Marrying or having a relationship to a Foreigner?

[kishniquin]

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me not really into foreigners sa half pa cguro i don't know why wala lang cguro connection cause sometimes ila pud treatment sa atoa mura nalang pud nuon nawong og kwarta although not all ha.....
mau nah cya pag ingnon swerte2 rasad nah cya ..............godbless

[reymags]

dli ko gnhan mgtan aw samut batan on ang grl dn tguwang ang lake...

[esotericlove]

DEPENde Ra na sa couple.. it will work kung magkasinabot jud sila..

[elvandesantos]

dli ko gnhan mgtan aw samut batan on ang grl dn tguwang ang lake...

mao gyud. mura kalagot usahay tan-awon.

[heavenknws]

para nako okay ra ni kay ako mother nagminyo ug foreigner

[-sugarpop-]

there's nothing wrong with it.. pero naa lang jud uban nga for financial reasons maong mangasawa sila ug foreigner.. mao nalang jud ni uso karon nga makit.an nato sa mga malls nga mga wayuk kaayo ug mga nawong ang mga pinay nga kuyog sa mga foreigners.. matud pa nila exotic kaayo ug beauty.. pero ilaha pud na.. dili nalang ta manghilabot.. ila man ng kinabuhi.. wala pud ta kahibaw, basin gugma pud diay na ilang nafeel.. dili lang sa ta mojudge.

[lejean]

before im quite judgmental about women marrying foreigners especially when the age almost like they are marrying their own father or grandfather... but that's their own choice...

i keep on thinking why people such as them even come to the act of marrying a foreigner to have more money in the pocket...

i even told myself i aint gonna marry a foreigner coz don't want people to judge me as someone who is lazy and just marry a foreigner for money---

guess what? by leap of faith, i married a foreigner-- he is 5 years older than me both of us are on our 20s. my ex bfs before all Filipinos but they can't stand me, my attitude and personality (dominating, nagger, demanding, etc).

i never thought a foreigner will stand out and be patient enough especially with my attitude...at the end gi-lamoy ra nako ako gi-sulti... di man sya datu, di pud pobre... okay2x ra pud.. right now galisud pero buhi man gihapon thanks to my online jobs... i also let him join pra naa mi income duha.

my parents love him more than me coz la man mi lalaki sa family, si papa raman... hatagan sya mama og sky flakes taga uli before, koko crunch, even kana yaha favorite na food dad-an sya...saunz-- to the point na my parents even have given more what we ever wanted...

my mother always told me, i treated your husband as my own son who came from my womb... i never ever treated him as a son-in-law, i treated you and your sisters and your husband as my children and that's all you are to me.

(kahilakon na nuon ka gasuwat ane da)

to continue, hapit naman jud mi magbuwag kay wa ko kasabot sa yaha attitude kana lage mo inom ba and kabalo nata maka-inom sahay ma lahi ang kina-iya... but if dili pa sako mama og papa dugay na mi buwag. it's because my mother always say that my husband is good and kind (if dili lang maka-inom) okay man sya...

i felt bad kay feel naku i have disappointed them kay till now mura man wala padulngan and i know my parents have bigger expectations on me and they know my capabilities. mao na todo work jud ko work as a teacher, work online and sya pud tabang pud work homebased lang sad...para we could have our house built na and makabal-hin nami in due time...

my husband even said ne he loves mama and papa more than he loves his own parents...kay he never was treated as good as my parents treat him up until now...if people always ask him when are you going back? he always say i would not go back, i got everything right here... and happy here...

ask mga tawo if nadala na ba daw ko didto, told wala pa and la koy plano puyo ngadto. besides cost of living is expensive there. why should i go there, when im earning a living here. if mo adto man gani mi abroad, travel2x ra dili mo trabaho-- i dont want to be a slave of another country.

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bottom line, dili lalim ma minyo og foreigner tungod lain ta og kina-iya nila... but it turned a foreigner is also a human being who fall in love, get hurt, and also commit mistakes. i never see my husband as a foreigner but a human being who has feelings and that i fall and be forever in love with. we do have our own share of ups and downs but that's part of life at least we are both first timers in our marriage so patas ra...

i always believe in equality and fair sharing... i was in the crossroads in my life few years ago before he came... i asked Sto. Niño (mo adto jud ko sa church) kana sa altar dapit dha ko mo kneel and pray to have a man who is going to love me for me and who is going to start a life with me (back to zero)... mao na wa jud mi mga kwarta but we work things out slowly now...

lisud adjustment ui... and labi na grabe sad kaayo ko musukol og yawyaw especially i dont like and would want something done.. utro pud sya... aw patas lang jud mi duha...there were nights maghilak ko, naa pud times mgkatawa mi duha--

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now? we don't have any kids yet after almost 2 years of marriage... we got plans but not now coz we are not financially stable... soon we will have...in God's time.

People say why I work as a teacher since I marry a foreigner, I told them we are poor and we don't have money. Besides being a teacher is my dream job. Therefore, I am fulfilling it.

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What I hate being married with a foreigner? People have this notion na datu sya and abunda mi sa kwarta... one time galakaw ko gikan skwelahan padung amo-a mga 20min walk tungason pa jud, tricycle driver told me ngano galakaw daw ko naa man daw kuno ko amerikano... told him nag-tipid ko kay la mi kwarta.

ka paet jud ne mga tawo, kung ingnon walay kwarta di mo-tuo mag-assume na nuon...

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one thing i am proud of bisan pa naa sa UK ako husband never did i asked and he sent me a single cent-- and i show to him unsa ko ka maldita and all bad attitudes para ingkaso gani magminyo mi walay mahay kay he knows the real me... ni-proceed man jud og minyo...mao na gi-ingon swerte jud naku sya...

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there are many reasons why i love him but one thing i know he is the person who always see the real me and who is not afraid to tell me straight in my face my wrongdoings and mistakes and who always stick up on me and never give up on me even if i feel like giving up...

lisud ko na pagkababaye, lisud i-handle ako attitude... sobra kaayo sya ka pasensyo thank God, kung di dugay na mi buwag jud... every day is a new day, each day living with him is a new beginning of learning something new about each other...

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on a lighter note:

to every one who is reading this thread and reading my post, i hope next time you see a filipina and a foreigner don't judge them right away. there are some stereotypes. you never know those filipinas are one of the few who marry a foreigner because of love.

my husband always said there should be a law in the Philippines regarding old foreigners marrying young ones. the age gap jud dapat kay maximum 10 years... kay it's like these foreigners are pedophiles. he can't stand watching old grumpy foreigner going out with a young filipina.

padungog-dungogon pa jud na nya esp sa resto duol ang table, ana sya "baby how does it feel like marrying a guy who is almost at the same age as yours" ako nalang gud sya badlungon kay makaplag tawon og away lisud na...

taas au ako post noh? xensya na feel au naku ang topic lols...

[dangelndisguise]

@lejean,,
so touching

a lot of people asking me or saying me why not marry a foreigner. di na unta daw ko motrabaho og mokayud pa ug maayu. dali ra jud kaayu ko makaattract of foreigners coz of my exotic beauty but they didnt knw that i am looking for real love not fake.. i want to be happy inspite of financial needs jud. ( real happiness not fake).. i can marry a foreigner but dapat i love him jud..

i always said to them i dont want to marry a foreigner bcoz of that , this and those..
but now my options are open. basta if this would happen to me. ill make sure i love him whole. not bcoz of the money but bcoz of him..

[Brendamage]

masdagko ba jd ug bunal ang forenger?......ask lng ta.....

[mobskill69]

ahahahahaha..bunal mn jud..