I Need Some Help...

[baning]

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hopefully the issue will be resolve sooner... good luck ts...

[maddox_pitt]

@TS: maybe you should confront her and ask her everything that you want to ask or to know from her.. kung nganong nakigbalik siya niya gibuwagan rasad ka..kung nganong nibalik xa sa iyahang uyab..kung nganong gihurot niya ang imuhang kwarta..

since you said first 2 yrs wala ka ni.support niya ug sa baby, di kaha nahimaws ra xa nimo?
or maybe, she thought she still loves you but then she realized she's also in love with her bf?
or basin sad, the bf is more stable than you are mao niadto xa?

[Tirong-say]

So you have to think on your next move kung unsay maka-ayo para sa tanan. Financially stable man pud ka, so ayaw nalang pag-huna2x sa kuwarta nga nawala. Wala na siyay gugma nimo factual kaayo tungod sa iyang gibuhat, so pangita na lang ug lain. Then what is your plan now with your kid, kung makita nimo nga wala siyay tarong ugma kuyog sa iyang inahan then resort with legalities naay daghang abugado diha. 24 years old pa man ka ayaw lang kaayo dib-diba ang nahitabo daghan pa kaayo mga maayong butang nga mahitabo sa imong kinabuhi, lapda imong pamensar ayaw e-confine ini nga hitabo.

[esotericlove]

I know you intentionally left out details which is relevant to your problem.

You focused on the painful part which is that she fooled you and took all your money.

All will be enlightened if you can answer these questions:

What made you break up in the first place?
Whose fault was the break up?
How painful is the break up was for her?
Was she not planning her revenge
by befriending you and then leave you?
Maybe she thought that the only way she could hurt you is to take away your money.

yea, naa jud point si SD

[powerpower2006]

@ soul doctor
What made you break up in the first place? dli pa daw cya ready makgcommit
Whose fault was the break up? Syempre cya kay cya ra mn gus2 magbuwag mi
How painful is the break up was for her? Very...
Was she not planning her revenge? she told me na mao nakgbalik cya kay mobaws ra daw cya but she never knew na mobalik iyang luv nko
by befriending you and then leave you?
Maybe she thought that the only way she could hurt you is to take away your money.

[powerpower2006]

lisura sad i comment ani na thread oi. murag d complete ang details. i want to ask u TS, nus a man nimo nabaw an nga naa moy anak? pag gawas na sa baby or pag buwag ninyo? girl man sad ko, pagka mabdos nako sa akong baby namo sa akong bf, at that time, buwag pud mi, pero i made him aware dayun nga nagbunga among gihimo. kung nakahibalo ka nga naa moy anak after na nigawas ang bata, murag questionable ni. kahibalo baka daan nga namabdos nimo siya? unsay background sa imong gf? dili ba kiatan pagka babay? sure ka nga ikaw ra iyang uyab adtong kamo pa? murag fickle minded kaau imong gf. nganong nagbuwag mo before? basig gipanimaslan ka sa babay. unsa kahay imong nahimo diha niya before?? i istorya daw ug detailed ang inyong lovelife para makahibalo mi kung unsay among i advice nimo

actually we're 4 months break na by d time na nkabaw ko na buntis cya that was long time ago... then nagkabuwag mi b4 kay tungod lagi sa cge ug away.. misunderstanding maskin we both know na we still luv each other... but tungod lagi aning garbo mao dli jud magkasinabtanay... mao pagkabaw nya na buntis na cya mao ako daun cya giingnan na wla koy plano magminyo sau... but wla nko gi close ako self na mobalik nya... bsta oi daghan au mi kaagi... just ask lng questions pra ako ma2bag... right now wla jud ko klaro pangutok ron 2ngod sa iya gibuhat sa akoa karon...

[powerpower2006]

@TS: maybe you should confront her and ask her everything that you want to ask or to know from her.. kung nganong nakigbalik siya niya gibuwagan rasad ka..kung nganong nibalik xa sa iyahang uyab..kung nganong gihurot niya ang imuhang kwarta..

since you said first 2 yrs wala ka ni.support niya ug sa baby, di kaha nahimaws ra xa nimo?
or maybe, she thought she still loves you but then she realized she's also in love with her bf?
or basin sad, the bf is more stable than you are mao niadto xa?

kari mao jud ni... she both luvs us but mas bug at lng jud nya iya bf kay iya mn gud ni saw sa tanan nakong pagkuwang sauna... but namawi nmn gud ko pag au sa akong mag ina and still dli mn jud nya pa appreciate... halos tanan ako na gihatag na tanan... wla na jud ko gabilin pra sa akong self... first 2 yrs d pa mn ako gasupport kay wla pa mn ko work gud... ako ra parents nagsupport...

[powerpower2006]

mao ni iya gisulti nko ganina ai...
"can u wait for me?"
then i replied
"im not a fool who will wait for nothing"
sak2 ba ako gitubag nya? gabalik na bya cla sa iya bf ha unya iya ko pahuwaton? do u think magkabuwag pa na cla? nd kng iya ko pahuwaton y man makigbalik pa cya sa iya BF?

[elvandesantos]

similar to my story... but d gus2 ang parents sa babae maka-duol ko sa ila anak gud. so sakit gamay pro palayo nalng sad ko. anyway, time wil heal. let it be nlang sad but still im longing for my son. curious ko sa dagway ato kay wa gyud ko kita hehehe.

my point bro... time will come lang nah.... (you get the idea)

[powerpower2006]

similar to my story... but d gus2 ang parents sa babae maka-duol ko sa ila anak gud. so sakit gamay pro palayo nalng sad ko. anyway, time wil heal. let it be nlang sad but still im longing for my son. curious ko sa dagway ato kay wa gyud ko kita hehehe.

my point bro... time will come lang nah.... (you get the idea)

at 1st mn bro d nahan ang parents sa babae na maila nko ang anak but nangita mn jud ko way bro gud pra ako makit an ako anak nd nangau lng sd jud kog pasaylo face to face sa parents nya mao ila nko nadawat nd namawi nmn sad jud ko sa akong mga sala sa sauna... ang ako lng jud kasakit karon nganu iya kng gi ingon ani karon na wla mn unta jud ko gabinuang nya...