nice
igo man pud ta ani wui

hehehe!
you're really right when you said that it seems innate for women to think that men aren't worthy of our trust... and believe me, we don't intend to act paranoid over little things... its just that the belief that men in general are are inclined to do this and that ( you know what I mean ) has been inculcated in our minds already.. So, it takes time for us to really trust guys.. especially since we know that by doing so we become emotionally vulnerable (something we'd like to avoid.. hehehe)
as for those guys who said na you want your gf to be proud of you.... the feeling is MUTUAL