How to get my EX back??

[jologz]

wer in the same boat jolz but d lang LDR amo set-up... kalit sya ni-give up coz of his new work and i asked the same thing if naa ba lain sa work but ala daw, kami lang japon kuno but no commitment.. faet jud k ala mi away or smooth au ang relationship namo ato bsag we barely see each other, understand pod maau ko nya since first work nya... anwayz, sa cge nako huwat nya for months, nahibaw-an lang nako na dugay2x napod sila sa iya new gf (bestfriend nya sa college and work na) -- mao daw reason na shaky na daw iya pagtagad nako... mora jud ko nahagsa ato...

so that's why upon reading ur predicament wid ur gf, my initial reaction is, u better let her be lang sa then if u feel na it's time for u to really talk it out, go to manila and see her and put up a good fight for ur love if there's still something left to save from all ur probs together... u owe it pod na she wud be clear and honest wid what she really wants kesa she'll give u a vague answer... d bya lalim maghulat sa wala...

God bless jolz...

mau jud beys, sakit kaau this tym kay murag hanging kaau kay walay clear iyang reasons..pero ok ra na..di man ko type sa person na madali madiscourage..I won't give up without giving a fight..I'm still optimistic about my chances..

[jologz]

respect lng bro, give her time & space but ayaw kalimot og text nya to say good morning.... tc always... good evening.. mga qoutes ba... pero ayaw lng sa siya pangutan.a bsag unsa sa text... pero sa ako lng experience kay nka try nman ko ge ingon ana ko, naa na siyay naganahan lain bro, or na inlove na siya sa lain. mao gyd na nka pait sa LDR.

sa karon bro wala pa man ko naghunahuna na nakakita sya lain coz 1st week pa nya sa work..imposible man kaau na makakita sya ipuli nako within a week dba?

[mystes]

Ako matampo ani sa?

Naa jud uban taw - motarung ta, sila Kay DILI sad.
Naa sad uban taw - DILI mo tarung, pero gitarung ka sa imo partner.

Kapoya jud ana e.StoRy oi. hihihihihi

Bitaw, think whats best for you usa Lang..
If unsa Nahan sa imo gf - let her be sa usa.
Then if times shaky na jud inyu relationship and no matter how u save it.
DILI PA JUD ma save. Stop it and let her go.

BASTA KUNG UNSA MAHITABO sa dagan sa inyo relationship...
Hay LDR. ambot lang.. bugnawon man gud sagaran ana nila.....
CLOSURE is best when things are no longer working.
para maka move on mo sa usat usa... and no hard feelings on the long run.

[KASAAC]

@anne: moad2 jud ko manila..hehe..anyway wala man ko naghunahuna na makkita sya ug lain dd2 kay ingon man xa na love pa man ko nya..tagaan lang nako sya time then panguyaban xa nako balik..murag napressure and stress ra man cguro sya kay daghan pud kaau problems sa iyahng family..ako sa tarungon akong life ron, asikaso ko sa akong papers for US then magpagwapo ko para makakita sya kung unsa nawala sa iyaha hehe..

Sounds like a good plan bro, goodluck

[treize]

makapabugnaw man gud nang LDR samot naay mag ibid² sa imong gf... cge ad2a sa manila unya birahi para maka hinumdom siya unsay feelings nga naa ka sa heaven...

[jologz]

makapabugnaw man gud nang LDR samot naay mag ibid² sa imong gf... cge ad2a sa manila unya birahi para maka hinumdom siya unsay feelings nga naa ka sa heaven...

mao jud ni akong buhaton brad..ako namn xa giignan na pag-adto nako sa manila kay stay xa nako for 2 days..

[daplini]

tingali ganahan lang siya ma-free samtang naa siya sa layo.

[jologz]

tingali ganahan lang siya ma-free samtang naa siya sa layo.

niingon pud sya ana na reason..ganahan daw xa makaexperience ug feeling sa walay uyab..kanang walay magexpect sa iyaha and magbuot sa iyang decisions..so tagaan lang nako ni xa ug tym hope my plan works..hehe getting lots of idea from a book I'm reading on how to win EX back..

