Merged: All Love Stories

[opawlicious]

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aozora and raindrizzle, thnk u so much for ur pov's and opinions... coz naka realize ug ka huna2x ug mga butang nga la ko ka bantay sauna... and maybe she's not into me like im into her... im not rushing her to fall for me daun2x... thou imo wishing... just wish me luck na lang guys that we can get-over this.. again... daghan salamat amigo ug amiga...

[miss tapya]

ngek.. why mn nag storya mo about ani sa gawas.. if you plan to talk it with him again, better sa place na mkadagan ka para mohilak, or kung ma pass out mn gani ka, safe ang place.. also, talk with him na naa kay i conclude kung ipadayon pa na ninyo or dili...

y not talk it with your girlfriends first? am sure maka help na sila nimo ug decide...

it just happen nga ..nag walk out ko... and xa pud nag walk out. kay mosakay nalang tana ko og jeep. ... as for my girlfriends..ako na sila na storyahan that matter. Ang ila sad gikalagutan ang girl. Kay ug sila pa daw naa sa akong situation, maayo kay maka control pa daw kono ko,. ila na gyud daw kono to gi away ang girl. as for the case of their kuya... hunahunaon sa lage daw kono nako. ... daghan man gud sad ko i consider, murag sood nasad ko sa iyahang family though magkinto pa gihapon ko. and wala pa sad nako nasulti kini nga matter kay mahadlok ko kasab an xa sa iyahang lola which is d ko ganahan nga ako pay hinongdan nganong kasab an xa.
Though i had consulted sa ate ate nya sa iyang workplace. Na mention man diay nya nga grabe na daw nako ka selosa. Though tama man iyang bossing... nga naa xa mali. wala nya gitarong og pailaila sa ako ang close friend konohay nya.... which is ako na ang me try og reach out..ako pa ang gibastos....



@jeff: that is what i been thinking, ako pa jud gi timbang timbang. assuming nga close friends ra gyud sila (mga 3 months... closefriends na.. )... but para sa ako dli lang gyud ko ganahan the way THAT girl treated me. .... ok ra lagi tana og text text nga layo cge assuming pero my goodness, kalapit room lang..... ... og wala pa jud nako nasakpi wala ko gi storyahan. ..

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[RainDrizzle07]

aozora and raindrizzle, thnk u so much for ur pov's and opinions... coz naka realize ug ka huna2x ug mga butang nga la ko ka bantay sauna... and maybe she's not into me like im into her... im not rushing her to fall for me daun2x... thou imo wishing... just wish me luck na lang guys that we can get-over this.. again... daghan salamat amigo ug amiga...

np paw basta ikaw.. bwahahah...

bitaw... wish you all the luck

God Bless!!!

[RainDrizzle07]

sweetheart... naa kay point.. surprise visit nalang lagi..
pero prangka pagka storya... ug ako pud naa sa imong lugar
ako na ng gicheck...and 2ndly... I won't be in a relationship wherein wla ko peace of mind ^_^
translation: there is no 2nd chances as well. ^_^

dli nako hasol hasolon akong kaugalingon ug hunahuna... magsakit2x lang ko nako..
unsa on mana nakong taas na kaayo mi ug ka agi lagi..pero sa dha2x daun...nahanaw tungod sa pang panapaw... dli ko manghinayang jud...

I will probably cry a river for a month...do some reflections on what really happend then after... I let go.. move on...

Pero as I have said.. sa akoa ra nah... ug mao nay mahitabo nako sitwasyona...

lahi ka..lahi sad ko... ^_^

[miss tapya]

i hate surprise visits kay basin ako ang ma surprise.. neways i been thinking of that. coz naa man sad ko close nga boardmate nya... babae pud actually, which is i wonder nga mga molambing gali xa sa ako bf sa una pero wala ra jud ko nasuko simply because kaila ko nya....

neways, thanks raindrizzle.... yeah tama ka.. lahi ka lahi sad ko. IN as much as kaya pa nako timbang timbangon timbangon sa lang gyud. I am considering the feelings of his family as well...

