MY FRIEND's DILEMMA: His 1st Love & Morality Issues

[annerhexian]

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naa na man diay cya ka live-in and love pa jd niya. ngano mutilaw pa man ug lain. better tell your friend to check his conscience first for the answer of his dilemma.

PS. ask him this too: unsa kaha iya buhaton and ma-feel if makahibaw cya nga ang iya ka live-in karon ky gitilawan sa lain lalaki right at this very moment, let's just say sa ex pod sa iyang live in partner?.

PPS. karma? even if he doesn't believe, better be afraid of it. It hurts big time, i think.

He knows the consequences.. and if in the back of his mind.dili cea nahan mabounce back ang usa ka butang.
Mao btaw naay time line ang usa ka butang na kabalo ka na dili pwde for a reason.
to make it short sa: one nite stand is all he needed from his first love. no more no less.

unsa mana nga gesture oy..no offense ha..2 words..plain stupid.

the fact nga naa cyay ka live in partner,nganu makig tilaw paman cya ug lain??huna hunaa gud..ganahan ba xa iyang ka live in partner makig tilaw sad ug lain??unfair kaayu sa part sa girl oy..ang karma raba 10 folds jud na inig balik,mutuo jud ko ani..

resulta ani,kay makibaw.an nuon na sah ka live in partner,then buwag cla..sayang..kay love man kaha niya ang girl..tsk2x

imu jud ning friend??ahhhuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmm..hehehe..or ikaw?haha

DILI ni ako a... sa ako jud ni friend.. and regards with this gesture. yes ur right.
His a plain stupid.. but reality is here and not fallacy..

Na ka hunahuna na cea ana. mao btaw he told me for a definite timeline..
if iya man daw n sudlan, kabalo cea mo gawas..clean and no baggages..in the end..

There's definitely neither "love" nor "morality" involved there. Please tell your friend to use his head and not his balls. Sheesh.

he used his head by thinking the consequences.. as a matter of fact.. he did tell the girl katong naa sa JAPAN.. the first love in the past..... and let her think a hundred folds.. but then. the girl knows the reaL CATCH., but then nag cge pa jud cea!..
if ur a man, wat wil u do?

[CASSANDRA19]

duh!physical pleasure rajud di ay apas anang imong friend TS....they're right..better if he use his head...better do the right things than regretting afterwards.....dghan masakitan ana iya gbuhat..looy ang present....if he love the girl(his present), then he must not do anything stupid....ifeel pud intawn nya unsa kasakit if mkabalo ang present,..,tsk,tskk.makoncensya naman xa..

[aozora]

wlay klaro when you say nga SINGLE cya when in fact naa cya live-in partner. unsa diay tanaw niya sa iyang ka live-in? robot? kung in love cya sa iyang ka live-in, i don't think iya nang mabuhat, not unless dli cya tarong pagkatao (weak).
legally single but committed? is that "In a Relationship"?

na hurt ang pride sa imong friend after the split up without valid reason, that fuels revenge.

i think ang ex kay nangita ra na cajoles, attention, ug something to spice up her life, and the sure way to do that is by using her ex-bf nga she knows in love niya pagayo.

ako masulti sa imong friend kay dli cya magpadala sa temptation. wla man cguroy pagmahay nga maguna sa nabuhat. dba?

this is not an encouragement sa imong friend, pero kung ganahan niya buhaton na, he better cut the ties with his live-in partner and be real SINGLE. at least maminimize ang guilt after doing sinful, but it does not mean nga dli sayop ang iyang buhaton and it is nowhere near being moral.

[maddox_pitt]

whether it's on the paper (marriage) or not (live-in), the fact remains that he's involved with someone and doing the "deed" with his ex would mean cheating...
kung physical ray iyang gi.apas, ayaw na lang....makasakit ra xa sa iyahang present ron ug sa ex sad niya...bisag ingnon pa na musugot ra ug ika.duha xa, deep down it'd still hurt..

[lejean]

well kung ako ang first love (the exgf), the mere fact na nangita ko sa guy on fb meaning nag-long pa jud ko nya... maybe i still have feelings for him first love never dies baya. agreeing on being the other woman or ikaduha, choice pud na nako... as long as nalipay ko, lipay ang guy and i know asa ra kutob ang akoa pagka-third party. i am not going back for him to marry him but to bring the old times (i think) and make up for the lost time but with different circumstances this time around.

kung ako ang imong friend, well lalaki ko, first love nako ... i still do have feelings for her to think na i still communicate pa ko nya and come to the point na ingon ko nya unsa ako status og makig discreet gane ko aw kabalo pud ang ako ex sa situation... mura og no strings attached. legally speaking single ko, i have a live-in partner so i am free to do what i want without the fear of being sued by my live-in partner. at least makatilaw sad ko sa ko ex sauna na wala nako natilawan. sya bitaw ne offer, aw grasya na na.

