Sharing........A repentant husband speaks.

[Snowfly]

when i was still young, i always get mad at my mom because i thought she was so martyr and so dependent with my father.. my father had so many other women.. from my elementary days until college, it was always a problem with him.. i even ran away home coz i cant tolerate the atmosphere at home.. a concern citizen/neighbor even sent us a letter about the things my father and his other woman do..

but by the time, iv experienced the same thing about infidelity.. i realized that what my mother did was not easy.. she has that unconditional love for her family.. she keep all in her heart the heartaches, shame and biitterness just to save her family.. im so proud of her.. i almost died when my ex bf slept with other girl and broke up with me.. it was like i was the one paying for my father's sins of playing with other women.. when my father knew about it, he felt guilty.. but yeah.. its too late to apologize but then never too late to change..

now, it's kinda hard for me to trust men.. i hope there's still one out there that i can trust..

Ohh........ am sorry to hear that im_ur_girl,,,,,,,
Yes, true love can stand the test of time. I congratulate you and your mom that you were able to overcome the pain,,,,, eventually, it will make us better and strong diba? ,,,its never too late to change.

Of course there are still a lot better out there. If there's life, there's always hope. Real love that comes from God has its own time and place. Ask the Lord, he cares and will always will!

[im_ur_girl1984]

Ohh........ am sorry to hear that im_ur_girl,,,,,,,
Yes, true love can stand the test of time. I congratulate you and your mom that you were able to overcome the pain,,,,, eventually, it will make us better and strong diba? ,,,its never too late to change.

Of course there are still a lot better out there. If there's life, there's always hope. Real love that comes from God has its own time and place. Ask the Lord, he cares and will always will!

thanks snowfly.. appreciate ur comment..

[ces1234]

to all the men, hope you learned some lesson...

being a wife and a mother is the most rewarding ,fulfilling yet a tough job, unya maparisan pag bana nga di magtarong,,,kafaet gyud..you're doing everything unya infidelity sa partner imung makuha??mao gyud na nga lisod dretso lang forgive ug forget oeee, because its like your partner disrespect you as a human, as his wife, disrespect and disregard your children...

[tamse]

yeah.. people who are tempted with those physical or material stuff are being blind because they allow others to blind them from what matter most in them..

i would honestly say this, there has been more than twice a married guy wants me to be his mistress.. im not saying im beautiful..im not saying im hot... im just another fat woman and i dont know why those kind of married man look at me that cheap.. i felt so cheap when they ask me.. i felt so insulted... and yes NO DECENT WOMAN WILL SLEEP W/ A MARRIED MAN. ONLY THOSE WHO ARE THERE FOR THE MONEY ... and never, even one of them i did allow to touch me or see me again... i was not just thinking for myself, i was thinking of their family..his wife, his kids.... and i hate karma... there was even one of them, attempted to make me his mistress..without me knowing he is a man with a woman and kids in his home waiting for him to come home everyday... good thing im not stupid, good thing im not that easy anymore... i background check.. and thats what i found out and i just really wanna slap him on his face.. but i kept my silence and never talk to him ever again...

to men and woman.. married or not... i want to share a line from a movie i watched years ago..forgot the title, and the movie was about... the guy said "YOU'LL NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH SOMEONE MEAN TO YOU, UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT SOMEONE..."

[beyee]

"what goes around comes around..."

[Snowfly]

When I was still in college mag discuss mi sa akong mga classmates about husbands having other woman,,,,,most of us would firmly say,,,,estoryahon lang namo among husband and the girl then let the husband choose? Dili jud namo tomban among pagka tao ug profession.Hmmmmmm...but.....

Last year,a classmate who just arrived from US invited me for a dinner out in an exclusive restaurant at the ground floor of a 5star hotel w/ our other classmates in med. school, all girls night out, syempre, tagsa ra lagi mi nagkita so everyone were excited,,,,,,,, when suddenly one of my classmate stood up fuming and went straight to the other table slapped the girl and rumbled w/ her husband at the floor.

We were all shocked by the words and actions spoken by our classmate who is a well known doctor here in Cebu ,,,,,Whew grabeh, ga boto boto jud among dughan naka kita!!!!

Naka ingon mi nga ,,,,mawala jud diay atong grado kon ingon ana ang situation noh?

Now i used to joke w/ my hubby this,,,,,,,,,," Bantay lang jud ka, kay dila ray walay labod nimo!!!" hahaha

[Snowfly]

So that others may know............

[LRA6494]

naa tay sinultian sa bisaya nga, "mas lami ang tinuwa kung init pa". hehe. akong amahan ingani sad, that's why i see to it nga makalikay ko sa sayop nga nabuhat sa akong papa.

[dongkoyski]

There are lots of women out there doing it too,,,,,,,,,this is a lesson learned.

sakto jd ka sis... let's not judge only man as the one doing adulterous act... A woman can do it too... But, ang gaba moabot ra jd sa tao nga gahimo og dautan.. Hope this would be a lesson for everyone...

[thinKingMan]

unsa sad kaha story sa mga kabit sa nga murag na involve ani nga style sa relationship ?