao na ang he is into you!
naa cyay uyab and then she's flirting you?! ok ra u?! is that okay with you? hihihi.

it's nice to know that you two have a lot in common. but there's one big uncommon between you two! and that is he has a partner and you have none!

ako ikasuggest na imong buhaton kay...just continue with what you do BUT everytime he flirts with you, rub it in his face that he has a gf! like manan-aw mo ug sine, ask him "okay lang sa imong uyab nga magwatch ta ug sine kita ra?", kung maghikap2 cya sa imong kamot, ask him "okay ra sa imong uyab nga maghikap ka sa akong kamot?", then minimize your Cloud 9, talk less with him.

if you'll do that, ang possible na mahitabo kay (1) buwagan niya iyang uyab or (2) he will stop flirting you.

basta control yourself not to fall in love with a person that is not single!

[annerhexian]

mabuang ko bayot! hahahah nahan jud ko ani na expression! har har har
his not into u pa miss, kay dili pa man mo yayabs.
Shudi adtog cloud 9 na ikaw ra usa, basin ma yataps imong beauty wala sa oras.

hehehe if i were u, i will keep my distances
pero chances of scaling guarantee is a never ending measurement.

Question to aozora:
ok ra di ai continue siya ana na way possibility na ma sukamod ang grL wala sa oras?
is flirting a committed guy is ok? whew!
madahan dili kow ma inlove.. hahahahaahhaa
unsaon pag minaro jud? be be be.. hahhahhaa

[beyee]

just treat him as one of ur workmates.. why?

1. he has a gf
2. he's not into you -- coz if he is, he wud've asked for ur no., he wudn't do that to u out of respect to his gf and u -- he only did stuffs k thrill pod na nila na bsag naay gf, attractive japon sila sa lain and i guess he's trying to act out his fantasy pod -- beeing chummy wid his workmate since everyday mo magkita -- mao ni danger sa work place, dali ra ma tintal labi na attached na
3. he knows ur vulnerable since ala ka bf pa so he knows how to make u feel giddy


but if u think otherwise, only way to find out is ASK HIM...

mas maau migo mo TS k nice man na naa ka friend na guy na makajam widout any malice, platonic ika nga... and about the movie thing, it's better to watch it with a group of ur workmates, dili ra kamo duha k naa man sya uyab.. how would u feel ur bf watches movie alone wid any of his workmates?

remember, it takes two to tango

[aozora]

mabuang ko bayot! hahahah nahan jud ko ani na expression! har har har
his not into u pa miss, kay dili pa man mo yayabs.
Shudi adtog cloud 9 na ikaw ra usa, basin ma yataps imong beauty wala sa oras.

hehehe if i were u, i will keep my distances
pero chances of scaling guarantee is a never ending measurement.

Question to aozora:
ok ra di ai continue siya ana na way possibility na ma sukamod ang grL wala sa oras?

for me, ok ra icontinue pero naay big BUT -- nga ipamukha sa girl nga naay uyab ang guy when he flirts with her....

in love si TS and the guy flirted, i'm in doubt in his current relationship too. so probing questions with regards with his flirting actions will uncover the situation of his current relationship. if you sense there's nothing wrong, then you know the guy is flirtatious. i think you know what to do with him! (is that a player?)

kung masukamod man si TS, at least pud dli sa espalto. with cushion by knowing the outcome. and its not about being masukamod, its about standing up after masukamod. (char! am i still in the same channel?)

basta ingon ani, i'll confront and not hang around. there are so many things to consider but just remember one thing:
don't fall in love with somebody that is not single, much more go into relationship mode with them.

if the outcome will not favor TS, natubag man pud iyang pangutana nga "is he into me?" (btw, naay movie nga "He's Just Not That Into You.", i don't recommend it. lol)

is flirting a committed guy is ok? whew!
madahan dili kow ma inlove.. hahahahaahhaa
unsaon pag minaro jud? be be be.. hahhahhaa

NO! if you're the one being flirted to, what will you do?

[MsAllSunday23]

hahaha...tnx xa inyo tambag ha...=D...i should take your tambags lang jud..lisod na oi...mahimo tang kabit ng wala sa oras my God!!!...noweh..=D..pero pag magbuwag na sila, y not poknat...=D...12am nalang ko magbreak oi...1am man ta amo sked....sige nalang para di na mi magkatalk jud...matsalamz jud sa inyong advice...im starting to miss him na ra ba...atotz ooi

[Peenut]

All I can say. (My favorite principle)

Never assume
Never expect
Never demand.



If you're happy with him, enjoy the moments.
Don't sugarcoat it much.
Know the person deeply.
The more time you've spent together, the more experiences you'll gained with each other.