kung ako ang live-in partner sa mo ha friend, kung makabalo ko asa gud tawn ibutang ako espirito mang-hasi jud ka ba. to think ngano mabuhat nya na nako. but the mere fact na mo sud or ne sud sya ana butanga meaning naa pud koy pgkukulang nya. kay kung secured sya sa akoa love bisan pla pa ka babaye mglaray diha, if sila tanan first love nya, and he is with me di jud sya mo tukob... or maybe mas strong iyaha feelings sa ex kay sa kadugay ato panahon pagcommunicate nila balik mura man nibalik tanan. ambot unsa ako buhaton, the least i can do is set him free... i don't want to be with a guy who is trapped in his past...

kung ako ikaw, well i will just keep my mouth shut... kay bisan unsa mo buhaton di na sya maminaw... labi na talking about morality, awareness, gaba, karma etc... he is already an adult and knows what are the consequences are. basta whatever happens you will be there to comfort him as a friend... kung unsa ang padulngan sa yaha gibuhat...

In my own opinion bilang ako, the three of them are all adults... they think for themselves and responsible enough. they know unsa ang consequences... kung unsa mahitabo as long as ready sila and know what to do and be strong about that's what it is... love is plainly stupid! people do stupid things when they are in love, as they all say first love never dies... naa japon na spark sila duha bisan dugay nato first love baya.

[treize]

sagdi na siya oi... tiguwang na na siya... magmahay ra na siya...

DAKONG BIGA ANA!

[annerhexian]

well kung ako ang first love (the exgf), the mere fact na nangita ko sa guy on fb meaning nag-long pa jud ko nya... maybe i still have feelings for him first love never dies baya. agreeing on being the other woman or ikaduha, choice pud na nako... as long as nalipay ko, lipay ang guy and i know asa ra kutob ang akoa pagka-third party. i am not going back for him to marry him but to bring the old times (i think) and make up for the lost time but with different circumstances this time around.

kung ako ang imong friend, well lalaki ko, first love nako ... i still do have feelings for her to think na i still communicate pa ko nya and come to the point na ingon ko nya unsa ako status og makig discreet gane ko aw kabalo pud ang ako ex sa situation... mura og no strings attached. legally speaking single ko, i have a live-in partner so i am free to do what i want without the fear of being sued by my live-in partner. at least makatilaw sad ko sa ko ex sauna na wala nako natilawan. sya bitaw ne offer, aw grasya na na.

kung ako ang live-in partner sa mo ha friend, kung makabalo ko asa gud tawn ibutang ako espirito mang-hasi jud ka ba. to think ngano mabuhat nya na nako. but the mere fact na mo sud or ne sud sya ana butanga meaning naa pud koy pgkukulang nya. kay kung secured sya sa akoa love bisan pla pa ka babaye mglaray diha, if sila tanan first love nya, and he is with me di jud sya mo tukob... or maybe mas strong iyaha feelings sa ex kay sa kadugay ato panahon pagcommunicate nila balik mura man nibalik tanan. ambot unsa ako buhaton, the least i can do is set him free... i don't want to be with a guy who is trapped in his past...

kung ako ikaw, well i will just keep my mouth shut... kay bisan unsa mo buhaton di na sya maminaw... labi na talking about morality, awareness, gaba, karma etc... he is already an adult and knows what are the consequences are. basta whatever happens you will be there to comfort him as a friend... kung unsa ang padulngan sa yaha gibuhat...

In my own opinion bilang ako, the three of them are all adults... they think for themselves and responsible enough. they know unsa ang consequences... kung unsa mahitabo as long as ready sila and know what to do and be strong about that's what it is... love is plainly stupid! people do stupid things when they are in love, as they all say first love never dies... naa japon na spark sila duha bisan dugay nato first love baya.

kani akong g huwat na comment jud uH!
salute ko ani be..

work mode sa ko.. unya sa mo tubay c oks..

[lejean]

@annerhexian: ana jud mao man imoha gi-pangayo sa moha post... well-provided jud ka sa ako answers...hopefully makatabang hahaha...

bitaw ui, im not condoning your friend or mo go sa yaha gusto buhaton... pero he is the master of his own life.. he knows what he is doing and of course asta na duha ka girls sa yaha life... ka na yaha live in partner ni sud gud sya ana kabalo sya hangtod asa ra iyaha katungod, lain jud to asawa na db? kabalo sya anytime now pwede sila mg-separate og ways na mura ra og wala kay di man sila legally married.

kato first love, kabalo man sya na naay live-in partner ang moha friend, she knows asa ra pud sya kutob... yaha gi-apas di man forever... palami raman hala go dayun--- basin wa ganahi sa hapon mao na ngita pinoy... aw unsa ba...

[teeedert]

dili na siya dilemma sis...coz naa siyay choice!! and he can do the RIGHT choice!!

[organizedchaos]

agree ko nimo teeedert... unsa may naka dilema ana... simple ra kaayo na nga problema... mas daghan pag problema ang uban taw kaysa ana imo friend... hayahay ra niya ah... taas kayo siyag buhok... hahaha... bitaw... it's a matter of choice jud.. depende na na sa character sa imo friend kung asa iya pili-on... basta wa lay mahayay inig human gud...