Is it OK for a GIRL to do the first move?

[Brokensoul]

hi, brokensoul here

ako lalaki gyud ko tunay gamay

ahmm daghan man paagi nga first move para maka open ug relationship ang usa ka girl ngadto sa isa ka lalaki, basta kung pwede "Ayaw lang pagsulti ug I LOVE YOU as your first move towards him"

kay abi nimu gud, kuan man gud kanang bisan unsa pa ka mang,giulawon ang usa ka lalaki mangita gyud na sya ug paagi na makapa,abot ug mensahi gikan sa iya para sa imo, kay aron para mapasayod sa imo ang iyang tinuod ug tunhay nga gibati para sa imo,

pero akong i suggest noh, whether your in enough age like, ahm lets say basta kanang sakto na ang imong edad para maka realize sa sitwasyon if unsa siya or unsa ang iyang kapasidad sa imong nagustohan, imo gyud siyang testingan, sukdon nimo sya kung asa taman ang iyang paningkamot para maka close sya sa imo, ana gyud ka,

kay ang LALAKI MAN GYUD ANG MAG BUHI UG PAMILYA siya gyud ang HEAD sa family, so dapat maka,mao sya mangita ug paagi para makasolve ug problema, dili lang magsege ug salig sa ginikanan joke,

kay ang babae man gud, kaisa ra gyud masayup, kay if you marry the right person, then it is heaven on earth but if you marry the wrong one, it is hell forever.

para sa ako, dili gyud ok na ang babae ang mag buhat sa first move towards relationship pero kung friendship lang then GO GIRL.

[esotericlove]

hi, brokensoul here

ako lalaki gyud ko tunay gamay

ahmm daghan man paagi nga first move para maka open ug relationship ang usa ka girl ngadto sa isa ka lalaki, basta kung pwede "Ayaw lang pagsulti ug I LOVE YOU as your first move towards him"

kay abi nimu gud, kuan man gud kanang bisan unsa pa ka mang,giulawon ang usa ka lalaki mangita gyud na sya ug paagi na makapa,abot ug mensahi gikan sa iya para sa imo, kay aron para mapasayod sa imo ang iyang tinuod ug tunhay nga gibati para sa imo,

pero akong i suggest noh, whether your in enough age like, ahm lets say basta kanang sakto na ang imong edad para maka realize sa sitwasyon if unsa siya or unsa ang iyang kapasidad sa imong nagustohan, imo gyud siyang testingan, sukdon nimo sya kung asa taman ang iyang paningkamot para maka close sya sa imo, ana gyud ka,

kay ang LALAKI MAN GYUD ANG MAG BUHI UG PAMILYA siya gyud ang HEAD sa family, so dapat maka,mao sya mangita ug paagi para makasolve ug problema, dili lang magsege ug salig sa ginikanan joke,

kay ang babae man gud, kaisa ra gyud masayup, kay if you marry the right person, then it is heaven on earth but if you marry the wrong one, it is hell forever.

para sa ako, dili gyud ok na ang babae ang mag buhat sa first move towards relationship pero kung friendship lang then GO GIRL.

I agree jud nimo bro super agree kay daghan lake tuo ka mao na nya di diay worth it.. nya ug imo pod pakitaan ung maayong pagtagad mugara pod na sila feeling guapo bisag way ayo.. ANg tao kung naa gusto mulihok nag iyaha ug way gusto baliwala ra ka.. korek jud ka bro di maayo pataka lang move kay lisod nag masayop masakitan ra..

[justin08]

i think it's ok that the girl gives sign that she likes the guy...
but it should be the guy who should make the first move...

[monrose29]

its ok to give the guy sign nga u you like him but not the point nga ikaw na ang manguyab, ha hilas ra pod anang lakiha.. pero kong akoy panguyaban.. yaw lang kay kasab-an tang misis hehehehe,

seriously unfair pod sa part girl baya sometimes nga mag wait ra gyud sila panguyaban sa ilang na gustohan wat if ilang nagustohan kay torpe pod nga daku so they end up with big WHAT IF sa ilang mind if only lang unta nga na-ay naka sulti nilang duha bout their feelings,

basta girl with limitations lang pod ang inyong pag hatag go signal sa guy...but if you have done all the things na and wala pa gihapon.. ayaw nasad paka gaga girl oi.... time to move on napod guro na-a pay day daghan lalaki sa kalibutan... ka dako sa vetin..... hehehehe...

