I've got this problem and I need an honest opinion

[elvandesantos]

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sis try to relate it from this. its a teaching of the koran about salvation.
(it makes my world stop when i read this part)

"Whoever goes aright, for his own soul he goes aright; and whoever goes astray, to his own detriment he goes astray. And no bearer of a burden bears another's burden..." (Koran 53:3

"...no soul earns (evil) but against itself. Nor does a bearer of a burden bear the burden of another." (Koran 6:165)
"So whoever does an atom's weight of good will se it and whoever does an atom's weight of evil will see it." (Koran 99:7,

[mr.krism]

Would you condemn someone who choose to go on a different path? Would you justify to the rest of the world your reasons and actions? Would you leave your current life for something uncertain? Would you do something crazy for the sake of experience? Would you give up everything just to savor that small blissful moment? Would you trade in your security for a gamble with little chance of winning? The what if’s in a persons life can bring him/her to a world of confusion, worst to a state of regret. But if life is to be savored by every bit of joy and agony, then I definitely know now that I’m alive.

Am I entitled to question what was promised to be forever? Or should I question fate instead?

I am no expert in life, I am no expert in everything. All I know is that everything is not suppose to happened the way you want them to be. And if the current changes and brings you to a different direction, would you go back to where you were from or will you open yourself to that new path?

The feeling of agony for wanting something so desperate is painful, yet I find the pain to be addictive. I guess wanting something you cant have is even better than not wanting anything at all. Will forever happiness be my way or did it pass me by already?

hmmmmnnn... THUMBS UP!
nice poem, keep up the good work. You'll be a good Poet or an artist someday!

[diem]

My Honest, Humble opinion is that your problem, as stated in your first post of this thread, seems to be very vague perhaps that's why you're confused on what to do.

I understand one's need for privacy maybe that's why you're posting your problem in general terms but that would only get you general advice from others. If you're really asking for help, then you'd better be honest and share the specifics in this thread's first post (since that's where everybody looks at first anyway). Being honest with others, albeit they maybe strangers, could help you being honest with yourself.

Specifying a problem and defining its root cause is the first step to defining your solutions and the steps to achieve resolution.

[high_heels]

My Honest, Humble opinion is that your problem, as stated in your first post of this thread, seems to be very vague perhaps that's why you're confused on what to do.

I understand one's need for privacy maybe that's why you're posting your problem in general terms but that would only get you general advice from others. If you're really asking for help, then you'd better be honest and share the specifics in this thread's first post (since that's where everybody looks at first anyway). Being honest with others, albeit they maybe strangers, could help you being honest with yourself.

Specifying a problem and defining its root cause is the first step to defining your solutions and the steps to achieve resolution.

thanks for opening my mind to the idea....it is a process that I'm going through and surely I'll get there...Hope what I wrote somehow made you guys think about your conquest, either winning or loosing. Up for this thread...

[Sol_Itaire]

well let's say the husband wants to have a threesome because that's adventure or 'another path' for him, it's up to him. but he shouldn't expect that his wife will jump for joy.

i think we can do anything we want as long as it doesn't endanger someone else's life, property, relationships, etc.

[lilypods]

count your blessings sis. sometimes what we have is already enough. matud pas akong lola "if you want to have everything, stop asking for more."