How to Avoide to Fall inlove with your friend ?..

[mortal_bane]

---

Nka experience ko aneh nga situation. I was in loved with my best friend before. We've been best friends since High School (MURA NA GYUD UYAB) until we reached 3rd year college. Same course same skeds. Until the time came nga we feel something different for each other. Unfortunately, I was shocked nalang nga nauyab cya sa akong amigo. Sukad ato nga hitabo. Wla na gyud mi magtagad sa girl. But cge lng ug leave ug offline messages until now... Lisod ning ma inlove ka sa imong bestfriend kay di ma explain ang feeling kung dle na mo close...

[Su-Hae]

mao sad ni akong struggle perme..ky dali ky ko mafall..akong buhaton ky I cut all my connection with the person..

[anjerika]

HAVING FRIENDS/ BEST BUDDY in OPPOSITE S.E.X

Friendships that turn into relationships can be the best type. You've already gotten to know the person, and have decided that you want to take things to the next level. It can make things more comfortable and simply wonderful. However, sometimes the friendship turned "relationship" goes awry.

Often, the friendship has been deeply wounded or destroyed, and then you've lost a good friend.

1. Open Communication and Have a Mutual license agreement not to be romantically involved with each other.
This may sound stupid coz once weve been closed to person, then better have to think to ur head all over again what you have right now with that person.
2. Set paramaters and distance.
Theres always a thin line of friends and lovers sweety. So take control with it.
3. SEt boundaries.Don't sit too close to each other when you go to the movies. Don't allow the friend to sleep over. Don't hold hands, even if it's just for fun. Feeling virgin ika nga?
4. DO NOT BECOME INTIMATE.
This is the most crucial part eh? hahahha... dont tell too much of secrets from you.. wala lang.. bsta yaw lang.. hahhahahahhaha
6. DONT kiSS! hahaha kinsa igo ana? hapa! hahhahhaha


If you do start to have feelings for your friend, take a few steps back.
Put some distance in the relationship.
Sometimes then you will be able to get the feelings to dissipate.
If not, you may have to talk to your friend and figure out what to do.
It might be that a blunt blow of reality from the friend reminding you that you are only friends
and it will be no more can bring you back from Cloud 9.


Its easy to fall but there's no guarantee who catches u in the end or maybe none at all...

Lucky are those who are inlove with their friend and their friend love them as well.. suya mode! hahaahah


hahahhhahaha

hapa! haha igo jud ko ani tanan. my bad. aw baw lang, he also made me feel the same way. or maybe i just misinterpreted it. that's why i'm very strict now, boundaries are boundaries. kay lisod nag mabalik tong sauna. he was my most precious, and tungod nawa kos control i lost him. saon, sa kadugay namo na friends, di lang jud magka kami. retaliate na lang jud, prevention is better than cure. too bad dugay ko naka palayo nya. saon, he keeps on coming back. and i couldn't avoid him. this time i already did. *sigh*

[esotericlove]

sis, lisod mana oiz kay ang pag fall inlove naturally moabot na.. di maturuan ang puso remember? mukalit ra na abot sa imo life.. hehhehe

[annerhexian]

hapa! haha igo jud ko ani tanan. my bad. aw baw lang, he also made me feel the same way. or maybe i just misinterpreted it. that's why i'm very strict now, boundaries are boundaries. kay lisod nag mabalik tong sauna. he was my most precious, and tungod nawa kos control i lost him. saon, sa kadugay namo na friends, di lang jud magka kami. retaliate na lang jud, prevention is better than cure. too bad dugay ko naka palayo nya. saon, he keeps on coming back. and i couldn't avoid him. this time i already did. *sigh*

Mao jud na ako na learn.. mao nag share2 lang kow.. haahyst.. bangas nako.

[wakiki]

Simple, amigahon og amigohon nimu kanang dili ayu ka ma attract like ka opposite ug trip nimu pra dili ka mahulog!Hehehehehe

wahaha di gahapon bai, opposite gali kaayo me , naa syay kinaiya ng a di nako type pero ganhan gihapon ko nya murag gi accept nako kung unsa sya.. lahi sya ug trip lahi sad ko ug trip pero magkasinabot me heheheh

[andii]

That's one of the worst thing in love sis, falling in-love with a friend.

Actually, its rare to avoid that situation, because you've been there.
Take some space, but don't be too far.
Take time to realize, don't rush.

And one of the hardest:
Accept the fact that you are not meant to be lovers.

[anjerika]

That's one of the worst thing in love sis, falling in-love with a friend.

Actually, its rare to avoid that situation, because you've been there.
Take some space, but don't be too far.
Take time to realize, don't rush.

And one of the hardest:
Accept the fact that you are not meant to be lovers.

amen to this. dawat galore na lang jud, wa tay mahims kung di jud magkakamo. saon, naa gyuy ingon ani, so near yet so far.

[Peenut]

@TS: And yea..

Let's bring back the those principles how to avoid pain/suffering/agony in a relationship.
I like this because its my favorite LOL.

Never assume
Never expect
Never demand


Add this up:

Detachment
Acceptance
Letting Go.

If you follow those.
You'll have a peaceful, calm, serene relationship with your friend.

[anjerika]

@TS: And yea..

Let's bring back the those principles how to avoid pain/suffering/agony in a relationship.
I like this because its my favorite LOL.

Never assume
Never expect
Never demand


Add this up:

Detachment
Acceptance
Letting Go.

If you follow those.
You'll have a peaceful, calm, serene relationship with your friend.

though i still could have wanted him to be my friend ghapon, too late na ko ani