Girls confessing their feelings

[aozora]

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dli man cguro na issue if a girl honestly confesses na she likes you. for me, i don't feel awkward towards the girl.

the thing is ang timing.
kung bago pamo nagkaila then mo confess dayon cya? don't tell me mo tuo dayon ka ana? i think it will take (at least) 2-3 months before maka ingon ang girl na she loves/likes you for an average guy.

kanang mo confess dayon sa ilang love, eventually it will fade away depende sa actions kay actions shout louder than words.

kung pwerte pud nimong gwapoha like ni Brad Pitt, diritso na.

wla man cguro rule nga dapat ang guy jud mo confess.
you're so lucky kung maka-kita ka ug girl nga honest nowadays!

ug kanang pagukud.gukuron ka or pa hard-to-get?, isa ra akong masulti ana:
if the girl likes you, she will help you!

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

ok ra man mo confess ang girl sa iyang feelings, its not as if she's courting the guy...

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ok ra man mo confess ang girl sa iyang feelings, its not as if she's courting the guy...

but if a girl says he likes the guy, unsa man ang implications ani? Does she want na magka sila?

[sandsss]

Nerve-wracking, yes, but I don't see anything wrong with us girls confessing our feelings to the guy we like. Nag-pahibaw ra bitaw mi sa among na-feel. It's not like nanguyab mi or anything. As they say diba, feelings are meant to be expressed. Wala'y gamit if i-tago2x ra. Bahala na ang guy kung unsaon niya pag react. If he happens to like the girl, then great. If dili, aw, okay lang gihapon. Sakit, yes, pero naa pa bitaw uban. And it's not the end of the world if the guy we like fails to like us in return.

[chinody]

but if a girl says he likes the guy, unsa man ang implications ani? Does she want na magka sila?

it means exactly what it means. she just likes the guy. not necessarily loves the guy. so if gusto ka sa girl then she definitely wants you to be her boyfriend.

[recca_]

Nerve-wracking, yes, but I don't see anything wrong with us girls confessing our feelings to the guy we like. Nag-pahibaw ra bitaw mi sa among na-feel. It's not like nanguyab mi or anything. As they say diba, feelings are meant to be expressed. Wala'y gamit if i-tago2x ra. Bahala na ang guy kung unsaon niya pag react. If he happens to like the girl, then great. If dili, aw, okay lang gihapon. Sakit, yes, pero naa pa bitaw uban. And it's not the end of the world if the guy we like fails to like us in return.

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pero maam, ngano ang ubang girl paghuman ug confess, dli naman ka tagdun... txt,call tanang commu ako nang nabuhat maski pag-add lng sa facebook o friendster, murag iputol inyo relationship as a friend bah. dugay bya ko nakarecover ani kay ganahan jud ko sa girl. mao ako karon, natorpe nlang ko kay kung naa ko ganahan lain nga girl, basin d unya ko tagdon nya after i confess her nga like nako xa.

[anjerika]

wahaha kasuway ko ani. niangay ko sauna sa akong suod kayo na migo 4 years nami constant and endlessly nag talk haha we even treated each other as bestfriends then sige og pangayog advice about ubang babae, etc. and all, to know the girls deeper, patabang panguyab, cheering squad, scorer, tig tago og sekreto, usual bestfriend role. but then kung ni angay ka di mana nimo mapugngan imong pagbati, maski pa kahibaw kang dpat ka maghuwat. like i asked this same question of TS from him, and ang iyang tubag, usual lalake answer, "paghuwat kon ang lake mu ingon nimo ana or manguyab nimo kay iya unya kang i take advantage pag mahibaw siyang ni angay ka niya." and so i did shut up. but then things were heating up, naa siyay nka char2, (selos kunohay si manang), i kept on avoiding him, lying, explaining things na way nahut (coz he didn't want me to go away, syempre wa sya kahibaw ngano na ingon ato ko nya) then mag-away naman mi. and so to end everything, wa naman ko kaagwanta sa akong pagpamakak, explain, pretend and all so to give justice to him, i simply told him. "the root of all my actions is that i like you. pero wa ko nanguyab ha. so that explains everything. i don't care if we lose our friendship or not. ana sad siya, "daan ko pa, dugay ra kong nahibaw ana". but i told him, "wa ko nanguyab nimo ha, i just want you to know. will that make me less of a person sa imong panan-aw from now on? i don't care. now, if you'll excuse me, i have to go."

wa man siya sad sugot mlakaw ko. nasuod nuon mig samot. hehe. but now he's gotten serious with his ka char2, so i finally left without permission, suko man siya o di sa ako. at least he knows the reason nganong ma cold ko.

for me it's justice. not just for the other person but for yourself.

kon ikaw girl, would you rather keep things to yourself, pretending everything is ok para kauban gihapon mo or explain and end everything? either way, you will still lose something. kon imo ra itago imong pagbati, maboang ka. di lang imong friend imong kontra, the worst pa is yourself. ma lunod kas kauwaw but for me it is better than lying and pretending. kon imo sad isulti, big chance mawa inyong friendship. pero kon di mo suod daan anang tawhana, like you've known the person for a short time lang and you have no friend-bestfriend-char2-parent-sweetheart-sibling na complication sa inyong pag inamigohay, you don't have to say it. huwat ka lang.

nothing wrong kon magpakatotoo ka. though it's not a typical filipina culture. hehe. i know i didn't have to do it, but i was pushed by circumstances. the worst thing in this scenario is not the shame, but self-betrayal. if you love yourself, do yourself a favor hahaha



disclaimer: this concept is just me, about me, and what i did. doesn't apply to all the girls. hehe. will this make me less of a person to all of you?

