IF YOU'VE EVER QUESTIONED WHO YOU WERE WITH, OR
WHY YOU WEREN'T COMPLETELY SATISFIED IN YOUR
RELATIONSHIP, YOU REALLY NEED TO THINK. Sure, each
partner can bring breathtaking traits to a
relationship. But no matter how wonderful they
are, you might not be capable of finding true
happiness with them. THAT'S BECAUSE AT YOUR CORE,
YOU'VE GOT PSYCHOLOGICAL NEEDS YOU MIGHT NOT EVEN
KNOW ABOUT. IF YOU'RE CRAVING THINGS YOU'RE NOT
EVEN AWARE OF, YOU'LL NEVER KNOW HOW HAPPY YOU
COULD BE. So find out what they are, and learn how
to find the best relationship of your life.
20 ways to make your relationship successful:
1.Make sure you want to be in a relationship and
that the person you are with is right for you.
2.Give your partner the benefit of the doubt —
assume that they are trying their best to make you
happy and are acting with your best interests in mind.
3.Be a little flexible in terms of how much
closeness and togetherness you need.
4.Learn how to communicate in ways that will
promote your relationship and build closeness and
understanding between you. For example, show
respect, not criticism.
5.Learn how to love yourself and how to be in
touch with your own emotions — don't deny or
suppress what you may be feeling or thinking.
6.Find ways to keep the passion in your
relationship alive. Stay sweet, thoughtful and
caring. Be loyal and don't forget to say I love you.
7.Learn to tolerate adversity and stress.
8.Experience life together as an adventure.
9.Accept each other's idiosyncrasies when it
comes to *** — working it out can only maximize
pleasure.
Accept also each other's difference in traits and
personalities.
10.Take time out of each day to grow your
relationship together.
11.Get over your ex's. Don't flirt with them
still or somebody else while you're in a
relationship. Making friends is not bad. But
flirting is different from "just making friends".
Its how you do it. You should know your
limitations. Have some respect for your partner.
12.Donâ't lie to your partner especially when
you're already caught in the act or there's
evidence to it.
13.Learn to say SORRY for all your faults.
14.Lower your pride especially if you know you
need your partner and you don't have anyone else
to turn to in times of need.
15.Don't take your partner for granted. It's not
good that you draw on your partner for your
personal satisfaction or for your benefit.
16.Don't be insensitive.
17.Don't be fickle-minded, narrow-minded and
hardheaded.
18.Don't be boastful of the things you have
especially.
19.Be contented with what you have. Be proud of
your partner.
20.Always be happy.