How to Avoide to Fall inlove with your friend ?..

[wakiki]

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mga Istoryans ask lang ko sa inyong opinions and reaction papers heeheh

Unsan pag likay para di ka mainlove sa imong friend or bestbud, not actually a bestfriend suod lng mo or close mo.. pero kalit lng nausab ang tanan ehheeh para nemo og dili para nya ehehe bec, you feel somthing different with him/her...

[Peenut]

That's one of the worst thing in love sis, falling in-love with a friend.

Actually, its rare to avoid that situation, because you've been there.
Take some space, but don't be too far.
Take time to realize, don't rush.

And one of the hardest:
Accept the fact that you are not meant to be lovers.

[honexxx]

lisura sad ana ui. pero in fairness, wa pa koy na fall-lan na close nako..

[ritchepaul]

mga Istoryans ask lang ko sa inyong opinions and reaction papers heeheh

Unsan pag likay para di ka mainlove sa imong friend or bestbud, not actually a bestfriend suod lng mo or close mo.. pero kalit lng nausab ang tanan ehheeh para nemo og dili para nya ehehe bec, you feel somthing different with him/her...

Gee, it is way better to fall in love with your bestfriend. You don't have to go all those crazy courtship stuff, and you already known each other for quite sometime atleast.

I know it is awkward sometimes and even to think nga kamo magdayon sa imong bestfriend...but if you really want to avoid such predicament...well, start dating another guy outside of your circle.

[i_am_a_nobody]

Uhmm.. that really is a tough question. Because I don't think we can avoid to fall in love with someone especially with a close friend. Mas dako man gud ang possibility nga ma-in love ta sa atong friend kay pirmi na to sila kuyog and we know them really well, know what I mean? And love is very mysterious. Di ta maka-expect kun ma in love ta anang tauhana. But if you already have a feeling, not actually deep, and murag tan.aw nimo wa kay pag-asa aning tauhana, kanang murag imposible jud, well then I advise you to stay away from him. Don't let yourself fall. AND YES, WE CAN'T CHOOSE WHAT WE SHOULD FEEL. Kun nafeel na nato, well then it's not our fault.. BUT still we have choices. We can choose to move on and accept! Yeah, it really is the hardest scenario. :/ That's the reason why some people don't like to fall for their friends because if s/he doesn't feel the same way, dakong problema jud! Maapektuhan jud ang friendship. I've been there.

[shagrath_99]

for me, i think there are lots of advantages than disadvantages in falling in love with your bestfriend..

but sis, we're talking about feelings here, mao na ang pinakalisud i control. tsk tsk..so i suggest, go go go lng sah..who knows, he felt the same way too.. gudluck nlg.

[bastywarts]

yes,i quite agree with ritchepaul..akong uyab,na bestfriend nako 4 a long time before naging kami..mas better jud na that way,kay u magkasinabut mo with everything and u know his/her batasan already..d pareha ana courtship pah,napay tendency nga dli ang true self ipakita,buotan pa kaayu toh inig court,then halimaw na kaayu makadugayan.haha

[darsmith13]

mao nay naa sa kanta.. lucky im inlove with my bestfriend =]

[granz]

That's one of the worst thing in love sis, falling in-love with a friend.

Actually, its rare to avoid that situation, because you've been there.
Take some space, but don't be too far.
Take time to realize, don't rush.

And one of the hardest:
Accept the fact that you are not meant to be lovers.

- agree gd ko ani, maybe tungod lng guro kay cge mo ug kita o kuyog mao na develop ka . gave space sa sa iyong friendship para mka kihablo gd ka sa imong real fellings. grabe bya ni ang feelings na na develop kay lisod na wla..

- enjoy lng sa inyong relationship as s friend and dnt rush on things beyond limit

[annerhexian]

HAVING FRIENDS/ BEST BUDDY in OPPOSITE S.E.X

Friendships that turn into relationships can be the best type. You've already gotten to know the person, and have decided that you want to take things to the next level. It can make things more comfortable and simply wonderful. However, sometimes the friendship turned "relationship" goes awry.

Often, the friendship has been deeply wounded or destroyed, and then you've lost a good friend.

1. Open Communication and Have a Mutual license agreement not to be romantically involved with each other.
This may sound stupid coz once weve been closed to person, then better have to think to ur head all over again what you have right now with that person.
2. Set paramaters and distance.
Theres always a thin line of friends and lovers sweety. So take control with it.
3. SEt boundaries.Don't sit too close to each other when you go to the movies. Don't allow the friend to sleep over. Don't hold hands, even if it's just for fun. Feeling virgin ika nga?
4. DO NOT BECOME INTIMATE.
This is the most crucial part eh? hahahha... dont tell too much of secrets from you.. wala lang.. bsta yaw lang.. hahhahahahhaha
6. DONT kiSS! hahaha kinsa igo ana? hapa! hahhahhaha


If you do start to have feelings for your friend, take a few steps back.
Put some distance in the relationship.
Sometimes then you will be able to get the feelings to dissipate.
If not, you may have to talk to your friend and figure out what to do.
It might be that a blunt blow of reality from the friend reminding you that you are only friends
and it will be no more can bring you back from Cloud 9.


Its easy to fall but there's no guarantee who catches u in the end or maybe none at all...

Lucky are those who are inlove with their friend and their friend love them as well.. suya mode! hahaahah


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