[reginakrys]

My GF told me last saturday na mag split sa mi..major reason nya kay busy kaau xa sa iyahng new work then di na nya kaya ang LDR..I asked her if Love pa ko nya then she said na yes but di na pareho before..I asked also if naay gadiskarte nya sa iyang work and wala xa nagdeny, then follow up question ko if ganahn ba xa ato na guy ang iya tubag kay "ambot lang"..nangutana pud ko if break na jud mi or cool off lang then ang iyang answer kay "ambot lang, give me some space and time to think"..Wala jud ko nasatisfy sa iyahang reasons kay wala man ko nakita na major event na nhappen para makadecide sya ug ingon ana..wala man mi away-away..supportive man kaau ko na BF and di sad ko laagan na..wala pud ko nagcheat..What do you think guys? Unsa kaha iyang true reason? Ilisan na kaha ko nya or nabored lang sya sa among LDR? I offered her solutions like working in manila para mafix among relationship but iya man iturn down ang tanan solutions that i've offered. It's like she's pushing me away even though I'm trying to reach out..Unsa kaha best nako buhaton to win her back??

i've been in a situation that i think is similar.. i think i've been in your girl's shoes.. dli hinuon mi LDR ato, but our relationship felt like LDR.. i met someone new.. when my ex asked me if i liked him.. "ambot lang" sad akong answer.. i didn't want to admit nga i did, but i did like the other guy.. i also wanted a cool-off at that time, para maclaro nko akong feelings.. almost 5years na mi ato sa akong ex, on and off.. i wanted to make sure dli ra nko ma-throw away ang 5years just because of a fling2x.. anyway it ended up nga ni-fall jud ko for the other guy.. i don't know the reason, maybe kuwang akong ex sa diskarte, or dli lng jud mi meant to be.. 1yr kapin pa mi rn sa akong present but i'm really happy sa akong decision..

based sa akong experience, mao ni akong opinion sa inyong situation.. inyong relationship ni-come to a point nga one-way na cya.. it's not good for any relationship, much more sa LDR nga relationship.. it's bound to fall apart if she doesn't make an effort to keep your relationship working..

i don't want to discourage you, but i don't want to encourage you either.. naa pa jud na chance na you'll win her back, but it's not good for you to rely on it too much, kay lisod na if dli mu-turn out that way.. i think it's good if you go to manila.. it will be good for you, knowing that you did everything you could kaysa mgwhat-if ka pirmi.. that way, maybe she'll realize how much she means to you.. but don't pressure her lng to make decisions.. go out and have fun with her.. do what you did pgcourt nimo niya and more.. but be ready nalang daan for the worst..

i can see from your posts nga you really love her and nagtinarung jud ka.. i wish you all the best..

[jologz]

i've been in a situation that i think is similar.. i think i've been in your girl's shoes.. dli hinuon mi LDR ato, but our relationship felt like LDR.. i met someone new.. when my ex asked me if i liked him.. "ambot lang" sad akong answer.. i didn't want to admit nga i did, but i did like the other guy.. i also wanted a cool-off at that time, para maclaro nko akong feelings.. almost 5years na mi ato sa akong ex, on and off.. i wanted to make sure dli ra nko ma-throw away ang 5years just because of a fling2x.. anyway it ended up nga ni-fall jud ko for the other guy.. i don't know the reason, maybe kuwang akong ex sa diskarte, or dli lng jud mi meant to be.. 1yr kapin pa mi rn sa akong present but i'm really happy sa akong decision..

based sa akong experience, mao ni akong opinion sa inyong situation.. inyong relationship ni-come to a point nga one-way na cya.. it's not good for any relationship, much more sa LDR nga relationship.. it's bound to fall apart if she doesn't make an effort to keep your relationship working..

i don't want to discourage you, but i don't want to encourage you either.. naa pa jud na chance na you'll win her back, but it's not good for you to rely on it too much, kay lisod na if dli mu-turn out that way.. i think it's good if you go to manila.. it will be good for you, knowing that you did everything you could kaysa mgwhat-if ka pirmi.. that way, maybe she'll realize how much she means to you.. but don't pressure her lng to make decisions.. go out and have fun with her.. do what you did pgcourt nimo niya and more.. but be ready nalang daan for the worst..

i can see from your posts nga you really love her and nagtinarung jud ka.. i wish you all the best..

wow..hehe I am actually expecting for the worst but somehow I'm optimistic that I can rekindle the fire in our relationship..actually, i did not txt her today then I was shocked that she texted me..hehe I hope it's a sign that she's missing me..I ended our conversation after a couple of msgs para mabitin xa hehe..

actually I've realized na ok diay ingon ani na situation, nakahunahuna ko ug klaro.. narealize pud nako akong mistakes, naging passive jud kaau ko sa among relationship..and the thought of loosing her really made me realize how much I love her..