Do you prefer a 'Clear Glass Relationship' ?

[cp103]

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okay rman. pero i still insist PRIVACY in every relationship.

Don't get it why some people would still want to have privacy in their relationship. If there is nothing to hide, then what is the point of hiding stuff? Some people say that they invoke their right to privacy because they feel that the person is being invasive? in what sense do they mean that the person is being invasive? The person is your significant other for crying out loud. The person also has the right to know.

This is just my POV. PEACE

[Blackjellybean27]

Only reason why i don't insist on checking my boif's cellphone is: "what i don't know won't hurt me." hehehe
Like last time (coz we share the same pc) he forgot to log out his email. when i checked my mail, instead of the login page, i got his page. then the chat thing was loading. out popped offline messages which i wasnt supposed to read (duh, obviously!). naturally, that hurt me. naturally, way nako trust karon. bad bad bad. i'd rather stick to not knowing. people r always wnting the perfect relationship. i'm tired of looking for that, and being disappointed lang. what matters to me is NOW.

p.s. sometimes people, girls esp, we create our own misery. checking on our boyfriends cp, opening his mail, messenger, whatever... then getting hurt. then to him, wla lang pala, stupid flirting lang or whatever. to us, big deal to the next level. so cry2x na pod, heart breaking na pod. tsk! kapoy ana oi. live and let live. my new motto. LOL.

[ViPro_KAi]

@ Blackjellybean27


Mas mu-prefer ko ug honesty sa relationship.. I don't check messages but if I accidentally see messages like these, murag serious problem jud ni. The fact that he flirts with other girls simply means dili enough ang inyong relationship.

[Blackjellybean27]

@ Blackjellybean27


Mas mu-prefer ko ug honesty sa relationship.. I don't check messages but if I accidentally see messages like these, murag serious problem jud ni. The fact that he flirts with other girls simply means dili enough ang inyong relationship.

yup actually sis naka think jud ko ana when i discovered the offline msgs.
i cried saying what else do i need to do pa bah? para perfect ko, etc etc
sometimes some of us might think na perfect na tah, na im doing everything na gani mag inana gihapon ka, etc...
but we were able to talk about it, na realize ko naa pd ko sayop sa part ko and all ( i didnt cheat on him ha.) na resolve naman ang problem about that. or at least he was able to come up with a good excuse. hahaha! anyhow sis na accept ko man ang reason niya. pwd secret nlng ang reason. hehe.
d naman ko the kind of girl na nag ilusyon pa bout perfect relationships, so cge nlng his apology is accepted, his reason accepted pod. and i dnt see him doing hanky panky stuff naman. he doesnt even text (at least when im around hehe) so i guess its good. satisfied nako ana.

[ilovedogs]

bati rapud nang crystal clear na relationship, wlay drama! and im a sucker mala-teleserye na lovelife. nindot manang naay mystery... pra you leave something for the other person to explore pa.

[johnmarwel]

lisod na cya... everybody has a secret hidden within everyone nga di jud nimo ma share... 1 reason kai tingalig mahurt lang ang imo partner and it will lead to something unexpected... like magkabulag na nuon, misunderstandings and insecurities... mas maau nga naa jud privacy bisag gamay sa usag usa.... No one is an open book.. i guess... hehehhe...

[urysei]

ofcourse! unless you yourself have skeletons hidden then you won't agree on a clear glass relationship. but if you are honest to goodness and open then you deserve the same thing... nahan d ai ka nga mag milagro imo uyab sa imong luyo?

[winged_lion2l]

bitaw, what you dont know wont hurt you.... sa akong pagka paki-alamero dah sakpan buwag lage...

karon balik na me ako nasad hadlok masakpan... wa ta kabalo mao sad binuhatan sa usa... hahahaha

bitaw, its near to impossible siguro kung gulang na mo then nagdawat nalang mo ug pension and all day sa balay nalang mo kana guro basin....

[karwren]

No Secrets; No Lies; No Hidden Agenda;

What are your opinions about it?

....I prefer this.

Works for me and hubby.