Caught in the Middle

[miss tapya]

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Just wondering, it seems that 2009 has been the year of too much heart's broken, relationships gone bad and everything... well neways, here is just one little question sa tanan...

the situation is that:
naa mo'y uyab and so you planned to settle down. Relationship runs smoothly til, nahibaw an nimo that your girl/guy is inlove with someone else, dugay ra. In short nagmata raka og morning. Here comes the confrontation and stuff.... before pa naglimod sa imo imong bf/gf nga no other person but you lang sa iyang life. To cut the story short....... ang ingon sa imoha sa imong gf/bf. "Love nako xa, pero i don't want to lose you either!".. Love nimo kaayo ang imong gf/bf.. what will you do? ipamugos imong self sa iyaha hoping that someday mawala ratong gugma sa gf/bf nimo sa iyaha? or move on nalang kay daghan pay ga pantalon nga bae og ga palda nga laki. .....

[monrose29]

move on nalang ko di nako kaya duha me sa iyang life..ang kang juan kang juan ra gyud....

[chrisgon]

i was in ds situation once. pero muabot jud ang time na she has to decide and u have to accept her decision kung d jud ikaw ang mapili...

well, after everything else... pug-i imuhang luha, stand up and pamapha, let all else heal and move on, ders nothing left there for you to hang on pa.

[miss tapya]

chrisgon: how did you manage it? i mean sa diha diha imo na gi let go ang gf nimo maski og d xa gusto nga mo let go sa imo or gihuwatan ra nimo nga bulagan ka nya?


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[Maikeru]

Been there. What I did? I let go. If I stayed, besides that it is complicated, it will also be hard for me to trust her again. A relationship can't work without trust so, I choose to end it. And I never regretted making that decision.

[chrisgon]

chrisgon: how did you manage it? i mean sa diha diha imo na gi let go ang gf nimo maski og d xa gusto nga mo let go sa imo or gihuwatan ra nimo nga bulagan ka nya?


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hope u wont mind me askin ha, imuha n nga situation sis??


usahay gud sis, u have to make some measures for urself para d ka masakitan... pagkahibaw nako ana, xa ako gbuwagan, later on she told me na ako daw unta iyaha pili-on, pero u still cudnt take off kung unsay naa sa imuha huna2 bah nga lain jud kaayu kay ang imuha gf naa pod diay lain w/o u knowing. ako xa gbuwagan to protect myself na ako masakitan kay i know man for sure dako purohan d ako iyaha ppili-on kay it seems like she was thinking na wat we had sauna was slowly dying unlike sa iyaha bago nga mura'g kilig factor pa cla.



daghan man kaagi ang tao, and wat u had experienced sauna and wat u learned out of it molds u to who u are karon... usahay it creates phobias napod nimo.


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[desperada]

ive been in this situation just august of last year...imagine akong bana for 9 years was cheated on me..and infront of my face he told me nga he love his girl soo much than me...WTF..first 2 weeks was very miserable for me...mura ko ug gihansakan sa kalibutan...2 weeks ko nga walay gana mo kaon...daghan ra cguro nang 3 ka kutsara..then sige ra ko ug loklok sa kwarto..sige ug hilak...then after that 2 weeks sige ko adto sa church pahungaw iam not praying nga magka-uli mi but just give me a strength ra jud to survived..kay super down and crushed na jud ko...then after that..i start fixing myself being beautiful is the sweetest revenge ika nga...ill try myself to stop the communication jud...no text,na chat,no emails,no calls..as in martial law jud media block out....but only one thing ra jud ang permi nko gibutang sa akong utok...between me and him..its him that he loss more...he is letting go the precious gem nyakkssss....then 3 months of recovery he realized kung unsa tong iyang gibuhian...

[miss tapya]

chrisgon: partly ing ana ang akong situation pero it's not really mine, lahi man ang sa akoa though naa lang similarity gamay, 3rd party case...

..thanks chris.... at least, naa sad ko ma share sa akong friend og sa akong self.

[ace_R30]

try to weigh things kung kaya ba nimu dawaton tanan. if u can forgive and forget.

[recca_]

daghan man kaagi ang tao, and wat u had experienced sauna and wat u learned out of it molds u to who u are karon...

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mind if i shoutout this phrase?

sis, dont b scared that u wont find anyone else who will love u coz u will....wen the time is right.give yourself the chance to be happy and if it means letting go of something seemingly good, changes can hard at the start but it doesnt mean that if things change, it will always be for the worse, it will be hard at the start but it always gets better. hope it helps.