napa ba kahay chance

[nijazared]

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Bro, been through a similiar situation just like yours, I was so possesive with my gf before that all of a sudden she just broke up with me a month after I committed myself totally to her...the twist in my story is there was another guy that was taking over and giving her all the freedom, i banged my head on the bed post the day that she officially broke up with me, i cut my forehead and i had to get it stitched up, that very same afternoon, she went home with the guy, to my stupidity, i kept on asking her to give me another chance for 2 more weeks after the incident, with her just totally ignoring me, turned out a week later it was her bestfriend that i was texting for comfort, she got angry, ended up fighting with her own bestfriend because of me, and then it came to a point where she was the one asking me to come back, fast forward 3 1/2 years, here I am, me and my gf now(my ex-gf's bestfriend) are excited to have our first baby this july, she's somewhere in manila, still sending emails to me asking me to come back to her. The point of this bro is, during the time after the incident, i tried to kill myself, 2 attempted suicides, good thing i did not succeed, and here I am right now, happy, contented, excited to finally have my own family. There's no point of ending your life, let me quote from Semisonic: somehow, every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.
I'm a loner pod bro, hopeless romantic...hope all would go well with your situation right now bro....it takes time to heal jud....

[darkdruid]

the two of you are not meant to be. your possessive and she not the right girl who can take that -- possibly the girl might have other reasons... might have found another one or just wanted to take time...

my advice to you is this... forget the 6yrs and start a new one with the same girl. meaning.. you have to change, and you have to let her know you've changed. but try to ask lang the girl... if okay ra ba manguyab ka balik... if she says NO for an answer... then "LET GO"... don't start a new one right away... for you to be able to define yourself more. take it 1-3yrs before starting a new relationship. whoever girl would accept your heart during that time.. its worth the waiting for 3yrs time. its a different feeling than having one right away...

[Peenut]

There's a time and place for everything. There's a reason why seldom people meet. There's a destination for everyone.

[yvonne6]

ang problema gud nako.. dili ko type na guy na mg hangout2x og barkadista.. loner jd ko..

siya ra gud ako best friend.. mao if kung mg away mi ako self ra jd akong kauban..

maka boang jd.. mag lisod jd ko og move on.. cge lang ko huna2x niya.

pareha kaau ta. ang problema nato noh kay kung dili parehas nato ang atong partner. dili man gud ta makasabot nila kay lahi man ta. ma happy man ta kung sila ra atong kauban, sila ra atong pirme gi huna2, sila ra atong kalibutan. para nila, boring na. para nato, mao na ang makalipay nato. mao na kung gusto nato nga mag ingon ana sila, mo ingon sila, sobra naka, na piit nako, natuok nako, dili nako. dili na sila capable ug love nga parehas sa atong love gihatag nila. akong advice, look around for someone who is exactly the same as you are para makasabot ang taw nimo. forget about your gf, move on. naa pay daghan magmahal nimo. daghan mga babay nangita ug d barkadista nga lalaki. sayang, wala dayun ta magkaila

[Dark Angel 23]

Bro, been through a similiar situation just like yours, I was so possesive with my gf before that all of a sudden she just broke up with me a month after I committed myself totally to her...the twist in my story is there was another guy that was taking over and giving her all the freedom, i banged my head on the bed post the day that she officially broke up with me, i cut my forehead and i had to get it stitched up, that very same afternoon, she went home with the guy, to my stupidity, i kept on asking her to give me another chance for 2 more weeks after the incident, with her just totally ignoring me, turned out a week later it was her bestfriend that i was texting for comfort, she got angry, ended up fighting with her own bestfriend because of me, and then it came to a point where she was the one asking me to come back, fast forward 3 1/2 years, here I am, me and my gf now(my ex-gf's bestfriend) are excited to have our first baby this july, she's somewhere in manila, still sending emails to me asking me to come back to her. The point of this bro is, during the time after the incident, i tried to kill myself, 2 attempted suicides, good thing i did not succeed, and here I am right now, happy, contented, excited to finally have my own family. There's no point of ending your life, let me quote from Semisonic: somehow, every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.

I'm a loner pod bro, hopeless romantic...hope all would go well with your situation right now bro....it takes time to heal jud....

sakto!,..get over it bro!

[maddox_pitt]

Bro, been through a similiar situation just like yours, I was so possesive with my gf before that all of a sudden she just broke up with me a month after I committed myself totally to her...the twist in my story is there was another guy that was taking over and giving her all the freedom, i banged my head on the bed post the day that she officially broke up with me, i cut my forehead and i had to get it stitched up, that very same afternoon, she went home with the guy, to my stupidity, i kept on asking her to give me another chance for 2 more weeks after the incident, with her just totally ignoring me, turned out a week later it was her bestfriend that i was texting for comfort, she got angry, ended up fighting with her own bestfriend because of me, and then it came to a point where she was the one asking me to come back, fast forward 3 1/2 years, here I am, me and my gf now(my ex-gf's bestfriend) are excited to have our first baby this july, she's somewhere in manila, still sending emails to me asking me to come back to her. The point of this bro is, during the time after the incident, i tried to kill myself, 2 attempted suicides, good thing i did not succeed, and here I am right now, happy, contented, excited to finally have my own family. There's no point of ending your life, let me quote from Semisonic: somehow, every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.
I'm a loner pod bro, hopeless romantic...hope all would go well with your situation right now bro....it takes time to heal jud....

OT: Found your story very emotional..and something to get lessons from...

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@ts: don't end your life just because your gf of 6yrs ended everything between the 2 of you... can i ask?? sakob ba sa 6 yrs, were you really happy? o you just think you're happy kay naanad naka na kamo..na naa xa nimo??
if you really tried so hard to get her back and she has no plans of getting back naman, move on na lang bro... and next time you get into a relationship, don't be too possessive... basin ang girl makaingon di nka mu.trust niya kay gunitan man sad nimo ug maau...

[nijazared]

[quote=maddox_pitt;6893570]OT: Found your story very emotional..and something to get lessons from...

OT: Lessons learned the hard way jud.


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