[babypaupau]

its ok to give the guy sign nga u you like him but not the point nga ikaw na ang manguyab, ha hilas ra pod anang lakiha.. pero kong akoy panguyaban.. yaw lang kay kasab-an tang misis hehehehe,

seriously unfair pod sa part girl baya sometimes nga mag wait ra gyud sila panguyaban sa ilang na gustohan wat if ilang nagustohan kay torpe pod nga daku so they end up with big WHAT IF sa ilang mind if only lang unta nga na-ay naka sulti nilang duha bout their feelings,

basta girl with limitations lang pod ang inyong pag hatag go signal sa guy...but if you have done all the things na and wala pa gihapon.. ayaw nasad paka gaga girl oi.... time to move on napod guro na-a pay day daghan lalaki sa kalibutan... ka dako sa vetin..... hehehehe...

hahahaha...i agree. murag kadungog na man ko ani not so long ago.

[treize]

ok ra kaayo oi, labi na modritso og ingon ang babaye "CHECK IN TA NA!" tubagon dayon nako og "SIGE! PAGCHECK IN DIDTO SA MENTAL HOSPITAL!"

hehehe...

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

it's different wen a girl expresses her feelings towards a guy and wen a girl makes the first move...for me, its okay for a girl to express her feelings and let the guy know how she truly feels but only until there...no more extra miles...i mean, not the point of courting the guy...a girl shud know her limitations...and she shud also be sensitive...sensitive to how the guy feels for her and how the guy is treating her...no girl wants to be treated like a "meantime/past time girl"...each one of us long to be treated as the only choice and not just an option...although, sad to say, we r only human and girls r always weak wen the heart speaks...sumtyms or shud i say most of the tym girls r blinded by their love for the guy...girls tend to become a slave of their feelings towards the guy...and wen they realize that they've done too much or wen they reach to the point of saying "enuf is enuf", it's already hard for girls to let go...but then again, it's never too late...we are all given countless chances to correct our mistakes...we stumble and fall but we can always stand up and move on...the sad thing is, there are guyz who take girls like these for granted...they use them for their temporary happiness(worst is for pleasure) and be with them at tyms of loneliness...giving girls false hopes...but kudos for these girls bcoz they love despite not being loved in return...and in the long run, wen this girl is out of the guy's life, the guy will then realize the girl's worth and reminisce how he was treated like a king and how unconditionally he was loved but it's over...the girl is gone and has moved on...living a happy life...

***just a thought...hehehe...

[RubySohoRedBalloons]

it's different wen a girl expresses her feelings towards a guy and wen a girl makes the first move...for me, its okay for a girl to express her feelings and let the guy know how she truly feels but only until there...no more extra miles...i mean, not the point of courting the guy...a girl shud know her limitations...and she shud also be sensitive...sensitive to how the guy feels for her and how the guy is treating her...no girl wants to be treated like a "meantime/past time girl"...each one of us long to be treated as the only choice and not just an option...although, sad to say, we r only human and girls r always weak wen the heart speaks...sumtyms or shud i say most of the tym girls r blinded by their love for the guy...girls tend to become a slave of their feelings towards the guy...and wen they realize that they've done too much or wen they reach to the point of saying "enuf is enuf", it's already hard for girls to let go...but then again, it's never too late...we are all given countless chances to correct our mistakes...we stumble and fall but we can always stand up and move on...the sad thing is, there are guyz who take girls like these for granted...they use them for their temporary happiness(worst is for pleasure) and be with them at tyms of loneliness...giving girls false hopes...but kudos for these girls bcoz they love despite not being loved in return...and in the long run, wen this girl is out of the guy's life, the guy will then realize the girl's worth and reminisce how he was treated like a king and how unconditionally he was loved but it's over...the girl is gone and has moved on...living a happy life...

***just a thought...hehehe...

GIRLS! sigh! Hehehehehe

[taurustippy]

..aq ana, ang boy maoy 1st move...lain sd kaau kung gurl...mao mn sd na aq...haha..bahala na bztah di aq ang mu 1st move..

[RubySohoRedBalloons]

..aq ana, ang boy maoy 1st move...lain sd kaau kung gurl...mao mn sd na aq...haha..bahala na bztah di aq ang mu 1st move..

Mas maayu kaw mu 1st move sis, e guide si dodong until sya na mudala nimu padulong sa kalipay nga way katapusan Ahem!Hehehehehehe