bro imo aunt og uncle dili minyo?? and ur only related sa imo auntie.. so really you are not cousins at all.. but its complicated kay live in sa imo auntie... ur not committing incest there.. so the problem lies with ur uncle's way of thinking... id say go for it and prove to your "uncle" that you have good and clean intentions.. otherwise kung magbinuang ra ka.. yaw nalang dayuna kay it will really mess things up... not only for you, but for your aunt and "uncle" as well...
mind to tell us how old are you and the girl?
if you're mature enough, tanaw nako murag wla man cguro
problema. dli man mo related in blood. unya dli kasado
ang imong auntie sa papa sa girl.
so I think there's no morality issues, it's nowhere
near.
pila na diay ka years nag live-in imong auntie and dad
sa girl?
how long nimo kaila ang girl and her dad?
if you think magka problema ka sa iyang dad kung mo
padayon ka sa imong (masamang) balak, better ayaw lng sa.
murag pareparehas rana cyang istorya kung ikaw na in love sa
ex-gf (or gf) sa imong bestfriend.
you know in love jud kaayo imong bestfriend sa iyang ex, unya na
in love pud ka and you have all the chances para ma imo ang ex...
would you take the chance?
do you think you can have your bestfriend's ex-gf without severing
the relationship with your bestfriend or possibly ruin it?
that could be possible kung understanding imong bestfriend and
naka accept na cya.
my point in your case, diskarte sa ka sa iyang dad.
find a way nga (eventually) mo approve iyang dad but don't
do it directly. (hope you get my point)
another way is ask ka help sa imong auntie. kung magkasinabot
jud mo sa imong auntie, i think masayon ra.
kung dli mo sugot, ingna lang imong auntie nga buwagan imong uncle
para wlay problema. hihihi joke.
kadaghan nimong pwede pili-an, ngano kato man gyud tawn?
avoid pushing-through with it, out of respect for your uncle. . .
On second thought, try to put yourself in the shoes of your uncle, what would you feel/do if you find-out?
lisuda pud ani wui..
kay how could be so sure it's love as in LOVE? nga dili lang na simple attraction? IF ever ok cla sa inyo duha, and you mess things up...patay..tsk tsk tsk..so, IF ever dili cla ok, you guys better listen...lisud kaau f inyong selves ang inyong huna2-on wui..tsk tsk..
ngita nlng kayha lain bro?
one word. respect.
specially for the uncle that you consider friend. mura ra sad gud na ug nagkagusto ka sa anak sa imong migo... imo kaha patulan? how do you think would the father feel if he finds out about it?
kong imong relatives dira kay imong uncle- then posible cousin mo sa girl so ayaw nalang pugsa kay modugo
pero kong ang imo relatives sa story kay imong auntie- then dili mo tig-unsa sa girl/ close mo sa daddy sa girl so why not if your intention is good and you can stand for it, if the girl feel the same way towards you then walay problema
Last edited by Twinkz; 03-15-2010 at 01:39 PM.
if i'm the dad and i see you as a responsible person. as in the perfect partner for my daughter. that i know everything will be safe.
unsa paman ang problema ana?
but if you're the opposite, ayaw nlng padayon.
figer143, sure man kaha ka nga in love sa imo ang girl?
fight for her love towards you (not fight for your love towards her).
mao jud unsa may problema ana kong tarong imo intention, ang problema kay kong di ka sure sa imong gibati crush crush ra ba unya binuangan nimo ang girl or if bata pa kaau ka unya mao ra juy babae na imong nakamingle kay basin nakalitan ra ka.
unsaon nimu pag ingon nga love nimu kaayo ang girl nga wa pa gani mu kasugod. wa pa gani mu ka first step. love kaha na? or infatuation.. or attraction. or obsession.. think about it bro... don't rush it. this kind of thing requires experience, maturity, and stability to decide.
pero in the end ikaw ra ghapn maka answer ana.. if your responsible and mature enough to deal with it.
Similar Threads |
|