Guys I need your answers

[monrose29]

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swerete ka ayo imong bf in ana imong pag threat niya....

[Blackjellybean27]

Ipa-agi ug reverse psychology Mam, kon makaya nimu, e ignore xa then kon makbantay na xa why imu gi ignore mu ask man dayun na' "nganu ka?" or "you seem so cold these days lagi" ingana dayun, bz man gani ka diha sige txt2x!Hehehehehe

hahaha!
reverse psych jud. pero i think it's a good idea, i mean not showing too much love cguro noh? like sometimes ignore2x gamay.. ambot lang.. k ako, i really like to hug and kiss my bf always, as in always jud. so basin ma choke pud sya ana. hehe. ambot lang. i dunno.

[Blackjellybean27]

swerete ka ayo imong bf in ana imong pag threat niya....

aw thats a nice thing to say
i have my faults man as a gf, im not perfect.
after reading the posts here sa istorya k i've mended some ways pd. like not making kulit too much.
hehe.
kng naa ko gani d ganahan na something that he keeps on doing over and over again, d nlang ko cge kulit oi. i choose to ignore it nlng, para wlay gubot. i dont like arguing.
anyway, i think its best to let him be. mapul-an lng na in the long run?
corek ba? or thats asking for more trouble?

[monrose29]

too much of something is deli npod ma ayo... control lang...if deli na makaya aya lang sad e pugos napod kay mas sakit if padugayon pa....

[jeff_bonz59]

@TS

your just acting pretty normal to me..

more often times inorder for a relationship to grow, we have to let our partners grow themselves in as much as we like to grow with them... Let them be what they want to be...

No one is perfect as such, no relationship is 100% perfect also... Bear in mind lang.. BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, and more IMPORTANTLY, BE A GOOD GF to your BF.. be the GF he wants you to be.. THAT'S ALL.. DON'T OVERSTRESS or OVER DO it na.. AS LONG AS YOU DID YOUR PART.. then LEAVE IT that way...

remember.. YOU DON'T HAVE CONTROL OVER ANYONE OR ANYTHING.. EVEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

I know you LOVE YOUR BF very much... but nothing is REAL and there's NO GUARANTEES in this world.

Expect things to go wrong from time to time... BUT always remember.. as long as you did your part, Worst come to worst in the end... YOU don't have to blame yourself for whatever outcome it may be.

Again.. going back to my previous say before.. "if kamo jud in the long run, then Kamo jud.., "if d man gan...

then at least you did your part of the bargain and that what counts in the end..

[bhason]

ang love d na selos.. ug kay gi selosan ka, love na daun na...

wen you love someone... you give someone the time to grow sa iyang self.. d nimo kuptan or selosan kay if kanang tao para jud nimo.. no matter unsa or kinsa pa.. imo ug imo jud na..

sakto jud ni oh!

[cp103]

guys, just so you would know how i am with my boyfriend.

- ok lang mag text girls, basta d lang jud mag flirt.
- please just answer my question if i asked kng knsa nanawag. dont answer me with the word friend. (i know when he answers this, that its a girl na nag igat2x niya)
- please dnt flirt with other women in front of me (natural ra man na, out of respect)
- no chatting!! (he doesnt allow me to chat, so of course naturally no chatting pod sya right?)
- allowed to use camfrog and watch the xxx chicks there, but please no PM's! (asa ka kita that kind of gf who would allow him to look at other girls stripping on web cam??! hello, lalaki baya bf ko. normal lang inana.)
- allowed to go out with boys and boys night out, allowed to go to his hobby thingy
- i dont call or text him to ask where he is. except only if naa mi sabot of course. i dont text him period. unless its impt.
- after finishing up work, we're together na. he comes right after work. for the record, i never demanded that. he chose that he will come straight from work. naturally, ako na used ko ing ana na set up. so when he'll be a little late cause he has to go somewhere or more work to do, then a text just to let me know so i dont worry or maglibog ko kng na unsa na sya.
i only started being a lil doubtful whenever he's late after some incident (ill keep it between us nalng ha... hehe)

can you honestly tell me that's choking a guy? i think normal ra man ni na set up right?
if it is choking him, then tell me what i need to do instead. i really want to make this relationship work.

Are these all the rules that you imposed on your bf sis? I wanna say that your bf is really lucky that she has someone like you. But then again, i can't help but ask sis, how do you confront your bf when it comes to asking questions about girls? is it "tell me now or your going to be sorry way" or is it "i would really appreciate if you would be honest w/ me" kinda way?

