Same-s*x relationships

[classicrock]

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d jud ok para nako..
imu ra paka uwawan imu family if guy ka unya mag dala kag uyab nga guy pud sa inyu balay.. LOLX

[Moongoddess28]

Read the BIBLE.


--arent we living with SIN enough?

[sasunaru]

Okay, many of us might think that having a same s.e.x relationship or being homosexual is yucky, disgusting, completely unacceptable, abnormal, a big NO NO, and a SIN. I am aware of the story of Sodom and Gomora in the Holy Bible. I know that the Church strongly discourages homosexuality, that it is not in accordance with procreation, etc.

Sometimes, I ask God,"Am I a sin God? Do You hate me for being like this?"- thoughts like this. I guess you already have an idea. Yeah, I'm one of them. I'm a discreet gay. I'm just like a typical straight boy except that I loved and love another boy. No matter how I curse myself for being like this, no matter how I shout to the sky,"WHY AM I LIKE THIS??!!", no matter how I desperately try to change the way I am(my feelings), it's just no use. Many might say it is OUR CHOICE to be like this. Then my reply is, NO! Who would want to experience all these confusions, the fears, internal sufferings, social judgments, discriminations, the struggles, family matters, etc. Tell me.. How I wish I am straight, then things would be easier for me..perhaps I wouldn't be experiencing all these.. But I'M NOT. There's no point of arguing with myself.. or lying to ones self.

I know we have these so-called "norms"/"standards". For most of the straight persons here, what is normal to them is a man and a woman in-love with each other. Other than that-completely unacceptable. There are others out there (I am really glad these people exist) who have a broader mind. Most of them have close friends or family members who are homosexuals/bisexuals. THEY KNOW THE PERSON MORE THAN OTHERS. They don't go with the "standards" set by the society. They UNDERSTAND, RESPECT, and ACCEPT. You just don't know the feelings of someone being termed as "abnormal". So, you have NO RIGHT at all to judge us. You don't KNOW us. We could even be BETTER than you as a person.

When we talk about Scriptures, yeah I KNOW.. you don't have to remind me of that.. The Old Testament(all those punishments HE imposed on people), as I view it, features a SCARY GOD. In the NEW TESTAMENT, a loving God is presented to us. I often ask myself, "If God loves us the way we are, then does He love me the way I am too?", "If God wants us to love each other, then would it be wrong to love a boy of the same ***?", etc.. I want to picture out God as a loving God. One who understands. One who accepts. I can't imagine a God cursing me, burning me in the fires of hell, etc. just because I am a homo, just because I love a boy.. I really can't.. It's not the God that I know. Do you think God is inconsiderate enough to be like that? We are not God. So, let's not speak for HIM. Our minds aren't comparable to His. HE KNOWS US MORE THAN OTHERS, EVEN OURSELVES. So He has the only single right to judge us.

Don't be rude. Don't be judgmental. Be considerate enough. Same s.e.x relationships and "normal" relationships have one thing in common: WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. And tell me, what's up with that?

[zney25]

Okay, many of us might think that having a same s.e.x relationship or being homosexual is yucky, disgusting, completely unacceptable, abnormal, a big NO NO, and a SIN. I am aware of the story of Sodom and Gomora in the Holy Bible. I know that the Church strongly discourages homosexuality, that it is not in accordance with procreation, etc.

Sometimes, I ask God,"Am I a sin God? Do You hate me for being like this?"- thoughts like this. I guess you already have an idea. Yeah, I'm one of them. I'm a discreet gay. I'm just like a typical straight boy except that I loved and love another boy. No matter how I curse myself for being like this, no matter how I shout to the sky,"WHY AM I LIKE THIS??!!", no matter how I desperately try to change the way I am(my feelings), it's just no use. Many might say it is OUR CHOICE to be like this. Then my reply is, NO! Who would want to experience all these confusions, the fears, internal sufferings, social judgments, discriminations, the struggles, family matters, etc. Tell me.. How I wish I am straight, then things would be easier for me..perhaps I wouldn't be experiencing all these.. But I'M NOT. There's no point of arguing with myself.. or lying to ones self.

I know we have these so-called "norms"/"standards". For most of the straight persons here, what is normal to them is a man and a woman in-love with each other. Other than that-completely unacceptable. There are others out there (I am really glad these people exist) who have a broader mind. Most of them have close friends or family members who are homosexuals/bisexuals. THEY KNOW THE PERSON MORE THAN OTHERS. They don't go with the "standards" set by the society. They UNDERSTAND, RESPECT, and ACCEPT. You just don't know the feelings of someone being termed as "abnormal". So, you have NO RIGHT at all to judge us. You don't KNOW us. We could even be BETTER than you as a person.

When we talk about Scriptures, yeah I KNOW.. you don't have to remind me of that.. The Old Testament(all those punishments HE imposed on people), as I view it, features a SCARY GOD. In the NEW TESTAMENT, a loving God is presented to us. I often ask myself, "If God loves us the way we are, then does He love me the way I am too?", "If God wants us to love each other, then would it be wrong to love a boy of the same ***?", etc.. I want to picture out God as a loving God. One who understands. One who accepts. I can't imagine a God cursing me, burning me in the fires of hell, etc. just because I am a homo, just because I love a boy.. I really can't.. It's not the God that I know. Do you think God is inconsiderate enough to be like that? We are not God. So, let's not speak for HIM. Our minds aren't comparable to His. HE KNOWS US MORE THAN OTHERS, EVEN OURSELVES. So He has the only single right to judge us.

