Originally Posted by
elia
Here's the thing.. I keep on changing the date/month/year of our wedding day. When he proposed to me March last year I told him that we could get married by July. Then by summer I changed the month to October. When August Came, I told him to move to December. But by November, I have to make a career change that it affected our marriage plans. I told him to set our wedding for this year either June or July. But just the other day I told him to move it to January 2011.
I know It's my fault that I keep on changing the dates. When he asks me about marriage my mind will be blank for a couple of seconds. Mura bitaw ug MAGMINYO na jud diay ko?! Siguro ma shock lang ko. He told me that his family is worried kay basin mapul-an siya but he assured me nga dili daw siya mapul-an ug hulat. Now, my question is.. Do guys really could wait? Basin muabot ang time nga magmahay ra ko kay sige kog change sa date. I really love him, but I have priorities lang jud for now.
first thing. You do realize you have postpone your wedding for 2 YEARS!!!!
The way I see it, you are not yet ready to get married or there is something that is holding you back.
Why not tell your partner honestly... what you feel. Instead of having a target month for the wedding, why not cancel it for the meantime.
I don't know why you are afraid but if you've been together with your partner for so long. Marriage doesn't necessarily mean a BIG difference. Look at marriage as making you and your partner "legit", its just paper works. The other stuff remains the same, your feelings with each other, you've already met each others parents and families.
with your question, can men really wait?
Of course we can.... But it doesn't give you the permission to make us wait without reason.
Don't let people keep chasing over nothing.
just pray for that.. 
hahaha