[anjerika]

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pero maam, ngano ang ubang girl paghuman ug confess, dli naman ka tagdun... txt,call tanang commu ako nang nabuhat maski pag-add lng sa facebook o friendster, murag iputol inyo relationship as a friend bah. dugay bya ko nakarecover ani kay ganahan jud ko sa girl. mao ako karon, natorpe nlang ko kay kung naa ko ganahan lain nga girl, basin d unya ko tagdon nya after i confess her nga like nako xa.

wahaha nauwaw na bro. it takes a lot of courage to tell it to you na ganahan siya nimo. in my case it took me 3 years before i had the courage to stand up and talk. after ana usually mauwaw na nimo. mixed emotions after na nya masulti - nalipay, na disappoint, nalagot, nauwaw, wa nay gana. haha mao sad ako nabuhat, all communications barred. learn the lesson lang, hehe i don't know if mine is also trying to contact me, but for now, ignorance is bliss. hahaha

[moz_k2]

If you like someone, tell them, because you might found out that they like you too

OnT
Naka experience pud ko ani.
Medyo lahi pud to ug tukar bayhana.
Ni confess cya pero tua na cya sa manila.
Nibalhin cya kay kahibaw cya nga dli pud ko makagusto niya plus naa pud ko uyab ato.
Dili pa jud mi close.
Magkatawa lang ko maka remember ato.

[floppy]

wahaha kasuway ko ani. niangay ko sauna sa akong suod kayo na migo 4 years nami constant and endlessly nag talk haha we even treated each other as bestfriends then sige og pangayog advice about ubang babae, etc. and all, to know the girls deeper, patabang panguyab, cheering squad, scorer, tig tago og sekreto, usual bestfriend role. but then kung ni angay ka di mana nimo mapugngan imong pagbati, maski pa kahibaw kang dpat ka maghuwat. like i asked this same question of TS from him, and ang iyang tubag, usual lalake answer, "paghuwat kon ang lake mu ingon nimo ana or manguyab nimo kay iya unya kang i take advantage pag mahibaw siyang ni angay ka niya." and so i did shut up. but then things were heating up, naa siyay nka char2, (selos kunohay si manang), i kept on avoiding him, lying, explaining things na way nahut (coz he didn't want me to go away, syempre wa sya kahibaw ngano na ingon ato ko nya) then mag-away naman mi. and so to end everything, wa naman ko kaagwanta sa akong pagpamakak, explain, pretend and all so to give justice to him, i simply told him. "the root of all my actions is that i like you. pero wa ko nanguyab ha. so that explains everything. i don't care if we lose our friendship or not. ana sad siya, "daan ko pa, dugay ra kong nahibaw ana". but i told him, "wa ko nanguyab nimo ha, i just want you to know. will that make me less of a person sa imong panan-aw from now on? i don't care. now, if you'll excuse me, i have to go."

wa man siya sad sugot mlakaw ko. nasuod nuon mig samot. hehe. but now he's gotten serious with his ka char2, so i finally left without permission, suko man siya o di sa ako. at least he knows the reason nganong ma cold ko.

for me it's justice. not just for the other person but for yourself.

kon ikaw girl, would you rather keep things to yourself, pretending everything is ok para kauban gihapon mo or explain and end everything? either way, you will still lose something. kon imo ra itago imong pagbati, maboang ka. di lang imong friend imong kontra, the worst pa is yourself. ma lunod kas kauwaw but for me it is better than lying and pretending. kon imo sad isulti, big chance mawa inyong friendship. pero kon di mo suod daan anang tawhana, like you've known the person for a short time lang and you have no friend-bestfriend-char2-parent-sweetheart-sibling na complication sa inyong pag inamigohay, you don't have to say it. huwat ka lang.

nothing wrong kon magpakatotoo ka. though it's not a typical filipina culture. hehe. i know i didn't have to do it, but i was pushed by circumstances. the worst thing in this scenario is not the shame, but self-betrayal. if you love yourself, do yourself a favor hahaha



disclaimer: this concept is just me, about me, and what i did. doesn't apply to all the girls. hehe. will this make me less of a person to all of you?

i guess most of the cases where maka confess ang babae sa lalaki kay murag ingon ani na situation, kanang "best friends" sila and they feel clueless kaau ang lalaki. Ambot lang sad ha.... pero i seriously doubt na clueless sila, like sa imo na situation ni ana ang laki na "daan ko pa, dugay ra kong nahibaw ana".

will this make me less of a person to all of you?

no, it doesn't. I think most men would appreciate the honesty. If I was the guy, i'd tell you how i feel about u too, whether friends lang or open to the idea that we can be a couple.
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Pero what if ikaw ang close friend sa babae na ganahan mo confess. Then niduol xa sa imo for advice, unsa imo i sulti?