..continued

[beyee]

Never assume
Never expect
Never demand.

love this one my mafia's golden rule hehehe...

follow this one TS

[annerhexian]

for me, ok ra icontinue pero naay big BUT -- nga ipamukha sa girl nga naay uyab ang guy when he flirts with her....

in love si TS and the guy flirted, i'm in doubt in his current relationship too. so probing questions with regards with his flirting actions will uncover the situation of his current relationship. if you sense there's nothing wrong, then you know the guy is flirtatious. i think you know what to do with him! (is that a player?)

kung masukamod man si TS, at least pud dli sa espalto. with cushion by knowing the outcome. and its not about being masukamod, its about standing up after masukamod. (char! am i still in the same channel?)

basta ingon ani, i'll confront and not hang around. there are so many things to consider but just remember one thing:
don't fall in love with somebody that is not single, much more go into relationship mode with them.

if the outcome will not favor TS, natubag man pud iyang pangutana nga "is he into me?" (btw, naay movie nga "He's Just Not That Into You.", i don't recommend it. lol)?

Thanks for the answer aozora,
but I think, Flirting even the slightest chance of knowing a person's personality is not easy.
Easy to say to these head "don't fall in love with somebody that is not single, much more go into relationship mode with them.," but not to your heart once a heart recognize fatal attraction and attachment.

for me dili siya okey econtinue if ing ana na department.. unless mo make jud ug move ang laki like asking for a forMal dates.

Distance will do theM good! why?

Flirting is a start of cheating to the side sa laki (dili side sa babae kay wala man ceay attachment)
and more confusion and complication on the said consquences.

and its better they will go as a group but not a one on one dates.
Hints I dont recommend flirting who are Labeled to be in a "COMMITTED" status. (padaplin ang mga player diri - wala moy au. har har har)

I just remember what oprah said in a show about MEN.
If a Man wants you, nothing can keep him away,
If he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay

NO! if you're the one being flirted to, what will you do?

I wont go distance coz from what I have learned, its a waste of time IF he is committed.
I will just act norMal and be a keen observer but I wont go to the flow of a "Flirting" act.
If dili kaya sa akong panimoot ug dili uyon sa akong pangutok,
dili kow patuga tuga... no matter how I may liked the person..
its a mind draining and a waste of time to vaLue the "likes" of that species here in earth.

[Man4Rental]

hello..im 23 f
naa koy katrabaho 25 m, naay uyab, ambot kung dugay na ba sila.nacrush nako daan ni "Nico" since nagkatrabaho mi last november 09..before di pa kau siya magkigtalk nako jud...pero pag march magsige na mi og talk every break namo.dungan mi og break with my other girl friend.daghan kau ko og nahibaw an niya...we have a lot in common jud.hasta fave bottled water pareha mi!..nya naa toy time nga kami ra duha nagbreak kay niabsent ako miga, niask xah nako naa na ba daw koy uyab. ana ko wa (which is true). ana xah ana jud. ayaw sa pag uyab2x..nganu ask man xah?y ing ato iyang reply?...

since ato, makigtapad na xa nako every break (sauna di man mi tapad, atbang ra hehe)...nya pag tuesday, niask xa nako naa ba daw kubal ako kamot..ana ko wala..gikuha niya akong kamot..ana xah wa bitaw noh..nindota gunitan sa imong kamot oi..dugay niya gibuhian akong kamot (kilig sad ko)...giinvite ko niya manan aw og sine nya libre daw niya..nikatawa ko at first but ni yes ra sad ko...ana xah nan aw dw mi sine pag naa nay nindot nga movie....(ambot wen pa nah..)....nya gahapon, nag atbang mi sa table pag break namo...nasakpan na nako siya nga nitotok nako...nitan aw ko kalit niya..nilingiw bitaw na xa...duda na jud ko inlove na jud xah nako cguro..but wala mn xa nanguyab nako oi..wa xa niask xa akong number huhuhuhuhu...faet!!!.hanggang duon lang jud..love na jud nako kaau xah...mingawon ko niya pag di ko kakita nya..mabuang ko bayot..nagplano ko nga di nalng ko makigdungan niya og break and d nako mag tingog2 nya para di ko sakitan..naa xay uyab..and the thought of it mura nako madead..ambot unsa akong buhaton..pls..help!!!!is he into me na ba?

Ka lingaw ani sis oi...Kilig ko da..Sis wait lang jud..Ayaw lang assume pero kung ganahan jud ka niya..pakita gamay motibo..like murag ipa feel nimo niya na mingawn ka niya always...txt txt ka niya ug quotes.. kay basin tameme ra ni sya...weeeeeeee...pahibaw a mi sa outcome ani sis ha....