I'm not trying to be nega sis, I'm just trying to look at all the angles, coz even if you do impose such rules, w/c for my taste is the best, it still boils down on how you confront your bf that counts. It's not only in the rules that maka.ingon ang guy nga natuok xa sa relationship, w/c for me lang jud honestly, kay wlay kwenta unsa pa na nga rules ang e.impose, coz if a guy wants to do something, he can do it and get away w/ it if he wanted to.

[Blackjellybean27]

@TS

your just acting pretty normal to me..

more often times inorder for a relationship to grow, we have to let our partners grow themselves in as much as we like to grow with them... Let them be what they want to be...

No one is perfect as such, no relationship is 100% perfect also... Bear in mind lang.. BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, and more IMPORTANTLY, BE A GOOD GF to your BF.. be the GF he wants you to be.. THAT'S ALL.. DON'T OVERSTRESS or OVER DO it na.. AS LONG AS YOU DID YOUR PART.. then LEAVE IT that way...

remember.. YOU DON'T HAVE CONTROL OVER ANYONE OR ANYTHING.. EVEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

I know you LOVE YOUR BF very much... but nothing is REAL and there's NO GUARANTEES in this world.

Expect things to go wrong from time to time... BUT always remember.. as long as you did your part, Worst come to worst in the end... YOU don't have to blame yourself for whatever outcome it may be.

Again.. going back to my previous say before.. "if kamo jud in the long run, then Kamo jud.., "if d man gan...

then at least you did your part of the bargain and that what counts in the end..

i don't have my head in the clouds that's for sure, not expecting hm to be perfect at all.. k boring man ang perfect oi. hehe.
i guess the reason i made this thread in the first place, i wanna know if i did something wrong. based on what most of you are saying, murag d man. so i guess you guys are right.
that i did my best to preserve this relationship.

[fleshbone]

there's only one thing that I can say my girl is choking me..
If she starts restricting me to hang out with my old friends...

[Blackjellybean27]

Are these all the rules that you imposed on your bf sis? I wanna say that your bf is really lucky that she has someone like you. But then again, i can't help but ask sis, how do you confront your bf when it comes to asking questions about girls? is it "tell me now or your going to be sorry way" or is it "i would really appreciate if you would be honest w/ me" kinda way?

I'm not trying to be nega sis, I'm just trying to look at all the angles, coz even if you do impose such rules, w/c for my taste is the best, it still boils down on how you confront your bf that counts. It's not only in the rules that maka.ingon ang guy nga natuok xa sa relationship, w/c for me lang jud honestly, kay wlay kwenta unsa pa na nga rules ang e.impose, coz if a guy wants to do something, he can do it and get away w/ it if he wanted to.

i dont want to think of them as rules bro. cz when we discussed these things it came out like this, i mean we agreed on this. so d xa rules, more like an agreement.
well, hahaha, if you really have to know.. i dont do the "tell me or you're going to be sorry"... I'm more like: "baby tell me the truth please, did you..."
the thing that prompted me to start this thread was when we were together, and then i was like joking around, "oi, ikaw ha. hmmm i bet you're doing this and that when im not around noh." i was laughing a bit pa gani. he looked at me, really angry and said yeah probably!! and then that's it galit na. and i was wondering why galit sya d na managad nako the whole day.
i was tired trying to cajole him, kapoy baya na wa man ko mistake in the first place. so i just let hm. actually ni cry lang ko k i didnt know what to do, k in the first place. its like, what did i do? i was thinking gani, nasuko ka k tinuod? then i said the most stupid thing in the whole world. and i said im sorry. and i didnt even know what i was sorry for. well anyway, i still said sorry. and he wouldnt even budge. silent treatment ang endng.
after a while, sya ra man nag duol nako while i was crying maybe for an hour. and he said stop crying na. then i explained to him na he shouldnt have felt angry k i was joking ra man, plus i'm glad na you told me the truth. i told him truth hurts, but i would want that rather than made a fool out of. and again, he bursts out saying you're choking me!
did2 naman nag start ang no speaking zone again. ok naman kmi for now. its been what? three days i guess. did2 lng ko na guol, whaaat? where was the part where i was choking you?
as far as i know and can remember bsta gani mag confront ko, its not in a bitchy way.
and bro that was the first time he told me that. bsta after that, i think i felt a part of me died. what i meant by that, murag naka think ko: bahala ka oi. kapoy na jud ko. so there, nag lessen gamay ang sweetness ko towards him. a lil bit cold, but not totally. i still hug him, still kiss him.. still laugh a little with him. but limited na. its like, think ko. okay im nt gonna show a lot of loving k i think its pointless when ur just gonna tell me that im choking you. ana lang, wla nako ganahan in some ways.