Im secretly communicating w/ my ex.. ok ra?

[gino_lambating]

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nganung mag communicate2x pamn jud sa X? for what purpose mana? nganu man diai ug wala nalang dba?? gawas cguro kung ganahan paka ana nga X nimu.. tsk tsk tsk..

mao gyud... kay ug wa na kay interest ngano mo communicate pa man ka... gi tago pa gyud sa uyab.. di kaha na cheating ingon ana... dioskomio!!

[babypaupau]

if you know in your heart that you are not doing anything wrong, don't listen to what the others are telling you. there's nothing wrong with communicating with your ex... you had a past, you're friends and you shared good times together... it didn't work out that's why you broke up. both of you got hurt and now have moved on with your lives. what is so wrong with catching up? people can be so shallow at times...duh?! ending a relationship doesn't necessarily mean you end your friendship as well. that is just wrong.

what makes it wrong is when you are secretly harbouring feelings of longing for him... or that you are flirting with him. that can be considered as an emotional affair already, that constitutes cheating. that is wrong. if that is the case with you then YOU SHOULD STOP!

about your boyfriend, there's really nothing you can do if he is not comfortable with it. just let him feel that there is really nothing going on with you and your ex aside from a friendly conversation... ug di sya shallow nga pagka tao im sure he will understand. but if he is, na ambot nlng niya.

bottom line is, why would you allow other people to make you feel guilty when you're not doing anything wrong? people here are just random people on the internet you don't even know and you let them judge you? why are you tormenting yourself? golden rule is, if you're not guilty of anything then stand by what you believe in. if ever you make a bad call, live with it and learn from it. kaning mga taw dri, they only see a part of you and your situation, not the big picture. wala ni sila kaila nimo so they dont have any right to judge you and tell you off like what these other people are doing to you.

so it's just you and your conscience. do what you feel is right for you.

[classicrock]

klaro na kaau ni sa pattern oi.. Cge mog chat2x ana imung X, so ma inlove kag balik ana niya kay atik2xkan manka niya.. So eg hapit nana mo uli, mag away2x na daun mo sa imu BF daun mag buwag mo daun adto nka niya..
naka kita nako ani salidaha oi BATI kaau nig Ending Looy kaau ang Laki ani.. tsk tsk tsk

[gino_lambating]

klaro na kaau ni sa pattern oi.. Cge mog chat2x ana imung X, so ma inlove kag balik ana niya kay atik2xkan manka niya.. So eg hapit nana mo uli, mag away2x na daun mo sa imu BF daun mag buwag mo daun adto nka niya..
naka kita nako ani salidaha oi BATI kaau nig Ending Looy kaau ang Laki ani.. tsk tsk tsk

naa na sa imong pahak bro? lol....

ex gud na nimu...naka siguro kaha ta wa mahitabo nig kita balik sa ex kung ingon ana na pud ka close??.

ingon ang uyab ug "dili" ngano apugson paman gyud...naa man kahay respetar sa feelings sa iyang uyab??

[classicrock]

mao jud ni g ingun nga just log in to biga.com.ph
hahaha..

[unique]

hmmmmm.....sorry if judgemental na diay mi ani......

[gino_lambating]

butang lang nato bro ug wala gyud diay nag biga-biga ang girl.. pero sa estorya nalang daan ba nga masakitan ang iyang bf sa iyang gibuhat..nganong padayonon paman gyud? love man kaha niya iyang uyab, so mag amping siya sa iyang buhatonon nga di makapasakit sa iyang uyab maskin nag di malihayan nga mapasakitan gyud nato atong partner, at least naningkamot nga di mayayay ang heart..hehe

kanang gitago tago?? gipugos or wala? yatappp!! amf!!

[binarypill]

i've had personal experience with this (and, i think ang mga nanubag naa say experience)

i think, jane, if dili jud nimo makaya i-cut ang imong pagchat-chat in courtesy of what your bf is feeling, then there is something there that should not be. if ganahan jud kaayo ka makig chat niya, to the extent nga magtago ka (which is an offense to your current relationship), then maybe you should really be honest with yourself and face what you are doing.

it's okay to let go of your bf for your ex. what is not okay is if you are with your bf while secretly pursuing a renewal of relationship with your ex.

anisay lang ta bai!

[Clifford_2008]

kung love nimo sya ayaw nalang pakit-a..hahahahahaah

[moklo]

Sorry au sa TS ani ha.. pero sa akong nakitah dili na friendly ang imo tuyo sa imo ex. Nakitah sad nko nga dili ka faithful sa imo current nga uyab karon. mas maayu sundon nimo naa sa imo hunahuna ug kasin kasing.

Sure jud ko dai nga gusto pa jud ka makig balik sa imo ex. U said nlove nka sa imo uyab karon pero dili ko motoo kai ngano makig communicate pman kah sa imo ex unya sa tago pa jud. Try to put urself sa lugar sa imo uyab karon. Kana imo guibuhat usa na kana ka pag tikas kaniya.

I know this setup, Ang imo ex sa diri pa siya sa phil uyab mo unya sa nagbuwag mo naka adto na siya sa Gawas sa nasod. Ako laki man jud ko kabalo ko unsa ang plano sa uyab nimo sauna gusto lang na siya makig relasyon kanimo kai wala siyay responsibilidad as uyab. Wala siya plano ilogon ka pero naa siya plano nga duwaan kah.

Hununga na imo guibuhat kung tinood jud ka sa imo uyab karon. Ngano diay ug kung mo text or mo chat imo ex mo reply lang ka sa importante niya nga message kay sa ako kung friend mo dili ingon ana ka close ang inyo relationship as wll as ur communication.

Klaro kaayu nga ganahan sad kah.

Sorry jud.