Don't be rude. Don't be judgmental. Be considerate enough. Same s.e.x relationships and "normal" relationships have one thing in common: WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. And tell me, what's up with that?

i totally 101% agree with you.....

to add with it, all they think or that comes to their mind when you say same S3x relationship is only s3x, no more no less...that's y they judge the homo as disgusting or what to ever their term is....

its not all about s3x, its companionship, love....

[m!nyanG]

Okay, many of us might think that having a same s.e.x relationship or being homosexual is yucky, disgusting, completely unacceptable, abnormal, a big NO NO, and a SIN. I am aware of the story of Sodom and Gomora in the Holy Bible. I know that the Church strongly discourages homosexuality, that it is not in accordance with procreation, etc.

Sometimes, I ask God,"Am I a sin God? Do You hate me for being like this?"- thoughts like this. I guess you already have an idea. Yeah, I'm one of them. I'm a discreet gay. I'm just like a typical straight boy except that I loved and love another boy. No matter how I curse myself for being like this, no matter how I shout to the sky,"WHY AM I LIKE THIS??!!", no matter how I desperately try to change the way I am(my feelings), it's just no use. Many might say it is OUR CHOICE to be like this. Then my reply is, NO! Who would want to experience all these confusions, the fears, internal sufferings, social judgments, discriminations, the struggles, family matters, etc. Tell me.. How I wish I am straight, then things would be easier for me..perhaps I wouldn't be experiencing all these.. But I'M NOT. There's no point of arguing with myself.. or lying to ones self.

I know we have these so-called "norms"/"standards". For most of the straight persons here, what is normal to them is a man and a woman in-love with each other. Other than that-completely unacceptable. There are others out there (I am really glad these people exist) who have a broader mind. Most of them have close friends or family members who are homosexuals/bisexuals. THEY KNOW THE PERSON MORE THAN OTHERS. They don't go with the "standards" set by the society. They UNDERSTAND, RESPECT, and ACCEPT. You just don't know the feelings of someone being termed as "abnormal". So, you have NO RIGHT at all to judge us. You don't KNOW us. We could even be BETTER than you as a person.

When we talk about Scriptures, yeah I KNOW.. you don't have to remind me of that.. The Old Testament(all those punishments HE imposed on people), as I view it, features a SCARY GOD. In the NEW TESTAMENT, a loving God is presented to us. I often ask myself, "If God loves us the way we are, then does He love me the way I am too?", "If God wants us to love each other, then would it be wrong to love a boy of the same ***?", etc.. I want to picture out God as a loving God. One who understands. One who accepts. I can't imagine a God cursing me, burning me in the fires of hell, etc. just because I am a homo, just because I love a boy.. I really can't.. It's not the God that I know. Do you think God is inconsiderate enough to be like that? We are not God. So, let's not speak for HIM. Our minds aren't comparable to His. HE KNOWS US MORE THAN OTHERS, EVEN OURSELVES. So He has the only single right to judge us.

Don't be rude. Don't be judgmental. Be considerate enough. Same s.e.x relationships and "normal" relationships have one thing in common: WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. And tell me, what's up with that?

i totally 101% agree with you.....

to add with it, all they think or that comes to their mind when you say same S3x relationship is only s3x, no more no less...that's y they judge the homo as disgusting or what to ever their term is....

its not all about s3x, its companionship, love....

agree pud ko ani...

[sasunaru]

i totally 101% agree with you.....

to add with it, all they think or that comes to their mind when you say same S3x relationship is only s3x, no more no less...that's y they judge the homo as disgusting or what to ever their term is....

its not all about s3x, its companionship, love....

yeah..

So, to all homos/bis out there, lets change the views of the society towards the likes of us. Act RESPECTFULLY so that others will respect us. Lets not dirty the minds of people. I KNOW time will come when we truly understand one another

[grier]

i totally 101% agree with you.....

to add with it, all they think or that comes to their mind when you say same S3x relationship is only s3x, no more no less...that's y they judge the homo as disgusting or what to ever their term is....

its not all about s3x, its companionship, love....

i agree... basta love... go... hehehe

[anjerika]

basta di mo maka tapak og laing taw, go! hehe what if family ang sagabal? aw sibat dayon mo. hehe.

[zney25]

basta di mo maka tapak og laing taw, go! hehe what if family ang sagabal? aw sibat dayon mo. hehe.

hehehe...ana man jud nah, at first rasad...but magkadugay...ok naman ang family.....hehehehe

[elars]

Nothing wrong with it as long as wla ka hilabtan nga people. As long as you are happy then go go. Ingon mo dili SIN? Why is boy abunda and other gay people so bless with fortune and fame bisan sa ila preference. Respeto ra gyud na sa taw. Unsaon man na nga relationship sa opposite *** pero ang life miserable, abuse ang wife, infedility. Ana gyud na straight guys specially for the immature ones kay wla pa value sa life they will condenm dayun or descriminate dayun without knowing unsa ang life.