Ask me any question about relationships

[balot_sweet]

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overjoyed diay ka atu na time ate don whehe...bitaw take it from anjerica don't put too much weight on it para di ka ma yayay hehe....ma igo na pud kag SD anih ate don ...good luck hehe

[Soul Doctor]

doc, i have a question:

how to be a wise guy in this world of relationship..

keep loving yourself.
do not depend your happiness to the other guy.
just be happy with or without him.

[Soul Doctor]

i dunno lang gyud sis.. im just so bothered because of that incident last nyt,.



wa man ko na kurat kuya balot, na sulod lang gyud sa ako huna2x ba na "ayay nagka holding hands pa gyud mi". wat i did, i never let it go..

@SD: imo gyud ko gi igo doc ha.. hehehe grabe to.

Ikaw man gud pirmi jud nimo i-misinterpret mga gamay nga gestures.
Hahay!

Ako gani holding hands ko sa akong friend.
Laki pa jud to.
Pero normal ra na bro kung friends.
unless iyang gitikgitkon imong kamot while naghold ka sa iyang hands.
Kana lain nay tuyo ana.

or iyang kissan imong hands while holding it.

It happened to me with a girl too.
feeling kaayo nako ganahan siya kay nanan-aw mig sine
unya nagholding hands sa sulod ug sa paggawas.
Pero wala ra diay to niya.
Uwaw lang ko, abi na nakog naa.
Bata pa nuon ko ato mga 17.

[n2dabyss]

@SD
idol, its me krizanya again.. ka2ng nagpa tattoo sa name sa iyang miga.. yup, i got the tattoo now.. and my mom was very mad at me, she said "HILU.AN TIKA RUN KRIS.!" nyahahahaha it was soo funny.! nyahahaha xD
anyway, mu larga na akung maguwang ba.. aku nalang isa mahabilin sa balay.. so unsa mn, mag house party ku taga adlaw.? NYAHAHAHAHAHA btaw dol, seriously, i have no GF anymore.. and no1 will cook for me anymore.. so.. ILL STARVE TO DEATH.!

[Soul Doctor]

@SD
idol, its me krizanya again.. ka2ng nagpa tattoo sa name sa iyang miga.. yup, i got the tattoo now.. and my mom was very mad at me, she said "HILU.AN TIKA RUN KRIS.!" nyahahahaha it was soo funny.! nyahahaha xD
anyway, mu larga na akung maguwang ba.. aku nalang isa mahabilin sa balay.. so unsa mn, mag house party ku taga adlaw.? NYAHAHAHAHAHA btaw dol, seriously, i have no GF anymore.. and no1 will cook for me anymore.. so.. ILL STARVE TO DEATH.!

Learn how to cook oi.
Sugod lang sa mga instant.
dayon pritong itlog.

kahibaw ko hilig kag tahong.
kilawa lang osa. hehehe

[anjerika]

SD, naa na sad koy pangutana. what is a better way of growing after a broken relationship or kanang after frustrated ka or wa mahinayon or way klarong relationship - stay friends with that person and paningkamotan to act as if everything is ok or move away, don't talk to the person anymore and simply forget the person na lang? kanang grow jud na as in todo, kanang without bitterness, hehehe

SD



thanks!

[Soul Doctor]

SD, naa na sad koy pangutana. what is a better way of growing after a broken relationship or kanang after frustrated ka or wa mahinayon or way klarong relationship - stay friends with that person and paningkamotan to act as if everything is ok or move away, don't talk to the person anymore and simply forget the person na lang? kanang grow jud na as in todo, kanang without bitterness, hehehe

SD



thanks!

Don't focus on the relationship.

Focus on the lessons.

Take in all the lessons learned.

Think of all the worst thing that could have happened when you did not break up.

That way you will be happy that you broke up.

Then there will be no bitterness there.

Do not make any kind of relationship with him. It only bring back the pain.
Just forget and let go.

[anjerika]

Don't focus on the relationship.

Focus on the lessons.

Take in all the lessons learned.

Think of all the worst thing that could have happened when you did not break up.

That way you will be happy that you broke up.

Then there will be no bitterness there.

Do not make any kind of relationship with him. It only bring back the pain.
Just forget and let go.

so you mean it's like going back as strangers again? hehe. no more talks or anything? even hi's or hello's or take care? as in totally nothing jud? hehe. what if bongga kaayo mog kaagi together? hehe. as in forget like it never happened?


thanks SD

[Tirong-say]

Dear Soul Doctor,

Aduna koy uyab kaniadto,
close kaayo mi, ako ni siyang High School Sweetheart,
pag-college na namo, ming-balhin siya sa manila aron didto na mopadayon sa iyang pag-tuon,tungod ini nga sitwasyon, tagsa ra kaayo mi magka-communicate, hangtud na lang nga naka-abroad siya sa US as registered nurse. Naputol na among relasyon, mao nangita na lang pud ko ug lain, mao ni siya akong present nga special someone. Ang problema ini karon kay mingbalik man tong kanhi nakong Girlfriend unya gusto niya nga e-continue na pud namo ang among naputol nga relasyon. Dili ko gusto nga ma-unfair ko sa akong present one, pero naa pa man koy pagbati atong akong kanhi, tungod tingale kay naa mi pinagsamahan. Unsaon kaha pagpatay sa gugma para dili na ko maglibog.

gatamod,

Tirong-say

[Soul Doctor]

so you mean it's like going back as strangers again? hehe. no more talks or anything? even hi's or hello's or take care? as in totally nothing jud? hehe. what if bongga kaayo mog kaagi together? hehe. as in forget like it never happened?


thanks SD

a dollar of the past is worth a cent in the present.
memories fade.
But the pain lingers on.