Girls, how will you know if it's paranoia or girl's instinct?

[danielle000]

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I'm in a long distance relationship. every now and then i keep wondering how trustworthy my bf is. i sometimes think he's doin' something unfaithful even though i have no proof. All because we lack the communication because he's a seaman. How will you know if it's paranoia or girl's instinct?

[julz23]

All because we lack the communication because he's a seaman. How will you know if it's paranoia or girl's instinct? [/quote]

----------->kini gud mga ing-ani sis dan lisod gyud noon basta lagyu moh sa usag-usa..

if you really love your bf, then you must also trust him ky kung cge kag ing-ana

na mura nakag ma paranoid sa cgeg hunahuna nga basin naa nay gikabuangan imo

bf, wa jud ky mahimo ana..basin maliso nia noon kah sa cgeg hunahuna..

salig sa imo uyab, ug ampo ug maayu...

[Blackjellybean27]

you have no choice but to trust your bf, knowing he is a seaman. remember not all seamen are babaero. it's just most of the seamen are, well, MEN... and men by nature are hmmm babaero. but not all, again g stress jud nako na NOT ALL.
sis, based on my own experience sa instinct2x na sometimes it is true, sometimes it is not.
paranoia lang sometimes...
and with your paranoia, it will drive you and your guy apart. k what if he was being faithful to you and you keep insisting na naa jud sya lain. he will feel bad about it.
ani nalng, trust him (not very easy to do, i assure you) but leave a little doubt nlng so as not to disappoint yourself just in case what you're feeling is true. ayaw pod ug find lingaw sa lain na lalaki ha, k that is a bad thing to even consider...
k sobra na jealousy, d na ganahan ang guys ana. even kita na girls dba?
concentrate instead on how to make your relationship work instead of thinking what's going to break your relationship. mas better dba?

[danielle000]

ga ampo naman ko ug ayo murag wala ko gidungog ni Lord nah. kai cge lng mi away usually tungod rpud sko paranoia.

i think he's not making much effort to comminucate with me. he always reasons out that mahal ang calls & dili na xa mkasave daw. (if i ask him to call me 3x a week, would that be too much? that's $10 per 17mins).. kai what if daghan diay mi iya gna tawagan? or paranoia agen?

recently,i have been having second thoughts whether to break up with him or not. i don't want to prolong my burdens/agony IF ever he's fooling around.
i'm so confused&lost on what to decide. . .

[treize]

mahal gyud nang $10, demanding sad kaayo ka oi 3x a week gyud nimo patawagon, ok ra nang once a year nimo patawagon oi, di ba magcge na og tawag...

[Maikeru]

ga ampo naman ko ug ayo murag wala ko gidungog ni Lord nah. kai cge lng mi away usually tungod rpud sko paranoia.

i think he's not making much effort to comminucate with me. he always reasons out that mahal ang calls & dili na xa mkasave daw. (if i ask him to call me 3x a week, would that be too much? that's $10 per 17mins).. kai what if daghan diay mi iya gna tawagan? or paranoia agen?

recently,i have been having second thoughts whether to break up with him or not. i don't want to prolong my burdens/agony IF ever he's fooling around.
i'm so confused&lost on what to decide. . .

I had read some of your thread (almost same topic) and with this post.. It seems more like a paranoia than an instinct. As what blackjellybean27 said, trust him for now. Provided nga ala pa ka niya binoangi.

Call is not the only way to communicate, if it is too expensive with him,then find something else. You can, chat, send emails and etc. These days, we are not limited to a phone booth or a pen and a paper.

[CASSANDRA19]

pareha diay ta sis.akong bf seaman pud then mag 6months nami.I only knew hm for 3months lang gipakilala lang xa ako friend kay couzin man xa...Every 11-14days xa makadock then ana pa xa kacall.So mag-expect kug call every after 11 days or if monthsary namo.Sometimes mocall xa beyond that kung mingawn xa.Trust lang jud sis and amo gbuhat nu kay gavideo calling me kung mkadock xag Germany, or magchat mi na cam to cam.Iya gani ko gipameet sa iya family tru webcam.Gachat lang pud mi ginagmay and happy ayu sya..Yaw sa padalos2x sis ha kay lisod bya ila life didto sa barko.tayg molayat na kung imo buwagan..heheh..wait lang sa sis and extend your patience.When man di ay iya contract mo end?tag pila kamonths?kay if hapit na, then give him a chance lang pud.not all seaman kay babaero..trust lang jud sis.if masakpan nimo ig abot na nya, then buwagi na dayun.hehehe...goodluck sis!

[danielle000]

pareha diay ta sis.akong bf seaman pud then mag 6months nami.I only knew hm for 3months lang gipakilala lang xa ako friend kay couzin man xa...Every 11-14days xa makadock then ana pa xa kacall.So mag-expect kug call every after 11 days or if monthsary namo.Sometimes mocall xa beyond that kung mingawn xa.Trust lang jud sis and amo gbuhat nu kay gavideo calling me kung mkadock xag Germany, or magchat mi na cam to cam.Iya gani ko gipameet sa iya family tru webcam.Gachat lang pud mi ginagmay and happy ayu sya..Yaw sa padalos2x sis ha kay lisod bya ila life didto sa barko.tayg molayat na kung imo buwagan..heheh..wait lang sa sis and extend your patience.When man di ay iya contract mo end?tag pila kamonths?kay if hapit na, then give him a chance lang pud.not all seaman kay babaero..trust lang jud sis.if masakpan nimo ig abot na nya, then buwagi na dayun.hehehe...goodluck sis!

maximum mgend iya contract is till this october 2010 i think coz gipa-extend xa to 1yr (supposedly 9months lng) coz ipromote daw xa but i've gone berserk pgkabalo nko. . . it's very hard to be patient & to trust bcoz i'm not used to long distance rel. & lack of communicat'n. di ko pa nga cya masyadong kilala. what's more is seaman pa. pirmi nalang mi away run nah esp when nkoy mga doubts or questions why wla cya katext or why dali ra nahurot iya load. baka sino na yong ibang kinokontak nya? hahaaaay. . . IS THERE REALLY SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME??!!! HOW CAN I/WE FIX THIS?!

[hayden]

Break-up with him that's it pangita ug laing gwapo nga dili seaman kanang dali ra makuhit, and yes there is something wrong with the way you think.

maximum mgend iya contract is till this october 2010 i think coz gipa-extend xa to 1yr (supposedly 9months lng) coz ipromote daw xa but i've gone berserk pgkabalo nko. . . it's very hard to be patient & to trust bcoz i'm not used to long distance rel. & lack of communicat'n. di ko pa nga cya masyadong kilala. what's more is seaman pa. pirmi nalang mi away run nah esp when nkoy mga doubts or questions why wla cya katext or why dali ra nahurot iya load. baka sino na yong ibang kinokontak nya? hahaaaay. . . IS THERE REALLY SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME??!!! HOW CAN I/WE FIX THIS?!