[aozora]

to miss tapya...

long short distance relationship (unsa diay na?). sa bisaya, taas mubo... mo-taas dayon mo-mubo.
dli man cguro na long distance kay 1 hour raman ang travel.
you can have a normal relationship with that.

i don't think pud na matawag na ug relationship when you don't see each other that much.
at least you have to see each other 2 or 3 times a week kung naa moy relationship.
there's no reason nga dli mo magkita. well naa reason, and that is, wla na ganahani ang guy nimo or vice versa.
and deep inside naa pud kay problema niya na dli pud ka ganahan niya. he's not that interested in you or you are not that interested in him also or naay problem niya that keeps you from loving him. hhahaha... libog na.
and long distance relationship does not work! well, naay ni work pero 1 out of 100. do you want to take the risk?

it's good to know that you know you are rationalizing. but does it make you feel better?
does it give you better judgment? i don't think so. stop rationalizing and get to the bottom of it!

the first time you knew nga naay gikalingawan imong bf, that was the end of it!
haven't you realized that he has cheated already?
can you accept cheating? coz if you can, you also lose your respect.
and it will repeat over and over until...

btw, stop confronting and probing your bf and the 3rd party gurl. coz the point of the problem is, your bf has cheated on you.
even if the 3rd party girl does/did not like your bf, your bf will eventually look for another one.

now on to the two words: move on!


hihihi...
this is just my input.
it really depends on the whole situations (with your bf's side of the story) if you want to save your relationship.
dba? it takes two to tango?

[miss tapya]

thanks aozora.. para sa akoa long distance man gihapon na.. kay layo man. ...

it does not make me feel better coz cge rako og iyak and nalooy nako sa akong self. But still am giving him the benefit of the doubt. .

neways... cge lang... thanks sa inyo.. i hope and pray il come to my senses and maka decide na gyud ko what to do....

well neways, am on the process of astronot karon.. ako gi try nga d ko makig communicate nya as much as kaya nako. last time ako diay to xa giingnan.. pangitaon sa ko niya og unsa og asa ko sa iyang life....

[IBILAIDIE]

grabe pud nimo ka understanding sa imo BF.. hehehe.. kung ang laki naay "close friend" then wla gi pa ila2 nimo, naa jud na problema... ni insist sad ba imo uyab na ipa ilaila ka para ma OK naka? if wla lahi jud na sya...

try to ask somebody na mkakita niya pirmi kung unsa ila observation between sa imo uyab ug katong girl nalng sa karon..

[aozora]

correct me if i'm wrong miss tapya.

pag pangutana nimo sa imong bf ug ".. KAnus a paka mang chix og mamenyo na.."?
are you asking him indirectly nga ganahan naka mag menyo namo? right?

gi literal ra cguro niya ug sabot. hahaha.
you could have said "how about us getting married?" para klaro.
but kung ganahan jud cya nga mag menyo namo, ang iyang tubag could have beeen, "ang chix kay naa ra sa akong atubangan" or sumthing like that.

@RainDrizzle07
dli man cguro immature ang guy and very very pajud.
same type rana cya sa someone in a long-term relationship(3 years or more) nga dli maka sulti ug "i don't love you anymore" directly kay sayangan sa time and investment.

so if your relationship does not move to a higher level after 2~3 years... what's the point of beating around the bush?

[RainDrizzle07]

@RainDrizzle07
dli man cguro immature ang guy and very very pajud.
same type rana cya sa someone in a long-term relationship(3 years or more) nga dli maka sulti ug "i don't love you anymore" directly kay sayangan sa time and investment.

so if your relationship does not move to a higher level after 2~3 years... what's the point of beating around the bush?

Got ur point pal, still for me he is immature or not man enough to tell her to her face what he is really feelin...if he still into her or he likes someone already...kay if he is mature, he would have probably told him na oie... na mo quit nako...(harsh bitaw neh..pero I would rather be told straight than lied too, mas sakit man ata ng ingon ana ^_^ )

I agree with you sa last paragraph...the very reason why, ni ingon ko na... mohilak cguro ko ug a month or so..pero after mo move on nako..nsaon mana nako ang gdugayon sa relationship if its not a quality one... dba? nya gbinoangan pa jud ko...^_^

same ta situation sa ako 1st bf pag 19 nako miss tapya, almost 2 years mi ato..pero I broke up with him jud... when I find out na he cheated on me, my reason was, gpasagdaan na gani ka na magtext2x ka bsag knsa..nya dli pa jud ka mosulti nako na nakgmeet ka..tsk..tsk..tsk.. (though looking back I know na I am partly to blame,kay ako ra xa gpasagdaan sa iyang textmate, but then again...mao baya iyang happiness...kana laging dli open inyo communication bah..)