5 Questions Every Man Dreads -- and Why

[hahayLAYP]

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sakto jud si racir nga the most important question is no.3, the others i do want to know the answers to, but not that pressing.

1) Are you attracted to other women? --------------->>> you can answer this yourself. may pa di na lang nimo i-ask kay he might be forced to lie just to assuage you of doubts, i'd be disappointed if he says no, kay its totally unbelievable.

2) What happened in your past relationships? ----------------->>> i can wait until he opens the topic

3) Where (or how) do you think our relationship is going? ---------------->>> i think every girl should ask this, specially sa mga MU MU to clear things up, but not if you'r just like two weeks into the relationship pa, or you'l scare the guy away

4) What are you thinking? (Usually asked in bed...) -------------->>> you can actually ask this anytime, without appearing to be too nosy, depende sa timing.

5) Do you enjoy being with your friends more than being with me? -------------->>> you can tell this by his actions, i think. and same as no. 1 nga egging him to answer this might force him to lie. lets admit that there r just times na u'd rather be with your friends than your bf/gf.

and just want to share this quote frm my favorite columnist... "It is two (countries) or peoples that are fiercely independent -- that have their pride and identities -- that create lasting unions."

[gareb]

wil u marry me?

ACK!

<--dedo!

[wikerfish]

this is very helpful.

[pitsay]

I never asked any of these... ako pa nuon ang permi i.ask (minus the bed part though) and it annoys me... there goes the thermometer bursting ... not to mention the kakulitan of asking again and again if no answer is received!

therefore, tikboy I don't think this applies to men only ...

[anniepetilla]

dreaded questions..hmm.. i think it would be--

1. when are you taking me to meet your parents?
2. when are you going to meet MY parents? (here comes the fockers... style)
3. where've you been?
4. what happened to your paycheck?
5. are you really serious about me? ( a prelude to an im-pregnant speech)

[hera_82]

nice words of wisdom for the ladies.. sometimes, men are just too complicated.

[sanesilly3]

i think guys just hate PRESSURE..so any hint of it coming like girls asking such questions..they shut down like babies or act strange like avoid...

[gangrene]

para nako in any relationship, an open and honest communication gihapon ang pinaka importante... dapat one party should think more of what he/she can do for the relationship rather than what his partner should do for him/her... especially if you dont feel comfortable na over a thing or two, or you can sense na nga the other wanted to ask something na, be the first one to open the communication... then kamo duha sabot and set sa standard na both mo mo-agree and ma-satisfy... lisod man gud kung maghilom nalang ka pirmi, and dili ka ask kay mao na gi-set na standard sa imo partner... parehas nako, sige lang ko give in, sige lang ko hilom kay akong ex-hubby dili ganahan storyahan(those 5 questions included na ha), maski naka feel nako and nakadungog na ko story. unsa na nahappen nuon, we parted ways kay ako di na kaagwanta, while siya nag-salig na sa akong pagka-submissive mao nga he finds it irritating na moinsist nako sa akong mga questions kay nasakitan nako....

[jumps_zilla]

asking these questions shouldn't really be a problem. sure the person you ask may feel uncomfortable but if your relationship is strong then an honest answer shold suffice.

[faithfulnina]

im definitely in agreement with #2. i ask him about that often cuz i wanna hear him tell me that im the best girl in his life so far. but bein the good boy that he is, he duznt even mention anythin about his past relationships. all the better though, cuz im kinda afraid he'll tell me somethin i dowana hear. i think all girls need to be assured lang. it depends on the guys na how you put that into words without saying anything bad bout your exes.