Why guys are such a sweet talker?

[dimplesheaven]

I'm really wondering why guys are such a sweet talker... They love to prolong someone else's agony like making too many excuses/promises, saying stuff they don't mean and worse giving false hopes...

Why can't guys be just straightforward? I think it doesn't matter if what you say hurts as long as it's the truth.

It's really hard to distinguished a sincere guy to a liar, what then are the indications that they are just doing a lip service for fun? What can they gain on playing with someone else's heart?

Appreciate some inputs on these

Thankz...

[Lord_Ac]

We can't get booty without sweet talkin' darling.

[dimplesheaven]

We can't get booty without sweet talkin' darling.

So you're saying it's just for ***** thing?? Too bad

[Lord_Ac]

Never generalize. What I said was true for most guys... not EVERY guy. If you were hurt recently then maybe you haven't found the right one for you yet.

[dimplesheaven]

Never generalize. What I said was true for most guys... not EVERY guy. If you were hurt recently then maybe you haven't found the right one for you yet.

Of course I know it's not applicable to all...No one is alike.

I'm not hurt recently, it just that sometimes I really wish guys are straightforward..I think there is no harm in that...

[c0m@t0s3]

Of course I know it's not applicable to all...No one is alike.

I'm not hurt recently, it just that sometimes I really wish guys are straightforward..I think there is no harm in that...

Yeah right! You wish a guy was straightforward but if he becomes exactly just that, you'd probably turn away from him! I'm not generalizing but this is from my own experience.

So tell me then....what if you find a guy who is straightforward? What then? Will it depend on what the guy is being straightforward with?

See this dimples. It is never that simple. You cannot just make a wish & make it go away if you don't want it after all.

Trust me, in the end...you'll take a sweet talker's crap over an honest word by a straightforward guy.

Finally.....NOTHING is ever perfect.

[dimplesheaven]

Yeah right! You wish a guy was straightforward but if he becomes exactly just that, you'd probably turn away from him! I'm not generalizing but this is from my own experience.

So tell me then....what if you find a guy who is straightforward? What then? Will it depend on what the guy is being straightforward with?

See this dimples. It is never that simple. You cannot just make a wish & make it go away if you don't want it after all.

Trust me, in the end...you'll take a sweet talker's crap over an honest word by a straightforward guy.

Finally.....NOTHING is ever perfect.

Wow!!!...You have a point and yet I find it so funny. Why? Funny in a sense that some guys are afraid of being rejected just because he is being straightforward?

Yah it really depends on what he is being straightforward with, and ironically, when third party is involve they just wait when someone else finds out and let out the smoke...

Don't get offended but this is just my two cents. I know some women prefers a sweet talker but I believe there are so many ways wherein you can be honest yet chose appropriate words...

Thanks for giving me an honest answer there! Salute you for that!..

[dimplesheaven]

Bottomline is...I know in some way or another we all have secrets and lies to tell...So, I guess, you're right that I should be careful for what I'm asking..

Accept facts in plainview. Human beings do lie,it's in our nature.. It's up to the person nalang siguro to decipher when someone is lying. Kanya-kanya diskarte nalang jud..

Thanks to all those who shared their views...

[blu bizcuitz]

no were not...natural lang gyud na namo...inborn talent...kung baga...^^

[dimplesheaven]

no were not...natural lang gyud na namo...inborn talent...kung baga...^^

Inborn jud...Waahhh.. Gifted diay,bantog ra daghan jud babaye mailad...hehe