Happy, or ur doing it just to cover the PAIN?

[mrinnocent]

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tell him..d truth nlng gud..kng dli siya kadawat..dli jud ka nya love..

[histrionic0311]

ako lng ba gisogot ang guy coz i found out naa na uyab akong x?
am i doing this just to cover he pain.. pretending to our friends na im ok?

plss guys do help me ok!!! para enlighten ako mind..

basing on that question:

if you accepted the guy, and you still are having that pain.. mura ma hulog ka na nag "panakit-butas" lang ka over him to let that pain go away..

just be friends lang usa sa karon, don't rush, take it slowly.. let the pain go away completely so that maka move on ka ug tarong..

ipa dayo lang ang inyuhang communication as friends lang.. if he courts you, tell him politely that you are not ready yet..

[mediaskare]

@TS, naa rpud na nmo , lain sd pud bya kau mka hurt kag feelings sa tao dba. and ur X playing safe ra kau na. kalimti nana imogn X wa nay kwenta chickboi ra kau nahh...mag mahay rana xa nano nangita xag lain hehee

[Peenut]

bitaw noh.... but sakto ba akong gibuhat? but im learning to love him namn gud... should i tell him pa ba na gisugot nko cya just to cover the pain?

What you did was neither right nor wrong.

If you are learning to love him, well that's better.
If you will tell him right now, would he be happy?
It will just create more confusion and your relationship will get more complicated.

Better if he accepts the fact, but what if he doesn't?

It's just right to keep the truth. Sadly.

[yvonne6]

girl, answer ur own questions. dili na namo matubag kay ikaw ramay nakahibalo kung unsa imong na feel. okay?

[sport30]

you might end up crying might as well ur new BF. if u'r still hoping na magkabalikan pa mo with ur ex then do not enter into relationship yet, it'l just complicate things.

[Man4Rental]

hi Guys,



Here i am again.. Asking ur opinions. We brake up with my boyfriend even we are not together anymore we still see each others as friends.. were going out for how many months even dli na kami. then just one day i know some news from our friends na he has his new gf daw. but we see each other 2 weeks ago before ko nkabalo..

then i have here new admirer.. his been so nice to me. we just known each other since i get hired in this company. from the start i know that cge cya pacute-cute nko sa office.. mafeel nko na sometimes his tense if he is asking some questions sa ako.. his very nice to me, lambing, we keep on texting each other..pero wla lng jud nko cya gisugot ky im still hoping na akong x mo make up pa nko..

when i found out na ang akong best buddy which is my x boyfriend naa na d i lain na girl..my question is:

ako lng ba gisogot ang guy coz i found out naa na uyab akong x?
am i doing this just to cover he pain.. pretending to our friends na im ok?

plss guys do help me ok!!! para enlighten ako mind..

Ayaw pugsa sis..kay mag mahay ka kadugayan..Kinahanglan ang imo kuyugan ug unungan kanang gi ganahan jud sa imo kasing kasing.

[yesh1314]

yeah..pangitaa ang tubag sa imo self..cause if you feel something pa sa imo ex then it would mean that your not over him ang having na gsugot nimo ang guy means gigamit lng nmo ang guy pra mkaget over sa feeling na naa nay lain ang imo ex..

[granz]

ayaw lng sa ug enter sis.. have a peace of mind sa ug accept the fact na wla namo para f mo sulod gani ka ug balik sa usa ka relationship wla nkay guilt feeling na ma feel ug para fair sad sa imong umaabot na bf...

[jocylanne]

exactly, you need first to move on before entering into a new relationship. accept the fact na wala na jud mo. possibility would be if naa pa ka hopes na magbalik mo, if magkuyog mo sa imong new bf, you might be doing things with him that you used to do with your x, and that would be unfair sa imong present bf.

btw noh sometime im telling my new bf na we've been this place and that.. well honestly im really happy na krn sa akong present